Ibibazo byose biva mubana - abahanga mu bya psychologue babitekereza. Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa kuva ageze mu kigero cyo kurera umwana mu rukundo no kumugurira urukundo kumutima. Abagore bakora iki gikorwa bonyine biragoye: Hariho izindi nshingano zabo ku bitugu, biri murwego rwamasaha 24 - akenshi ni umurimo udashongowe. Vuga ibyifuzo byoroshye bizahindura umuryango wawe ibyiza.
Ntukarengere
Mugihe urimo uvuga se wumwana ufite kwangwa cyangwa rwose bihisha amakuru kuri we avuye kumwana, urambura umuntu kavukire. Nubwo wavugaga gute, uri umuntu utandukanye, ariko ntabwo ari umwana ubwe. Gutangazwa burundu amakuru mabi bizasubika ibi bikurikira mukwibuka umwana: abantu nkabo ntibashobora kubona abashakanye kuva kera, kuko batinya kubabeshya no kubabara kimwe na nyina. Uhe uwahoze ari umugabo cyangwa umusore. Amahirwe yo Guhura n'Umwana. Igikorwa cyawe nugufata uko ibintu bimeze no guhagarika kwanga, uwahoze ari umuntu wahoze akora. Ukimara kumva ko utitaye ku muntu, na nyuma imbere muri wowe, ubuzima buzaba byoroshye. Ni nako bigenda kuri bene wabo - sogokuru, nyirasenge na nyirarume bafite uburenganzira bwo kuvugana n'umwana. Cyane cyane niba bahoranye neza numwana.
Yayoboye uwahoze ari umugabo - ntampamvu yo kubiganiraho "nabi" kumwana
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Ntugerageze gusimbuza umugabo
Uri umugore, ntabwo ari robot: Ntibishoboka gukora inshingano ebyiri icyarimwe. Ba ku mwana ukunda abantu bakuru, ushishikajwe n'ubuzima bwe kandi agerageza gukomeza ibihe. Ntakintu giteye ubwoba niba umuhungu wawe yatsinze imisumari na Glue wallpaper azokwigisha sogosha cyangwa nyirarume. Niba uzi kubikora wenyine, wibagirwe urwikekwe rw'imibonano mpuzabitsina kandi werekane byose! Turimo kuvuga gusa mugihe umugore yafashe imirimo yabagabo, agerageza kuba ikiboko, na gingobread. Wiyiteho kandi ntukabikene mugukurikirana umubyeyi mwiza - imitekerereze yawe ifite ubuzima bwiza izaha umwana kurenza ubushobozi bwo gutsinda imisumari.
Kuri njye
"Nibyo, nagerageje ubuzima bwanjye bwose kuri wewe!" - Abana bo muri ba nyina basigaye bonyine bakunze kumva iyi nteruro ibabaje. Icyemezo cyo kubyara umwana ni icyemezo cyawe gusa, ntabwo ari ugushaka umugabo we, Mama cyangwa abaturanyi mu gihugu. Ntabwo ari ngombwa "kugerageza ubuzima bwanjye bwose" kugirango ukure umwana ufite umuntu ukwiye. Nibyiza kumwereka kurugero rwanjye ko umuntu nyamukuru mwisi kuri we ubwe. Nta bitekerezo byimitekerereze yabivuze ko twavutse twenyine kandi tugapfa twenyine. Wikunde mbere ya byose, witondere ubuzima bwawe, iterambere ryo mumutwe no mumubiri.
Kangura iterambere ry'umwana
Ntukamubuze gukora ibyo akunda. Kubyina, kuririmba, gushushanya cyangwa no kwerekana indege - birashobora gutwarwa nibintu byose. Kubona urubanza rukunzwe, umwana azafata igice cyigihe cye cyubusa - bityo ntibikababara mugihe utinda kukazi cyangwa kugenda kumunsi uhari. Mbere yuko umwana amenyera mubuzima bwigenga na gahunda yawe bwite, kimwe na we. Aziga kuvugana nabandi bantu kandi ntagwa mubyifuzo, iyo bimaze kuba wenyine.
kurambura ukuboko kwabana
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Kwishura amasomo ya psychologue
Benshi baracyatekereza ko kujya mumitekerereze ya psychologue - ntabwo. Ntabwo ibintu byose byabayeho kandi birashobora kuganira nawe. Mumuhe amahirwe yo kubona ibyifuzo byujuje ubuziranenge bijyanye no gucunga amarangamutima yawe, kurwanya imihangayiko no kwidagadura. Mubisanzwe bihagije amezi 1-2 yamasomo kubona impinduka.