Kuva mu ibaruwa y'abasomyi bacu:
"Mwaramutse Maria!
Nitwa Elena. Nishimiye ko umutwe wawe wagaragaye. Ibi ni inzira yanjye. Ndubatse amezi atandatu. Ntabwo birebire, ariko tumaze kugira ibibazo. Umugabo anshinja ko ntamukunda. Guhora ucyaha ucukuye. Ndatuka cyane, kuko atari byo. Ndamukunda cyane kandi bihutira umubano wacu. Akora byinshi, kandi ndagerageza kwitaho muburyo bwose. Hafi yinzu yose ndira ubwanjye, nubwo nako nkora. Nanjye ubwanjye nagize gahunda yo gutunganya igorofa: Nahisemo ibikoresho bitangaje, uwallpaper idasanzwe, imyenda y'imbere, amasahani na byose - byose ... Ndanjye ubwanjye ndabikuraho. Ndabikurikiranye, burigihe ndagerageza kuba mwiza, kandi kuri we. Ariko hari ukuntu ashima ibi byose. Rimwe na rimwe na rimwe narakariye. N'ubundi kandi, nkora benshi batagerageza gukora. Ongeraho imbaraga nyinshi no kwitabwaho - ntabwo bitangaje urukundo? Ntabwo ari ngombwa ko umugabo? Nyamuneka mungire inama yo kwerekana urukundo rwanjye. "
Mwaramutse, Elena!
Urakoze kubwibaruwa yawe. Ikibazo usobanura gifite akamaro cyane, kandi ntabwo ari wowe wenyine. Ikigaragara ni uko abantu badahora bigaragara, aho kwigaragaza urukundo bakeneye mugenzi wabo. Kandi ibi nibisanzwe, kuko twese dutandukanye, dufite ibyifuzo bitandukanye. Kandi icy'ingenzi - turatandukanye muburyo bwo kumva isi, nuko twumva inzira zitandukanye zo kwerekana ibyiyumvo. Noneho, abantu bose barashobora kwigabanyamo ibice bisabwa, amashusho nubugenzuzi. Kubijyanye na kingana, uburyo bushimishije kandi bwumvikana bwo kwerekana ibyiyumvo - gukoraho. Kubireba - Ibitekerezo biboneka: Kugaragara neza, ibikoresho no gutumiza munzu. Ubushakashatsi bumva amagambo meza. Dukoresha ibyumviro byose kugirango tumenye amakuru, ariko imwe nimwe. Gerageza kureba umugabo wawe witonze kandi ukamwemera murukundo mururimi rwe. Niba ari umuhanga, hanyuma umubwire amagambo yuje urukundo niba kineeter - gukoraho byoroshye bizaba byiza. Ahari uzakenera kuvuga neza, umusabe ko ari we kugirango werekane ibyiyumvo. N'ubundi kandi, bidasanzwe bihagije, gushyingirwa ni ngombwa cyane kuganisha ku gukwirakwiza inshingano zo murugo gusa, ahubwo no kwerekana urukundo n'ubwuzu. Bitabaye ibyo, dushobora gute kwishima? Kandi wibuke, akenshi inzira zoroshye nizo zizera cyane ...
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