Kubaka umubano uhuza mumuryango - ikintu kigoye gisaba uruhare rwabashakanye bombi. Mu myaka 10 ishize, habaye ubwiyongere bukabije bwo gutandukana, impamvu zirashobora kuba nyinshi kandi bose ni umuntu ku giti cyabo, nyamara ku isi, ariko gutandukana ku isi, gutandukana kwamarangamutima hagati ya Abantu ba hafi cyane kwisi.
Dukurikije ibyavuye mu bushakashatsi n'ubushakashatsi bwabahanga mu mibereho, iyo havutse ibibazo muri rusange, 10% gusa by'ababajijwe gusa barimo gukora ibikorwa byiza bigamije gushyiraho ibiganiro, mu zindi manza zishyushye gusa ikirere kibi gusa. Twahisemo kumenya uburyo bwo gukumira iterambere ryamakimbirane kandi tugerageza gukomeza umuryango.
Kwireba wenyine
Mugihe cyo gutongana cyangwa ibindi bibazo byumuryango, sinshaka kwemera ko igice cyicyaha mubyabereye. Ni ngombwa kumva ko mugenzi wawe ari mukuru, impinduka zabo ntacyo zimaze gusa, uzarakaza gusa kubibi. Erekana gahunda mubihe iyo ubonye igisubizo cyikibazo cyamahoro. Nk'uburyo, igice cya kabiri cyunvikana kumyumvire n'aho bafatanyabikorwa ba mugenzi wabo, bityo, uwo mwashakanye azemeranya nawe kandi akanga ingamba zishaje cyangwa no gutandukana. Erekana urugero.
Fata umwanya munini wenyine
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Erekana imico y'abagore
Ntibitangaje kubona imico yabagore mubyukuri yafatwaga amayeri, guhinduka no mubitekerezo bizima. Birumvikana ko tutavuga ku manza iyo uba mu kirere cy'igitutu gihoraho - ku mubiri n'amarangamutima - nta buryo bwumvikana muri uru rubanza, ariko niba udashobora kwemera undi muntu wo kureba no kumva Kubitekerezo bivuye kubice, kora wenyine - Ubukwe bukomeye busaba abafatanyabikorwa, ariko cyane cyane kumugore, kwigaragaza guhinduka nubushobozi bwo gusangira ibitekerezo byabafatanyabikorwa ba mugenzi wabo bitewe nibibazo.
Vuga, vugane kandi na none - Vuga
Ntabwo twize gusoma ibitekerezo kubandi bakuru, bityo inzira yonyine yo gusobanura ibintu bidahuye kandi bikomeye, ni ngombwa kuvugana numufatanyabikorwa mugihe kandi ukamenya impamvu kubwo kutanyurwa. Wibuke, birashoboka ko wibajije uko ibintu bidasobanuye - kuki atavugana nanjye? Kuki yitwara bidasanzwe? Bahita baza bafite impamvu yatumye nta kuri. Nkigisubizo, wiziritse kandi umaze gusuka ibibi byawe kandi bibabaza mugenzi wawe, bikabitera gusiganwa. Buri gihe uganire ku mibanire yawe.
Gerageza kuguma wenyine kenshi
Uyu munsi, kubura umwanya ni imwe mumpamvu nyamukuru zituma habaho gusobanukirwa hagati yabashakanye: wowe na mugenzi wawe bamarana umunsi wose kukazi, bityo ibikorwa bihuriweho nibyingenzi byingenzi kuri bombi. Nubwo waba ufite abana kandi icyarimwe ntushobora kugira ingaruka kuri gahunda yawe yakazi, burigihe usange amasaha abiri mucyumweru kubakoresha hamwe, ntamuntu numwe ugomba kuguhagarika. Ikibaho, gihujwe nubukwe bukomeye mumarangamutima, biroroshye cyane guhangana nibibazo mubucuti kandi bisanga ururimi rusanzwe.