Iyo umunezero nyuma yo kugaragara k'umwana wa mbere urengana, umugore akunze gutekereza ku gutwita kwa kabiri, igihe kirekire nta bwoba bwa mbere, kuko kibaho mugihe cyo gutegura umwana wa mbere.
Ku bijyanye no gutwita kwa kabiri, birakwiye ko tutibagirwa ubushobozi bwabo gusa, ahubwo ni itandukaniro riri hagati yumwana ukuze numwana uzaza. Reka tugerageze kumenya isaha ikwiranye no kuba mama kunshuro ya kabiri.
Kora urugendo rugufi hagati yo gutwita kwambere
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Itandukaniro hagati y'abana
Nyamuneka menya ko umubano w'abana utazaba hasi kugirango ushingiye ku itandukaniro mumyaka. Abahanga basuzuma icyuho cyiza kirengeje imyaka 2, kubera ko umwana mukuru atumva afite ibyago byumuryango mushya, ntarashobora kumva ko kwitabwaho ko kwita kubabyeyi ubu bagomba kugabana babiri. Ibibazo birashobora kuvuka hamwe nabana ba 4 na bakuze, kuko umwana akeneye rwose abantu bakuru, kandi ugomba kwitondera cyane guteka kumuntu mukuru, muto numugabo wanjye. Kubwibyo, ubutoni bwabatse, butorane amakimbirane no kutumvikana mubana, ariko, haracyari ingorane muri mama.
Ubuzima bwa Mamino
Birumvikana ko utagomba gutegura gutwita kwa kabiri nyuma yo gusohoka mubitaro byababyeyi: Tanga umubiri gukira burundu, kuko umutwaro nk'uwo muburyo bwo gutwita bikubita sisitemu zose. Byongeye kandi, intera ngufi hagati yitwita ebyiri irashobora kuvamo ibibazo bikurikira:
- kubyara imburagihe.
- Umwana ufite ibiro bike akivuka.
- amahirwe menshi y'ibibazo by'iterambere.
Indwara zidakira zikabije hamwe n'imyaka
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Angahe gutegereza?
Kumena igihe kinini hagati yitwite nacyo ntabwo gisezeranya ikintu cyiza. Niba wowe n'umugabo wawe yemeye ko uzabyara abana benshi, ntugomba gutinda, kubera ko havutse imyaka itanu akarenganya hamwe ninyamaswa zitandukanye zurungano, kimwe mubibazo byinshi birashobora gufatwa nkibiti byiterambere no gukora imburagihe.
Ugomba gufata icyemezo hamwe numugabo wanjye.
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Mw'isi ya none, genera ya kabiri akenshi igwa mu myaka 35-40, muriki gihe umugore afite psyche ikomeye kuruta umubiri ntabwo yirata muri rusange. Nyuma yimyaka 35, imikorere yubunini itangira gucika intege kumuvuduko mwinshi, ariko ntizibangamira inzobere mu bigezweho zifasha umugore gusama no kubyara ndetse n'abaganga baragira inama yo kudakurura igihe kirekire, kuko, hamwe Hamwe no gukandamiza sisitemu yimyororokere, indwara zidakira zitangiye kwiteza imbere irashobora kugora inda. Ibyo ari byo byose, ugomba kwibanda gusa ku mibereho yawe bwite.