Kubwa Data uwo ari we wese, isura y'ingenzi mu buzima, ariko umwana ukuze abaho, niko se igoye kubona ururimi rusanzwe rufite umusore. Ntabwo bitangaje niba nyuma yigihe kinini abantu bafite kutumva nabi.
Inshuti ni ingenzi bidasanzwe kubangavu
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Kuki hari intera?
Indwara idakunze kwishora mu kurera umwana kugera kuri nyina, kubera ko ubanza ari kuri nyina uhangayikishijwe n'umwana wavutse. Kubwibyo, akenshi ba se bagarukira ku koga nimugoroba, kugura impapuro nimirire. Byongeye kandi, umubyeyi agisha inama ko azuzuza itumanaho igihe umwana aba mukuru. Ariko nyuma yigihe gito bigaragaye ko Data hamwe numuhungu we ntacyo avuga.
Niki?
Mugihe umuhungu atarageze kumyaka ishaje, mubisanzwe ntahatira ibibazo ajuririra ababyeyi nibiba ngombwa. Mugihe cyo kuvugurura hormonal, ntutangazwe nimpinduka ityaye yimyumvire nimyitwarire muri rusange: Umusore ntitoroshye kuganira na nyina, kandi umuhungu ntamenyereye kuvugana na Se, kandi umuhungu ntamenyereye kuvugana na Se, kandi umuhungu ntabwo akoreshwa mu kuvugana na Data, hari ibihe biva Hano, iyo umwangavu afunze muri we no gusangira ibibazo gusa ninshuti magara.
"Kumena urubura" mubucuti na Mwana, banya bagaragu bakeneye guhimbaza ingimbi, niko ari ngombwa bidasanzwe kwemerwa numugabo ungana. Kandi ntiwumve, nturema akarere kawe, aho ugira isoni zo gushaka inama - fungura kuvugana numwana.
Ganira hamwe ningimbi nkiringaniye - ntakiri umwana
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Shakisha inyungu rusange
Ikintu kibi cyane umubyeyi ashobora gukora ari ukwirengagiza cyangwa kutubaha inyungu zumwangavu. Niba ufite ibibazo mu itumanaho, kuki utize ingingo umuhungu wawe angana kandi akagerageza kumubaza muburyo burambuye. Nk'itegeko, ingimbi zishingiye ku ishyaka ryihuta gusobanurira ba se bagaragaramo verisiyo yanyuma ya Gadget izwi cyane, cyangwa ni irihe tandukaniro riri hagati ya abers. Ikintu cyingenzi ni ugukoresha inyungu zivuye ku mutima - ingimbi zumva neza kumva ko ari ibyiyumvo byawe.
Kandi izindi nama nke kugirango itumanaho ryawe ridahinduka iyicarubozo:
- Umwangavu ntakiri umwana umenyereye kujya ku ishuri cyangwa kwa muganga. Umusore akeneye kumufata nk'umuntu mukuru, bityo akagenda mu mazina y'abana bashize kandi ntuganire ku bibazo byo mu ngo imbere y'incuti ze - nta kintu kibi kirenze kugendera kuri psyches yihuta.
- nanone ntigomba kuganirwaho cyane - gufungura cyane cyane birashobora kuganisha ku kuba umwana atazasobanukirwa uko yabyitwaramo no gufunga.
Ati: "Ntabwo byoroshye kuganira kuri Data hamwe n'Umwana w'ibiranga physiologiya bigize umubiri uhinduka, insanganyamatsiko y'urukundo rwa mbere n'ay'abagabo. Ingimbi zidasubirwaho imbere yabantu bakuru iyo bigeze kubintu byihariye, rero kora neza.
Urukundo rwa mbere - Ingingo iteye isoni
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- Ntukavuge ibibazo umusore akubwira - aramutse akora ikintu nk'iki cyo gusangira nawe ibintu bitoroshye - ibi bimaze gutsinda, bityo gerageza gusuzuma icyemezo cyibibazo bitumvikana mubuzima bwa Umwangavu urashoboka, tanga inama zungenzi, niba umusore asabwa.
- Nubwo waba umeze umuntu uhuze cyane, umuhungu wawe afite agaciro kuruta akazi kawe, bityo gushyikirana nawe bigomba no kwinjira muburyo bwawe bwa buri munsi, kandi ntabwo ari muburyo bwo gushiraho, ariko ugomba rwose gushishikazwa nubuzima bwa a Umusore rero kugirango umubano wawe ushyushye kandi ukomere ubuzima bwose.