Ntabwo buri gihe mu rukundo rwacu kunanirwa gushinja ibihe cyangwa abandi bantu - cyane cyane natwe ubwacu ntibushobora kubaka ubuzima bwiza hamwe nundi muntu. Twahisemo kumenya impamvu ziba inzitizi munzira yibyishimo.
Ntushobora kureka umubano washize.
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Uracyakomeje umubano washize
Kenshi cyane, gutandukana bibaho kandi bibabaza, biragukurura cyane kuburyo udashobora gukira igihe kirekire. Ibyiyumvo kubakunzi ba mbere ntabwo ako kanya. Kubaka umubano mushya, birakenewe kurekura burundu ibya kera, niba rero wumva ko ntasobanukiwe neza na kahise kawe, ntukajye intambwe mugihe kizaza. Ibintu byose bifite umwanya.
Ntacyo ukora
Ni kangahe twumva inshuti ko ibintu byose ari bibi, nta sano kandi idateganya, kandi abantu ubwabo ntibagerageza kwigaragaza ubuzima bwihariye. Niba wicaye murugo, umuntu wawe wirota akwiye kumenya ate kubaho kwawe?
Iyo ushizeho intsinzi, nturinde gukundana, gusubiza ibimenyetso byo kwitabaza, umunsi umwe urubanza ruzava mubyapfuye.
Ntabwo wumva icyo ushaka
Akenshi, ibyo twiteze kumibanire ntabwo bihuye nibyo umufatanyabikorwa. Birashoboka ko urimo gushaka urukundo rwubuzima bwawe bwose, kandi umugabo wawe atanga neza "kumenyana", nubwo muhuye cyangwa kubana igihe kirekire.
Ntugatakaze umwanya kubantu batabona neza ibyiyumvo byawe kandi ntukabe "Spare AllefEld."
Ntukicare murugo utegereje igikomangoma
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Biteye ubwoba kwinjira mubusabane bushya.
Dufate ko wahuye numuntu mwiza: uragukunda, nawe, ntushobora kuruhuka imbere ye. Nyizera, umukunzi wawe yumva kandi atumva impamvu uri mubihe. Kuva hano, igitekerezo gishobora guteza imbere ko ntacyo akubereye.
GERAGEZA CYANGWA UFASHA UMWANDITSWE kugirango umenye impamvu yo kutizerana kwawe birashoboka cyane ko arimpamvu iri mubihe byashize.
Ntutinye gufungura
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Ntabwo ukurura abagushimishije
Iyo ibi bibaye rimwe, ntakintu giteye ubwoba muribi, ariko mugihe ibintu bisubirwamo rimwe na rimwe, birakwiye gutekereza kubyo ukora nabi. Birumvikana ko bigoye guhindura ibintu mugihe udashishikajwe numuntu kubwimpamvu zimwe, ntakintu kidashoboka hano, ariko ibi ntibisobanura ko bikwiye guta umuntu ukurura. Buri wese muri twe afite uburyohe bwabo, ntibishoboka gukunda buriwese, gusa ndashaka kandi uzasanga umuntu wawe azahinduka ibisobanuro byubuzima.