Reka dutangire ko abagabo bafite imyumvire itandukanye kumafaranga: Ntabwo barangaga cyane gusesagura, birakwiriye kubibazo byo gukoresha neza. Ntabwo bamara gusa, bashora imari. Kandi akenshi umugore ukunda nishora ishoramari kuri bo. Nubwo amafaranga angahe, azahora agerageza kugira icyo akorera umugore we.
Igihe kirageze cyo mumitekerereze
Ugomba guhitamo ubwoko bwubukonje ufite ubucuruzi. Birashoboka ko uri "amahirwe": Kuva muburyo butandukanye wahisemo Zada yada. Ntabwo bashimishije mu itumanaho n'umururumba muri byose. Umugabo nkuyu ntazigera atumira resitora, kandi niba itumirwa, noneho ibirego bijyanye n'amafaranga yo hejuru uzumva mumafunguro. Kandi konte uzagabanamo kabiri. Ahari azareka na gato - nyuma ya byose, birahenze cyane. Umururumba ufite umururumba wumugabo Zaien ntabwo ari amafaranga gusa, ahubwo no kwerekana ibyiyumvo n'amarangamutima. Hano umururumba - ikibazo ni imitekerereze, kandi ntakintu nakimwe cyo gufata umugore mubucuti numuntu nkuyu. Gusa psychotherapiste birashobora gufasha.
Hamwe no gushyira mu gaciro birashobora kumvikana
Hariho ikindi cyiciro cyabagabo - gushyira mu gaciro. Ni ubukungu kandi kurwego runaka. Kandi ubukungu no gupfuka mubuzima bwa buri munsi ntabwo buri gihe ari bibi: bivuze ko umugabo atekereza ejo hazaza, ashyira intego. Hamwe numuntu nkuyu ushobora kubona ururimi rusanzwe. Ukeneye gusa kubitanga kugirango wumve ko utari uguhindura. Yaguze inkweto zo kugurisha, fata umwambaro murugo kugirango ukore kugirango utajya muri cafe. Kubantu wubukungu, inkuru nkizo nka marike ku bugingo: Kumva, yumva ko umugore nk'uwo ashobora gukurikiza ingengo y'imari, kuko uri icyarimwe, usunze cyane, usunze cyane. Birumvikana ko azibuka ikiguzi cy'impano kandi birashoboka cyane, azagerageza gukiza ikintu runaka, ariko buri gihe yiteguye gushimisha amahitamo ye. Ahari sinzagura ibyatsi, byongeye guhamagara ntizita muri resitora, ariko rero bizatanga ikintu gikwiye.
Guhunga kuva kutitaho
Hariho ubwoko bwa gatatu bwumururumba. Irashobora kwitirirwa abarugoye guhamagara ibibyimba, kuko umururumba bagaragaza gusa bijyanye numugore utashimishijwe cyane. Abagabo nkabo bishimiye gukoresha ubwabo, ababo, muburyo bumwe, ariko ntutekereze ku mugore. Ntibamushimira, ntibashaka gushimisha. Akenshi mumibanire nkuyu, umugore ubwayo agaragaza gahunda: kugura impano, guhora umara. Kandi umugabo yemerera gukunda. Kandi ntabwo ari alfons, atitaye kuri uyu mugore, ntabona ibisobanuro muri byo gushora imari. Duhereye kuri ibi bihe, inzira imwe gusa ni ugushaka umugabo uzitwara ukundi. Muri ubwo buryo, umugore atara amafaranga n'igihe, ahubwo anakoreshwa imbaraga. Kwiyubaha byaragabanutse, bitangira gusa nkaho bidakwiriye urukundo, kwitaho, impano za banal. Yumva atishimye, kandi umubano uhinduka uburozi buhoro buhoro. Birakenewe gusobanukirwa nikintu cyingenzi: Umugabo ashora muri uriya mugore ashaka kuba. Niba umugabo agushimishije - ntabwo azagumana nawe.