Molver ivuga iti: "Umuntu wishimye niwe washoboye gukora umurongo woroshye hagati y'umwuga n'umuryango." Nigute ibintu byose byerekeranye? Buri wese muri twe afite ibintu bitazwi, "yashyizweho kugirango yizere", bigomba kuba mubuzima. Niba kandi hari ikintu kibuze muri cyo, noneho umuntu atangiraga bigoye, yumva atamerewe neza.
Numuntu numwe ugomba kugereranya ubuzima bwayo ninshuti zayo cyangwa abavandimwe bayo bashoboye kugera kuburinganire bwubuzima bwihariye. Ariko ureba witonze kumpande, tuzashobora kubona abantu bafite agaciro gatandukanye rwose kugirango wishime.
Hariho icyiciro cyabantu bafite umunezero nibikorwa byabo, ikintu gikundwa, aho gishyirwa mubikorwa byuzuye, bishyizwe hanze no kureka kugabanuka. Kandi ku ruhande birasa nkaho bahangayitse, ntibafite ibyo bakunda, kandi ubuzima bwabo bwite ntibishimisha, ariko aya ni yo mahitamo yabo yishimye.
Cyangwa, inzira, abantu batibona ikindi utari impungenge zumuryango hamwe nihungabana, abana, benshi basa nabasazi kandi bahagaze ku kuguru kwuzima. Ariko ni igitekerezo cyabo gusa.
Urashobora kandi kubona uko ibintu bimeze mugihe umuntu afite nkaho ari "byashyizweho kubwibyishimo", kandi yumva atanyuzwe, ananiwe kandi arasaze kandi arasaze. Birakenewe kurangiza raporo kugirango ugume kukazi, ariko oya, birakenewe ko ari ifunguro rya nimugoroba, kuko bidashoboka guhungabanya imigenzo. N'ubundi kandi, ugomba "kwishima"!
Undi mugore kandi yifuza kwishora mu byishimo byumuryango, ariko burimunsi ugomba gutwara abana mu ishuri ry'incuke cyangwa ishuri hanyuma uguruke ku biro ku kazi, kandi muri wikendi ugomba kujya muri siporo kugirango ushyigikire igishusho, Kumateraniro yo ku cyumweru nabakobwa bakobwa cyangwa ifunguro rya sasita hamwe nababyeyi. Kuberako uri umukobwa w'intangarugero, inshuti nziza kandi ugomba guhuza ikirango cyumugore ugezweho, nubwo uri hafi yo gusenya imitekerereze.
Umuntu wese afite ibitekerezo bitandukanye kubyerekeye umunezero
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Nigute kubikora neza muribi bihe? Mbere ya byose, ugomba kumva ubwawe hanyuma ugerageze kumva icy'ingenzi kuri wewe mubuzima? Niki wifuza guhindura kugirango wishime byukuri?
Hamanura impirimbanyi hagati yakazi n'umuryango - uzatanga byinshi, kandi ninde utoroshye - uzahinduka kandi uhaze neza kandi uzane umunezero. Uyu munsi wiha akazi, ejo urebe wikendi hamwe numuryango wawe, tujyana ninshuti kuri kamere cyangwa tujya muri imurikagurisha, tujye muri cafe cyangwa cinema.
Ugomba gushobora guhindura ibitekerezo byawe no gukwirakwiza igihe hagati yibyiciro ukunda, kuko ibyihutirwa bihinduka mubyiciro bitandukanye byubuzima bwacu. Umuntu agomba kubona neza icyo ashaka guhindura mubuzima bwe, kandi ko noneho bizahinduka cyangwa umubare ugomba gutambwe.
Buhoro buhoro, biza kubimenya ko ubuzima bwacu bwite ari umurimo, umuryango, abana, ubucuruzi. Ariko mubyukuri, ubuzima bwihariye nubuzima bwa kamere yacu - nibintu byose bitera umunezero, guhangayikishwa, kwanga. Kuri bimwe muribi bikorwa, kubandi - umuryango, kubanyarwanda - ingendo, kubandi - guhanga.
Kandi niyo waba udahuye niki gipimo "cyashyizwe ku byishimo", ukurikije umunezero, ariko umbwira ngo: "Ndanezerewe kandi ndabyishimiye.", - Kandi urwane igitekerezo cyawe kuri Baho nkawe. Tekereza neza, kuko ubu ari ubuzima bwawe.