Iyo twumvise ibya Franzow, tutabibutse kutabibuka urubyiruko rubabaje rwabatuye urubyiruko, aho umusore atatsinzwe murukundo numukobwa amufata inshuti gusa. Ariko, mubuzima busanzwe hariho ibintu bitari bike cyane aho umukobwa asanzwe ari kuntebe "ikigega".
Biragoye rwose kwimukira kurwego rushya rwumubano numuntu utagushimishije nkumugore, ariko ntakintu kikubuza kugerageza guhindura ibintu. Tuzakubwira inzira eshanu zingirakamaro zo guhatira inshuti yawe, kuko udashobora kwishongora bidasanzwe, urebe hamwe nandi maso.
Ntabwo uri "ikoti"
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Ntagomba kukubona inshuti
Kubwamahirwe, umubano wuje urugwiro uri munzira yo gukorana nimiterere ya hafi. Mu ntangiriro, Frendzon ntabwo isobanura ubucuti muburyo busanzwe bwumvikane, kuko itandukaniro riri hagati yawe cyane, ritangirira ku gitsina no kurangiza mubuzima. Gusa bake cyane bagaragaza ubucuti hagati yimibonano mpuzabitsina mugihe cyimyaka, mubihe byinshi, ntacyo ufite cyo gutakaza ikiruhuko. Ariko hariho amahirwe yo kuba inshuti ya ex-ikintu kinini.
Hagarika
Mu maso y'umuntu, kugandukira umugore birashoboka kandi bifatwa nkibisanzwe ari uko tuvuga nyina, mubindi bihe byose, kubara cyane bizahinduka inzitizi nini kugirango tubone umugore muri wewe, ibyo ashaka kugeraho.
Ntabwo uri "vest"
Kubabarana rwose ni ngombwa kumubano uwo ari wo wose, ariko mugihe utangiye gukoresha gusa nkibikorwa byo guhumurizwa, ninzira ntahantu na hamwe. Arakubwira ibijyanye nibibazo bye byumwuga, gutongana nabakobwa, kandi ugomba kubyumva kandi ko binsubiza hafi buri gihe. Muri icyo gihe, umugabo muri uru rubanza ntahutira gutega amatwi ibirego byawe - nyuma ya byose, yaje kuvuga akagenda.
Mugihe uhuye nuko umuntu agukoresha, reka kwakira "posterker" ako kanya.
Ntukihutire guhamagara bwa mbere
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Ntugomba guhora uhuza
Kugerageza guteza umufatanyabikorwa ushobora kuba umufatanyabikorwa, akenshi dutanga igihe n'inyungu zacu, ariko kubahiriza ntabwo byigeze bisuzumwa. Ntabwo ukeneye guterera ibibazo byawe byose kugirango ukemure ibibazo bye: Reka yumve ko uri umuntu ufite ubuzima bwanjye, ariko witeguye gufasha, ariko abaticaye ku ijosi. Umugabo azatangira kukubaha mbere, hanyuma azashimishwa, bishobora kuba ingenzi kumurusha mubuzima bwawe.
Ntureke ngo inama "z'abagore"
Dufate ko asaba gufasha impano ya mugenzi we kumunsi wamavuko. Ntugomba guhita wicarana nawe kumeza ukaganira, kandi niki nakyanda uyu mugore na gato. Ufashijwe nubufasha bwawe, uzagira uruhare mu gufata umwanzuro ushoboka hamwe nundi mugore. Uharanira ibi? Nta gushidikanya ko azagira igitego cya mukoranabutatu cya bagenzi bacu bashobora gukemura iki kibazo kandi batayitabira.
Reka kuba undi
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