Imisumari isekeje ni, ubanza, ububi, icya kabiri, abana nk'abo barashobora kugira ibibazo bifitanye n'imihindagurikire y'imibereho n'ubuzima, icya gatatu, mu bihe bya Neurosis na Stress mu mwana,.
Reka dukemure impamvu abana bacu batangira kwambara imisumari nuburyo bwo kubafasha guhangana niki kibazo, hamwe.
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze ya psychologue bemeza ko ingeso mbi, cyane cyane icyifuzo cyo kwifuza imisumari - ubu ni ubwoko bwo gushushanya amarangamutima n'amarangamutima yumwana. Ibi bivuze ko "kwiyambaza" wenyine kubintu runaka. Nk '"ikintu", ibitutsi by'ababyeyi birashobora gukora, n'igitutu ku mwana ku buryo yiyobora, nkuko ababyeyi babishaka, basoma igitabo mugihe adashaka ibi na gato, kandi agereranya umwana mugihe andi bana ...
Ariko ntabwo ibitutsi byababyeyi gusa bishobora kuba impamvu yiyi ngeso mbi. Akenshi abana ubwabo ntibishimye, kandi nkaho bahannye intara zose. Impamvu yibi ishobora kuba uburambe bwumwana bujyanye nibibazo byo gushingwa muri sosiyete. Birashoboka rwose, ashimwe mu ishuri ry'incuke, ntashobora kwihanganira we mu gikari cyangwa ko adakora neza kubaka neza umubano w'inshuti mu ishuri. Birumvikana ko imyitwarire nkiyi idashobora kumenyekana, kandi buri mubyeyi ashaka gukiza umwana we iyi ngeso mbi. Ariko bigomba kwibukwa ko "amafi abora kumutwe", kimwe na mbere rero kugirango afashe umwana gukemura ibibazo byayo byo mumitekerereze no kumenyera isi imukikije.
Usibye impamvu, iyi "soso" mubi ni ingaruka. Ubwa mbere, bigira ingaruka kumwanya wumwana muri societe, kuko abana barwaye imisumari barimo kuba bashinyagurirwa no gutukwa murungano. Kandi igihe hano kigira uruhare runini, ukundi, umwana ugorarera umwana kugirango areke iyi ngeso, ndetse n'abantu bakuru, atanze raporo mubyo bakora, komeza kumubazwa.
Icya kabiri, iki kibazo gifite akandi kaga. Umwana urwaye ingeso zisa ni uguhinga imirire mibi yimiterere itari yo, ibibiba bibasira ku ntoki zabo, urashobora rero kwibagirwa gusa gukura kwimisumari no kweza amaboko yumwana. Byongeye kandi, uruhu rutetse ruzengurutse intoki zirashobora kwaka no kuba umutima wo kwinjira kwandura. Nibyo, kandi guhora kumira bunguri munsi yimisumari yumwana ntabwo yongeraho, kuko hashobora kwegeranya umubare munini wa pathogene, amagi ya inyo, yamenetse epithelium ... nikintu kibi nuko uru rutonde rushobora gukomeza kutagira iherezo.
Icya gatatu, "Urakoze", umwana yashyizeho ibibazo by'agabwe afite imisumari. Hamwe nigitutu gihoraho kumarira amwe, mugihe cyikipe - uruganda rwibice bikora imikorere ya amolatisation - gutwika bishobora gutangira, bisa na painthitis. Muri icyo gihe, gukiza iyi ndwara mu bana biragoye cyane kubera ibiranga anatomical na physiologique biranga ibinyabuzima byabo.
Iki nibble imisumari yasaze nabi bimaze kumvikana. Ariko nigute ushobora kuvugurura umwana muriyi ngeso?
Birakwiye kwibuka ko bitazashoboka kubikuraho ako kanya, bityo bakareba imbaraga no kwihangana. Abahanga mu by'inararibonye bavuga ko bidashoboka gutukana umwana kubyo afite iyi ngeso. Umwana akimara gutangira imisumari ya aibble, birakenewe gutekereza kubyo bimubaza. Kandi nyuma yimpamvu yo gutekereza, birakenewe gutangira gukora ku kurandura. Birumvikana ko inzira yo kuyikuraho ntabwo yihuta kandi ntabwo byoroshye, ariko ntabwo arimpamvu yose yo kureka ibintu byose kuri Samonek. N'ubundi kandi, rimwe na rimwe impamvu irashobora gufungwa muri ibura ryitondewe. Rero, umwana aragerageza kumukurura kuri we, kandi niba adakora, bimufasha gutuza mugutera imisumari.
Niba umwana ahangayitse, afite imihangayiko, ni ngombwa kumwitaho cyane, kugirango werekane ko kwita no gukundana. Niba umwana akuze rwose, noneho urashobora kuzana impamvu rusange, zigomba kuryoherwa. Nibyiza niba bifitanye isano nabashishoza - gushushanya, gushushanya, gusiga, kurasa, nibindi bigenwa kuri iyi ntego, kandi umwana yibagiwe gusa ingeso.
Abana barashobora gutanga ibikinisho bidasanzwe byo kurwanya imihangayiko hamwe nuzuzanya, kimwe nibikinisho ushobora guhindura ushobora gukora ikintu icyo aricyo cyose. Ihame ryibikorwa nkibi bisa nkumushisho - umwana akunda umukino, kandi ntamwanya wo kwibuka kubyerekeye ingeso.
Rimwe na rimwe, ubufasha n'umurimo wa psychologue: Mugihe cyamasomo, umuhanga mu byiciro psychologue yigisha umwana gusimbura imisumari mubindi, ingeso yingirakamaro - kurugero, gushushanya impurulams nubushakashatsi bwabo. Mu gushushanya, umuganga arabaza ibibazo bigezweho, n'umwana, atumva, avuga ibibazo bye.
Rimwe na rimwe, irakora no gushishikara. Kurugero, imiterere irashobora gushyirwa mumwana: Kwanga ingeso mbi nimbona kumafaranga cyangwa gushyira mubikorwa inzozi zose zakunzwe. Nukubera ikaze iyo ngingo, ijanisha ryibishoboka byo gutsinda.
Ubundi buryo bwiza, bufatika, ariko, ikibabaje, kubakobwa gusa, ni bo rushobora kuba manicure na nyina. Iminsi mike mbere yitariki yateganijwe, nyina agomba kwibanda kumisumari yabo muburyo bwose. Nyuma yuburyo bwumwana, icyifuzo kimwe gusa kizaguma - gukomeza ubwiza bwimisumari yawe. N'ababyeyi na bo, bagomba kubyuka gusobanura umwana ko ingeso mbi itesha imisumari.
Nibyo, igisubizo cyiki kibazo gifite uburyo bwo kwishyura. Ariko birakenewe kubiyambaza gusa niba ubundi buryo budafasha. Muri farumasi hamwe nububiko bwabana bugurisha ibicuruzwa bidasanzwe cyangwa amavuta akoreshwa mumisumari. Bafite uburyohe bukabije, umwana rero wakozwe na reflex. Ariko ni ngombwa gusobanura neza impamvu ye: umwana akwiriye kuvuga ko uburyohe bukaze butagenewe gutandukana cyangwa amavuta, aribyo kubera ingeso mbi.
Ariko, niba uburyo bwose bwo kurwanya "inkombe" ntoya byavuzwe haruguru ntibyagufashije, birakwiye kuvugana na inzobere, kuko iyi ngeso irashobora kuba ikimenyetso cyindwara zikomeye.