Ariko rimwe na rimwe ibihe byacu cyangwa byashize igice cya kabiri nigice cyingenzi cyubuzima, kwerekana nigihe kizaza - kuba bidashoboka guhagarika, ntushobora kwanga.
Ijambo ku bana. Birumvikana ko abana ari umunezero, indabyo z'ubuzima, ariko kubabyeyi babo gusa, ba sogokuru. Ingingo. Urutonde ntirukomeza. Abana bakomeje ubwoko bwingenzi bwumuryango ukomeye. Imiryango nyina na se babana kandi bishimye.
Iyo, mubusabane bw'ababyeyi, hari imvururu kandi ushaka kubaho cyane, tukabababarira hamwe, kuko mu bihe nk'ibi, ariko mu bihe nk'ibi, kuko umuntu n'ababyeyi barashaka Gutandukana no gutandukana, abana barashya. Kuberako inzira yo gutandukana ibarwamu - kubera ko ari nto, kuko izabatera ihungabana rikomeye ryo mu mutwe, kuko bihuriye n'imihindagurikire y'imitekerereze n'imitekerereze isanzwe, ababyeyi bombi bakeneye ku bugingo bwabo hafi kandi bifuzwa. N'ubundi kandi, umwana ntazabeshya.
Gukora neza neza kutazahisha ibice hamwe numwuka wegamiye. Umwana rwose azabyumva ko hari ibitagenda neza. Muri rusange, muri rusange, bitinde bitebuke, ababyeyi bazatandukana. Bizakoroha, ariko ibi ntibihagije. Mubihe bimwe, abahoze bashakanye barota ntibabona undi, ariko umwana cyangwa abana bakomeje kuba + Voltage no kurakara - Umuntu mukuru udasanzwe mubihe bisa, cyane cyane iyo abitangije gutandukana - azitwara umuntu mukuru, kubwinyungu zumwana gukomeza kutabogama, nta ngwino umwana avaho undi mubyeyi. Mubisanzwe gutukana kandi urukundo rudasanzwe, ibyiringiro bidafite ishingiro bigaragazwa nuburyo bwiza cyane, kandi umwana byanze bikunze bitera ubwoba kubitekerezo byose bitaboherereje kuri papa cyangwa kuri nyina.
Birumvikana ko abana bafite ibitekerezo byabo, urukundo cyangwa kwanga nubwo ibyo yavuze byose, ariko, nkuko abantu bose babizi, amazi n'ibitonyanga. Rero, ibitutsi no kwerekana cyane ababyeyi umwe kubandi imbere yumwana, imitsi ye yumiye, yo guhungabanya umutekano wa psyche kandi bikakomeretsa cyane mumutwe, niryohe mvurungano nini, kuva ninubwo nurukundo runini rutangira kumva. Kandi bombi baregereye, bahenze cyane ku mwana bahinduka abanzi be. Imwe - kuberako ishimishije cyane imitsi yumwana, icya kabiri, kuko yashakaga kwishima, kureka ahantu hose, cyangwa kuwundi muryango.
Ninde ufite ukuri, ni nde nyirabayazana n'icyo gukora? Neigh kandi mugihe kizaza bizahamwa numwana uwo mubyeyi ugerageza gushinga umwana kuri se cyangwa nyina. Abantu bakuru bagomba kumva ko, ikibabaje, urukundo rimwe na rimwe rurengana kandi niba igice cya kabiri gishaka kugenda, afite uburenganzira bwuzuye. Muri ibi bihe, (we) bigomba kurekurwa, kubabarira no gutangira ubuzima bushya, wenda gerageza kongera gukunda. Abana bahuriweho ntibagomba kubiryozwa. Bafite uburenganzira bwo kuvugana n'ababyeyi bombi kandi neza, niba umubyeyi wakoze abikuye ku mutima ashaka kuvugana n'abana be, kugira uruhare mu burezi, afasha mu buryo bw'amafaranga.
Ikibi cyane niba uwo twashakanye cyangwa uwo bashakanye, asiga umuryango, atera abana. Nibyo, rimwe na rimwe abajugunye bigoye kubona no kuvugana na Ex - kubwinzika cyangwa ibyiyumvo bitanyuze. None niki? Mwebwe abakuze - uzakemura. Kandi niba mbabaye kandi uzamenye impamvu ibintu byose byabaye byose bizaguha rwose amahirwe yo kongera gukunda no kubona umunezero.
Kandi ni ibicucu gutekereza ko udakeneye umuntu ufite abana mumaboko yawe. Nibyo, eka kandi abantu bose ntibashobora gufata inshingano - gusa umuntu ukomeye kandi wicyubahiro, ariko, ubwo bose, ubikeneye, kuko byinshi kuri wewe (we), Reka nfashe mu kurenga abana no kwitegura guhura numuntu wubaka umubano mushya no kurema umuryango mushya.