Kuba ababyeyi b'ishuri biragoye cyane. Cyane cyane niba umwana ari umunyeshuri wibanze. Nyuma ya byose, mama na papa akenshi bagomba gufasha abana babo mumikoro yabo, kandi ibi ntabwo byoroshye. Ubwa mbere, ntabwo buri gihe bishoboka kumvisha umuyoboro wumwana kumasomo mugihe, no mubya kabiri, nyuma yumunsi wakazi, mugihe ukeneye kubona umwanya wo kuvuga umukoro wawe wose, ntabwo bishoboka buri gihe kwishyura umwanya uhagije wo gukemura Ibibazo mubijyanye n'imibare cyangwa gufata mu mutwe amategeko kuri "- Ikiwe."
Nkibisanzwe, abana bakuru barabaye, babyitayeho cyane barasaba muriki kibazo, ariko bibaho ko abanyeshuri bo mumashuri yisumbuye basabwa gufasha ababyeyi, ishyaka.ru.
Kubwibyo, uyumunsi tuzagerageza kumenya uko twakora amasomo hamwe nabana. Nibyo, kubikora kugirango inzira itarambiwe, ntamwana kandi urengana nta bihe byamakimbirane.
Ubwa mbere, mbere yuko utangira gusohoza umukoro wawe, umwana akeneye kuruhuka mumasomo yishuri. Witondere gutembera kugirango umwana muto "yazamuye umutwe" :) Birumvikana ko igihe kinini umara kumuyaga hanze, nibyiza. Igihe ntarengwa cyo gutembera kigomba kuba byibuze igice cyisaha, byiza - isaha nigice. Kandi rero, gusa, basubiye murugo, bagarutse ku rutonde kandi batuje, urashobora kubitera "guhekenya kwa siyansi."
Icya kabiri, ntugomba kwibagirwa ko abana bose batandukanye: Umuntu ubwe yiruka kugirango amenye byose bishya kandi ashimishije, kandi umuntu, nkuko babivuga, ntutware inkoni. Rero, abanyeshuri benshi bagabanijwemo ibyiciro bibiri. Bamwe ntibazasaba amasomo, abandi bagerageza gukora icyarimwe icyarimwe vuba, noneho numutimanama utanduye ukora neza ibikorwa byabo, kugenda no gukina. Ihitamo rya kabiri ni ryiza rwose, ariko muriki gihe ntirubabaza byibuze kugenzura byibuze ku bantu bakuru, kuko ibikoresho bitarangizwa neza. Kuburyo buto, ukeneye ijisho yego ijisho: buri gihe ukurikiza ko badakora amakosa. Nibyiza gusaba umwana gukora akazi kumushinga, cheque hanyuma ureke kwandika mu ikaye. Niba umwana yakoze amakosa mu rutoki, ayigishe neza. Niba umwana yitonze adashaka kwicara kumasomo, ugomba kumenyekanisha amategeko amwe agomba gukorwa neza. Nibyiza, iyo umwana abonye umunsi wumunsi, ariko ntabwo buri gihe byoroshye kandi byoroshye, kugirango wige kuganira na we utuje, ariko birakomeye. Kurugero, emera gukinira cyangwa kureba TV mugihe runaka, ariko hanyuma uhite utangira amasomo.
Icya gatatu, ababyeyi bakeneye kwitondera mugihe bakorera umukoro nigihe gisabwa. Nk'uko byatangajwe na psychologue, igihe cyiza cyo gukuramo ibikoresho byinzu - kuva kumasaha 15 kugeza 18, mugihe iminota 30-40 irakenewe kugirango irenze kuminota 5-10, cyane cyane kubana. Ni ngombwa kurwanya amaso, amaboko n'inyuma. Imyitozo ngororamubiri, kurya ibice bya shokora cyangwa imbuto zimwe bizaba arikiruhuko cyiza kandi cyingirakamaro. Bifuzwa kandi ko bitarenze amasaha 1.5-2-amasaha kugirango umukoro. Nibyiza gutangira imirimo igoye cyane, kurugero, kuva mururimi rwikirusiya cyangwa imibare, hamwe nibintu byo mu kanwa bizamenya nyuma.
Icya kane, ntitugomba kwibagirwa ko intego nyamukuru yababyeyi ari ukwigisha umwana gukora wigenga! Niba umwana atize gukosora amasomo wenyine, bitinde bitebuke arashobora kureka kubikora cyangwa ngo ukoreshe umwanya wawe buri munsi no kwicara hafi yacyo aho kuruhuka nyuma yakazi no mu bibazo byo murugo. Birumvikana ko ari ngombwa gusa kwishyura umwanya wumwana, ariko nibyiza kubikoresha muburyo bwiza cyane, nibyo? Kubwibyo, kuva muminsi yambere, uhe umwana amahirwe yo gutekereza wigenga, ntukihute kumufasha kubisubizo no gusubiza igisubizo. Ahari uzaba uzabanza kwicara iruhande rwe, ariko byiza niba ukomeje gutwarwa nubucuruzi bwawe, kandi umwana azaguhamagara mugihe hagaragaye ingorane. Niba ibyo bitabaye, menya neza kugenzura akazi karangiye no kwerekana amakosa. Abana bakuze (nibyiza - kuva mu masomo 2) bagomba gukora bigenga kandi ntibagikwita ubwabo, ahubwo bakwegera kandi bakabasaba ubufasha gusa niba hari ikintu kidasobanutse.
Kubwamahirwe, hari abana bake bakora amasomo neza kandi witonze. Niba umwana wawe agikoreshwa kuri bo, urashobora gucika intege muburyo bumwe, mubindi bihe byose, menya neza kugenzura imikorere yumukoro - byombi no mu kanwa.
Kubijyanye nabanyeshuri bo mumashuri yisumbuye, ntabwo ari ibanga kubantu bose ibyo rimwe na rimwe badakora amasomo namba cyangwa bakora gusa abo bazakora ibizamini. Wakora iki? Niba umwangavu muri rusange yiga neza, nibyiza kutazana amakimbirane. Gerageza gusa kwiga kumwizera no kureka uhitemo icyo gukora, kandi ntabwo aribyo. Kandi dukeneye gufata ikibazo ayoboye gusa mugihe kiri muri diary we, usibye amatsiko na kabiri, ntawe ubamo. Nibyo, no kubaka itumanaho hamwe nabangavu birakenewe neza. Ubwa mbere, gerageza kumenya impamvu zibera: Ntashaka kwiga cyangwa kutumva gusa? Birashoboka ko akeneye gusa amasomo yinyongera kuriyi ngingo?
Ibyo ari byo byose, ibuka ko ibigereranyo biri muri diary bitaravuga. Kandi, muburyo, na gato ntibigira ingaruka ku buzima bw'umwana nyuma y'ishuri. Akenshi, abahoze banyeshuri beza baba mumishahara mbere yumushahara, kandi duel barimo kuba abantu batsinze. Icy'ingenzi ni ugufasha umwana kuba umuntu mwiza kandi wiyubashye!