Tumenyereye ko ahanini tukikijwe n'inkumi z'abakobwa. Ku bagabo bafite ikintu nkicyo, societe yibagirwa, mubisanzwe, cyane cyane iyo umuntu amaze igihe kinini ava mumyaka y'ubusore. Nubwo ntakintu gitangaje muri ibi - umugabo, nkumugore, ntabwo yavutse afite imibonano mpuzabitsina, kandi arahatanira mubuzima bwe. Byagenda bite se niba uwahisemo "yakijije" mugihe cyo gukundana? Ese umubano nk'uwo wemeranya kuri ubwo busabane nuburyo bwo kwitwara muburyo? Tuzagerageza kubimenya.
Niba wemera imibare, urubyiruko rutandukana nubusugi ahantu 18, kare kurusha abakobwa. Ariko, hari no kubantu kubwimpamvu runaka bitabigeze mu ishuri ryatinze no muri chitiateur imyaka. Niba utangiye umubano numuntu, witonda cyane kandi byoroshye.
Kora ikirere gisanzwe
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Ntunyibuke ibyongeye
Ku mugabo, kuba hari ubusugi bushobora kuba ukuri guterwa isoni. Niba we ubwe yarakwemereye ko nta myumvire yigeze mu mibonano mpuzabitsina, nta mpamvu yamusutse ku cyiciro "Kubera iki?", "Ufite imyizerere?" Kandi byose muri roho. Ugomba gutanga kumva ko ntacyo ubona ndengakamere muriki gihe, bityo bizeza umuntu.
Emerera kwerekana ingamba
Nubwo waba wifuzaga gutangira kwiga ako kanya, fata kwihangana no guha umugabo gukora wenyine, gusa kubiyobora gato. Mureke akumve nk'igice cyiganje mu buriri. Niba uhora ufata uruhare runini, umuntu ntaziga "kuyobora."
Kuba amayeri
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Humura
Sobanukirwa ko "amahugurwa" yawe atazuzura nikizamini. Ntabwo ari ngombwa cyane uburyo bukomeye kandi bushinzwe kugenzura iki kibazo, nubwo bigoye kwitwa. Niba uri mubihe birenze urugero, iyi leta izoherezwa kuri mugenzi wawe, gerageza rero kongera byoroshye kandi ugume karemano.
Gukangura byinshi
Abahanga bafata kimwe mu bakozi beza ba kamere - vino itukura. Kandi byanze bikunze byumye. Gusa ntutere ibihe mwembi muzaba muburyo budashobora kuba. Noneho ntibikwiye kubara ku mibonano mpuzabitsina yo mu rwego rwo hejuru. Itegereze igipimo.
Ntugereranye nabandi bagabo
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Nta kunegura!
Nubwo ibitugu byawe imyaka myinshi yuburambe hamwe nabahagarariye kimwe cya kabiri cyikiremwamuntu, nta nkomyi igomba gutangwa. Umukunzi wawe mushya ntambere aragusaba gutangaza. Wibuke ko na urwenya rutagira ingaruka cyane muri aderesi ye cyangwa kugereranya nabandi bagabo bawe ntushobora gukubitwa no kwihesha agaciro cyane.