Ibi nibyo rwose bizafasha gusengera kandi inzira imwe rukumbi. Ibyerekeye aba bagabo ibyo bagabo, abayishaka psychologue babigize umwuga, umwanditsi nimisomo yimana kumubano vadim Kurkin avuga.
1. Umufatanyabikorwa
Imwe mumabanga nyamukuru ya psychologiya yubusabane nubushobozi bwo gutega amatwi umukunzi. Umva ibintu byose ufite inyungu kubintu byose bijyanye nibyo umugabo ashaka kubwira, akaguha agaciro, byaba bigoye mubikorwa bye cyangwa ibitekerezo byiza. Ubushobozi bwo gutega amatwi budasobanura kumenya ibintu byose umugabo akora. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko yumvaga ko umugore ari we rwose, atekereza kandi guhora ashyigikira.
2. Muza
Ni mubushobozi bwo kwizera umuntu wamuteye ubwoba kandi ashimishijwe no kwishimira imbaraga z'abagore zo kuromera. Ntugashimire ibikorwa, ariko shimira ibyo umugabo atarakora. Mubyukuri, shimira ibiranga babishaka, kandi ibyo yari yaratekereje kubishyira mubikorwa. Kwizera umuntu biramutera imbaraga kandi ko atsinda kwigarurira abantu bose.
3. Urukundo, Umuryango
Kuva mu bihe bya kera, umukobwa akomeza gukora kugirango akomeze ihumure mu nzu, guha umugabo gutuza no kwizera ko bakunda kandi bagategereza. Ndashimira umurinzi wibanze, inzu ihinduka ahantu h'ubutegetsi - ndashaka gusubirayo, umugabo araruhukira kandi agarura imbaraga, akanguka imbaraga. Byahuye byishimye, bimwimenyerewe nubushyuhe, kandi azahora yuzuye imbaraga.
4. Imibonano mpuzabitsina
Uyu ni umugore uzi kwishimira no kwikunda. Umugabo muri Aura ntabwo avuka ibishuko kuruhande. Afite ubushobozi bwo guhabwatoranijwe nubunararibonye ko ashima - kandi ibi ntibireba gusa, ahubwo bikaba ari ibindi bice byubuzima. Igitero cyibanze cyibanze ni iterambere, ni ngombwa kwiga uburyo bwo kugira imyifatire iboneye, reka tugene kandi utangire gutera imikurire yumugabo. Hanyuma umugabo ntazigera ahinduka.
5. Kwiyegurira
Umugore witanze afite impano y'ingenzi yo gutangaza ibyiyumvo byo kuba umuntu umwe wenyine. Arakurura ibitekerezo, ariko ntibiboneka, biragaragara kuri buri wese, ariko ni kimwe. Korera uwatoranijwe, kandi mubisanzwe uzabona gusubiramo.
6. Inshuti
Inshuti nyayo irakwemera nkuko uri, kandi umugore nyawe nawe yakira. Hamwe na we, umuntu arashobora kuruhuka ahereye ku ruhare rw'intwari, yahishuwe burundu kandi ahita ahinduka. Nubwo abagabo bo muri kamere bakomeye kandi bigamije kurwana no gutsinda, kugirango bahangane buri gihe kandi murugo, kandi ntamuntu ushoboye gukora. Kubwibyo, birakenewe gusa gushimangira umuntu gusa, ahubwo binamwemerera kuruhuka mubidukikije.
7. EGO
Uyu ni umugore wishimye. Ubu buhanga bwishimira umugabo kandi bugaburira inyungu ye buri gihe, urwitwazo abantu ba mbere abantu batsinze uwatsinze, umuhigi akatsinda. Guta imyenda ishaje ndetse no murugo guhinduranya amabara yayo. Hanyuma noneho uzahora ufite ubushake kandi ushya, bivuze ko kumugabo uzahora ushimishije kandi wifuzwa.
Abakobwa beza, urashaka kandi inama nyinshi kumunezero wumugore? Wige amabanga hagati yumugabo numugore no kumenya ubumenyi bwa psychologiya yumugabo nabagore, hamwe namakosa yabagore nuburyo bwo kubihindura.
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Ubu bumenyi buzaguha amahirwe yo gushinga ishusho yawe hamwe nisi yumugabo nta kwibeshya no kwinuba no gutera intambwe igana mubuzima bwishimye kandi bwamenyesheje, hamwe nibitekerezo byumutego wa psychologue bizafasha gushimangira ibisubizo.
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