Umugabo ahora ari umwana uwo ntakindi kintu cyingenzi kuruta ibyo akunda n'ibikinisho. Kubwibyo, mbere yuko ugerageza kugeza kuri kimwe cyangwa ikindi gitekerezo, ugomba kubanza kwibanda kuri ibi bikinisho, saba imbabazi zivuye ku mutima, saba, ukabaze ibibazo byinyongera, biteye ubwoba cyangwa ushimishe (biteye ubwoba ( Ukurikije uko ibintu bimeze). Kuvuga ibyegereye iki, nibaza icyo yumva rwose, kandi, kubona inyungu nyazo, araruhuka kandi akagutwara nkumuntu ufunga mu mwuka.
Birashoboka ko atari ikintu cyimibonano mpuzabitsina, kidateye ubwoba, kuko buri gihe ari kumwe numugore uzahagarara, ushaka kuvuga ndetse nibindi byinshi byubaka umubano. Nibyo, kandi ntabwo buri gihe dukeneye umuntu wo kutwubeshya. Ikintu nyamukuru ni uko uri kumwe na we ku muhengeri umwe, kandi ashyiraho crane nta nsinga, yahinduye ibikoresho cyangwa yajugunywe mumodoka ya shelegi.
Niba ukeneye kwitondera abagabo, kuko yakundaga gusa, ugomba kongera kwibuka ko uyu mugabo ari umwana ukeneye kumenyekana, gukunda no kwitaho. Ushaka gushimisha - uzane ubushyuhe bwawe bwose, ineza n'ubwuzu. Ikintu nyamukuru ntabwo ari ugurira kandi nturirire. Ndetse n'abana batatu abana ntibakunda ibi. Ijwi ryoroheje no kumwenyura bishyushye byemeza ko bikurura, kandi twiteguye kumva nitonze, azagushimira cyane. Kubwukuri ko niba ubivuze, urashobora kwiga amakuru menshi yingirakamaro kubijyanye nayo wenyine.
Bibaho ko gusobanukirwa kwa musolution byatakaye kuri babiri bamaze igihe kinini hamwe. Kubaho kuva kera, abantu bazaba badahunsa, baragenda kandi niba batavuganaga vuba - bahinduka undi. Abantu bakomeza hamwe gusa ingeso. Kugira ngo wirinde ibi, ugomba guhindura buri gihe icyitegererezo cyimyitwarire. Kandi, rimwe na rimwe, hindura imisatsi, imiterere y'imyambarire, gahunda yo ku munsi, tegura ibyokurya bishya, kora ibikoresho byo mu nzu, ndetse no gusana burundu igice. Kandi muri ibyo bintu byose birimo bashishikaye uwo bashakanye, atari nkumushahara gusa, ariko kandi nkumuntu, mubitekerezo, ntibikiriho umugore we cyangwa inzu ye. Nubwo waba umaze gufata umwanzuro, ugomba gusabwa kugisha inama nuwo mwashakanye, rimwe na rimwe usabe icyemezo cyingenzi, kurugero, aho abana be baziga icyo imodoka iri imbere ugomba kugura, aho kujya kuruhuka mu cyi t. Umwumve kandi wumve. Agomba kumva afite akamaro ke, gukenera no kwizerwa ntabwo ari byinshi, kuko atari kubintu byose cyangwa igice cyishyura igice, kuko bakundana, kuko ari umuntu. Bitabaye ibyo, ntabwo gusobanukirwa gusa bizatakazwa gusa, ahubwo ni umuntu ubwe. Kandi ibi ntibishobora kwemererwa, nukuri?