Buri mugore arashaka kwambara kugirango aneshe kandi ashimangira ibyiza kandi bibaho ko ikintu cyigihe ukunda kidahuye rwose. Birasa nkaho ingano ikwiye, kandi yicaye neza, ariko irasa nabi. Birasa nkaho ibara ari ryiza kandi ryubwoko bwasaga naho aricyo kintu aricyo kintu gikenewe, ariko kikabishyira kumyenda mishya, urumva ko ibara atari ibyawe.
Hamwe na hamwe numuhanzi uzwi, amarangi yabahanga, abitabiriye isori mu Burusiya ndetse n'amahanga yagerageje gusobanukirwa n'ikibazo, nkuko buri mugore asanga ibara ryabo kandi asa neza.
- Igor, akenshi numva imvugo - reba ibara. Iyi nteruro isobanura iki?
- Hariho igitekerezo nk'iki cyo gushushanya "ibara ryerekwa". Ntabwo umuhanzi wese abona ibara akureka nk'amakuru kuri wewe.
Aba bahanzi batabona amabara kugirango bajye kuri gahunda. Bahinduka ibikurura bihebuje, ariko ntibabaye abahanzi. Iyerekwa ryukuri ryumuhanzi bivuze ko Imana yamusomye "kandi arashobora kwandika amashusho azashima ibisekuru byinshi. Nanone, amahanga yose afite icyerekezo cyacyo cy'amabara, urugero, Abafaransa ntibatangaje iki cyerekezo uko imvugo yerekana. Duhereye ku bakinnyi bacu b'Uburusiya berere Schrasov, Vasnetsova - hari ubugingo muri aya mashusho. Ndebye Shishkin, inzitizi ze zisa na primite, kandi mubyukuri ni umwanya. Amarangi ashimishije. Ariko mbere ya byose, birumvikana ko amabara yo mu Butaliyani, nkuko bakoranye namabara, kuburyo rero ntanumwe ukora.
- Rimwe na rimwe, umuntu yambaye imyenda yimpimbano, haribintu byateganijwe kuri yo, ibintu byose ni stilish, ariko hari ibitagenda neza hamwe nibara ryimyenda. Urabona ibintu nkibi?
- Hano, birashoboka cyane, ikibazo gifite uburyohe. Niba ushize abantu bake ukabababaza, umuntu azakunda iri bara, ntamuntu numwe. Ibara ryerekana buri kimwe, ariko njye, nkumuhanzi, kwita cyane, kuko akazi kanjye nukubona ibara rya plastiki.
- Abagore benshi bakunda kwambara ibintu birabura. Bikekwa ko ibara ry'umukara rikwiye gato. Ariko ntutekereza ko umukara ashaje cyane?
- Hano ntabwo nemeranya nawe, kuko ibara ry'umukara ni umukinnyi udapfa. Umwirabura ni iki? Njye, nkumushinga, bikorohera gukora no kwerekana igicucu kiba umukara. Umukara nicyatsi, umukara nubururu, umukara n'umutuku, birashobora kurutonde igihe kirekire. Umukara hafi ya byose, kuko ibara ryirabura ryinshi ryigicucu. Kandi ubu ni ubuswa bwuzuye, iyo bavuga ko igicucu cyijimye kizabona umugore.
Igicucu cyijimye kirashobora gushimangira isura no kuvugurura hanze, ko bidashoboka kumenya umugore nkuko bizaba bihumana. Ubwinshi bwijimye kandi bwijimye bwubururu ni bwiza cyane. Ikintu nyamukuru nukugera ku gicucu cyawe.
- Wavuze uti, Umukara ureba umugore wimibonano mpuzabitsina, ariko ntabwo ari ibara ritukura ryambere?
- Ibara ritandukanye ritukura rishobora kwandika amakuru yose. Niba ufashe ibara rikize, birasa neza kandi birashimishije, kandi hari igicucu kibi, nuko kirasa numugore ko ari "ubwonko buturika."
Rimwe na rimwe, bigera ku buryo nitondera abagore bagenda mu modoka zitukura, kuko ibara ry'iyi modoka ntirikwiriye umudamu. Yinjiye mu buryo buteye ubwoba n'amashusho ye y'amabara ya salade n'umusatsi utukura. Ni amabara adahujwe rwose, asa neza.
Niba, kurugero, bigenda kumunsi, noneho umugabo ashobora kuba afite intege nke kurwego rwibibazo.
Niba kandi umudamu yagiye kubona akazi, nubwo ari umuntu mwiza kandi ni inzobere nziza, umuyobozi ashobora kwitwara ku mabara ashinjwa kandi akanga.
Uribuka urubanza mugihe umuririmbyi umwe uzwi mugihe cyikiganiro n'abanyamakuru yaje kurakara kuva ku mwobo wa bluse ku munyamakuru.
Niba kandi bikomeye, bibaho ko shobuja ari psychos, akareba, ntabwo yitanga muri iyi raporo, kandi ibi ni byo bitwara ibara ritera guhangayika.
Ni ngombwa kandi ko imyenda ihujwe nibara ry'umusatsi. Ntabwo nzavumburwa niba mvuze ko abagore benshi badahuye na gato ibara ry'umusatsi n'umwirondoro wabo, kandi niba ari ugushimangira imiyoboro y'amabara idakwiye mu myambaro, impression yo gutesha umutwe.
Hanyuma baratangazwa nuko abagabo bakiriye nabi, kandi bamwe bareba "igikoma cy'indabyo" - iyicarubozo RWIZA.
- Intes nyinshi zigira inama abantu baza kubaza cyangwa imishyikirano, kuba mwimyenda yera, kuko isa neza kandi yubahwa. Uratekereza iki?
- Ibara ryera ni igicucu cya miliyoni, kandi birakwiye ko ishati yera yambaye ikiganiro cyangwa imishyikirano, kuko isa neza.
Ariko hano hari akaga ko niba ufashe igicucu kitari cyo cyishati yera, aho "guhuza" hamwe nibara ryumusatsi n'amabara yuruhu, hazabaho ikizinga cyera. Birashoboka cyane ko utazibuka umuntu mu ishati yumuhondo udasanzwe hamwe na karuvati yumukara, kuko ihuza ryinshi ryamabara ryatangaje.
- Abagore bamwe bemeza ko imishyikirano y'ingenzi iza neza mu gikoko. Ibi ni ukuri?
- Numvise igitekerezo gikemuye ni ko imvi isuzuma, kandi niba umugore ashaka gushukwa umugabo, nibyiza kutabishyira mubikorwa, kuko bikwiranye cyane nubucuruzi bwubucuruzi. Iyi ni ibintu byiza cyane.
Nta mugore numwe utazajya kumera, ndetse akamenya urubanza mugihe igicucu cyiza-cyatoranijwe cyinshi cyindabyo kumugore wasaga kumibonano mpuzabitsina kuruta imyambarire ya nimugoroba. Yaba yarahaye inama niba imigambi ye idafite uburenganzira bwo kureshya mugenzi we, reka iyi kirunde ntashyireho. Reba, ibintu byose ni umuntu ku giti cye hano.
- Nukuri ko ibara ryatoranijwe rishobora kurerwa numutima?
- Ndabisubiramo, ibara rishobora kuba uburyo bwo kuzamura imyumvire no kuyangiza. Amaze gusura umugore kugirango aganire ku ishusho y'Imana. Urukuta rwicyumba cye cyashushanyijeho ibara hagati yumutuku n'umutuku. Numvaga iri bara kandi nabaye mubi, umutwe wanjye waruhutse.
Nahunze avuye muri iyi nzu, kandi ari muri we buri munsi, agerageza kuruhuka.
Kandi dore urugero, mfite ishusho mumahugurwa - ikimasa gito, umuzingo wishimye, kandi kuzuka izuba, gukina izuba ritangaje, rikamurikira urugo. Ntabwo rero, ntamuntu numwe uza mu mahugurwa ntabwo yambajije iyi shusho. Yatuje ijisho, akura ameze, benshi muribo bashaka kubigura. Abantu kubwimpamvu runaka barashimishije, bareba ikimasa gifite inyoni. Birumvikana ko ibara rishobora kurekurwa, ibara ryamabara ni imbaraga zubumaji.
- Ukunze gutanga inama kuri gahunda yamabara? Ibiza kubitagenda. Nshobora kubona ibyifuzo byawe?
"Buri gihe ndasekeje kureba gahunda abagore bambaye imyenda igana ku mutima bakamubwira bati:" Noneho uri umwamikazi! ". Kuzenguruka no muburyo arashobora kugenda, ariko ibara ntabwo rwose rifite rwose, mubyukuri ntubone abashushanya?
Ibi biragaragara cyane. Niba nambajije, nzagerageza kugira amakenga kutababaza umuntu uwo ari we wese, sobanura. Ahari ikintu cyagira inama.
N'ubundi kandi, usibye ibara, insmos ni ngombwa mu myenda, zuzuzanya, kuvana ku bundi myumvire. Hariho kandi igitekerezo cyinyongera, urashobora kandi gukorana nibi.
Nkumuhanzi, ndashobora kuvuga ko ushobora gushakisha mu cyerekezo cy'amabara utagira akagero, kandi uzahora ubona ikintu gishya kuri wewe ubwawe. Niba kandi wafashe igicucu cyifuzwa mumyenda, noneho nta magambo na gato ...