Gushushanya indirimbo izwi cyane muri firime izwi: "Niba udafite umuryango, ntabwo ari stondal nziza ..." Ndashaka gukomeza: kandi niba hari umuryango ?! Byinshi ko nta muryango wukuri, ni ukuvuga (wenda ndetse bibiri, hamwe nabahoze), abana bawe (ahari, ababyeyi bawe, inshuti - badafite iyi ... kandi bose igihe cyose kubintu bikureba. Ibisigaye ni ibisi? Nibyo! Fata icyayi hanyuma utangire gutera buhoro. Kandi ni byibura.
Ariko nta kintu na kimwe cyo gukora. Umuryango nacyo ni inkunga yacu. Ku muntu, ifaranga, kuko umuntu utaryarya, umuntu muri rusange yihutira kwigunga ... amaherezo, aba bavuka, bakundaga! Kandi ntiwibagirwe ko kutumvikana kwawe kubuyobozi uzana murugo nimugoroba mumaso yacu, bahangayikishijwe nawe. Ni ukuvuga, biragaragara kandi biragoye, kandi bitabafite - nta hantu na hamwe. Noneho birashoboka ko ikibazo kitari mumuryango.
Yego, kugira ubwawe amatwi mugoroba wose ku Dynamo ikipe (Spartak, Lokomotiv, Zenit - nkeneye gushimika), mu Biteganye, gukosora "JS" ku "Zhi" mu ikaye ishuri no kugerageza kubona yawe Urukurikirane rukunzwe byibuze ijisho rimwe - mubyukuri biragoye cyane. Ahubwo, ndetse no mubitekerezo. Dukurikije imibare iheruka, abagore benshi bafite ubuzima nk'ubwo nigenga, abanyabwenge, nkabadamu bahagije (nkibyo, hamwe ninyuguti nkuru), ntabwo ari Nanniki na ba nyina. Ntamuntu utuma umugore wese wo kwiyubaha azamuka igicaniro cyibitambo byumuryango kandi agahindagurika haho kugwa kumugezi.
Wige gushonga mumuryango kandi ntukabure. Niba kandi udakoze neza cyangwa ntukagire imbaraga zo kumenya, umuryango wabigize psychotherapiste uhora witeguye gufasha. Oya, ntazagukemura ibibazo byawe, ahubwo azagufasha kwisanga uhari. Kora imiterere kuri wewe ushobora kugerageza gutekereza muburyo bushya, wirebera ubuzima bwawe muburyo bushya. By'umwihariko, umuryango wa psychotherapi mu muryango ni ubwoko bwihariye bwo gufasha imitekerereze agamije guhuza umubano wumuryango. Gushyikirana na psychologue bitanga umusanzu gusa, ariko no guteza imbere imibanire yumuryango. Kandi nyamara - Ibanga rito - Ukurikije ubushakashatsi buheruka mubumenyi, umuryango ni gahunda ihamye cyane ifite amikoro yo kurokoka no guhinduka. Ntabwo rero byoroshye gutandukana ...
Kandi amaherezo, abagukikije, nkubwa mbere muri mwebwe!
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