Hariho ubwoko bwinshi bwibyitwa Igihano cyo guhanga . Hamwe nigihano nkicyo, abana ntibagomba gushinga imizi, ahubwo babaha amahirwe yo kugenzura imyitwarire yabo mubihe bisa nikosa ryemewe. Rimwe na rimwe, ni byiza guhindura inshingano, reka abana babe ababyeyi mugihe gito kandi bazashyiraho gahunda munzu. Urashobora gukoresha imyitozo mito yo kwifata, kugumya kwifuzwa mu buryo butaziguye, bidahwitse, bidatekerejwe. Ikibazo ntabwo ari uguhana cyangwa kutabiha, ahubwo ni uburyo bwo guhana inyungu kubana, kubabyeyi ndetse numuryango wose.
Kubuza - Imwe mu buryo bwanze uburere butemewe bwo kureremba. Kurugero, niba ushaka ko umwana ahora asambana mbere yo kurya, ugomba gukora icyiswe kuyobora. Akenshi ushobora kumva kubabyeyi kubwinteruro: "Noneho tuzarya, ariko ubanza ugomba gukaraba intoki, kandi niba ipfundo ryanduye, kuko ushobora kurwara ..." ariko ngaho ni ikosa hano. Mama yerekana umwana ko amaboko adashobora gukaraba, kandi umwana arashaka kumenya mubyukuri, bizagenda bite aramutse abukaraba. Mubihe nkibi, birakwiye kurushaho kwitwara muburyo hariho imyitwarire imwe gusa: Ntibishoboka kurya niba amaboko atakarabe. Kubuza byambere bigomba kuba bifatika kandi byukuri.
Porofeseri Alla Spivakovskaya
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Ikindi gihano ni Dosage "kwamburwa urukundo" . Iyo ibikenewe byumwana bisanzwe bikozwe, uburyo bwo kugaburira, kuryama, nibindi, ariko icyarimwe ntibitondera. Ariko, ntakibazo gishobora "kurenga." "Intumwa z'urukundo" nigikoresho gikomeye, birakenewe kuyikoresha witonze kandi udakoreshwa kubana bato. Kumva kandi ufatanije cyane mwana, ndetse n'amagambo "urambabaje" urashobora gutera uburambe bwimbitse.
Ibihano ntigomba gushidikanya. Kurugero, niba umwana yakiriye "gutandukana", ababyeyi bakeneye kubikora bikora imirimo yinyongera, sobanura ibikoresho. Igenzura rikomeza ntirizatera rwose umwana inzika no kwigaragambya. Ariko ubutabera bwo guhagarika kugenda cyangwa gutembera muri sinema ntibigaragara na gato. Ibihano bisa ntabwo bifasha umwana guhangana ningorane, ariko, kubinyuranye, bitera abashya.
Imyitozo yimyitozo yo kwiteza imbere kwifata ababyeyi
Iyi myitozo izemerera ababyeyi kwiga gutekereza mbere yo gukora intambwe yikibuga, guhana abana babo. Iyo ushaka gukora amagambo y'umwana, kuyikubita urushyi, shyira mu mfuruka, hagarara, mbwira uti: "Icyo nzakora:" Ibaze ibyo byiyumvo bizagira umwana wawe. Nizeye ko nyuma yiki kibazo utazashaka kwitabaza ibikorwa nkibi. Ahari uzashyira imbaraga ahubwo uzagakubita urushyi, guhobera umwana wawe, aho kuvuga amagambo arambiranye urabishima. Uzitabira uburyo bwo kuyishyigikira no kubona ibisubizo bimwe. Kandi aho gushyira mu nguni, mbwira ko uzi neza ko uwusa atazigera azongera kubaho, kandi umuhe ikintu cyose kitazibagirana.