Nubwo waba ukunda umwana, birakwiye ko uzi ko wemera umwana wawe. Kenshi na kenshi, ababyeyi bihutira gukabya: bamwe bahagarika ubushake bwumuntu muto, abandi hafi yumukobwa wabo cyangwa umukobwa wabo.
Ntugashyire umwana kumutwe wumuryango
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Nigute wabona zahabu hagati?
Mu burere, cyane biterwa n'imyaka y'umwana. Reba ibihe byingenzi byo kuba umwana wawe.
Uruhinja
Kuva avutse hamwe n'amezi atandatu, umwana akeneye umubyeyi kandi ahora yitondera kuruhande rwe, kubera ko akiriho biterwa nayo. Muri iki gihe ntibishoboka kumena: Niba umwana arira, nuko avugana ibibazo bimwe mumubiri umuntu akuze agomba gusubiza. Kugeza igihe umwana asaba ikintu, aho ishobora gukora, haracyari kure, ntukirengagize uruhinja rutaka - rukeneye gutabara.
Uburere bugomba gukora umuryango wose
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Umwaka 1
Ngarukamwaka yatangira kwigwa cyane isi yuzuye ibyago, bityo ubwitonzi bwa nyina butigirwa gufatwa nkubyishimo birenze: hamwe no kwitabwaho bidahagije, umwana ashobora gusobanukirwaga isakoti ishyushye hamwe na a gukaraba ifu. Gerageza kutiyatsi, ahubwo usobanuriye umwana impamvu atagomba gukora ku ibyuma afata ikintu mu bantu batazi. Ntuzahitamo rero icyifuzo cyo kumenya isi, ariko nanone kuburira umwana akaga, bityo ibibujijwe mubihe bimwe na bimwe birashimangirwa.
Kuva kumyaka kugeza kumyaka itatu
Hano niho impinduka ziza mugihe umwana atangiye kukubona - kugerageza kumva aho ashobora kujyana nababyeyi. Twese tubona mububiko bwababyeyi bababaye hamwe nabana, hamwe no kurira bisaba ikindi gikinisho. Nk'uburyo, aba ni abana b'imyaka itatu.
Ababyeyi benshi biragoye kubuza, kandi bamenagura kurira, ariko iyi niyo nzira igana kuri hamwe. Ugomba kugira ijwi rituje kugirango usobanurire umwana ko iki gihe udashobora kwemerera kugura gushya, nyuma yo guhora uyobora umwana kumutwe wamagana.
Nyuma yimyaka 3
Biroroshye cyane gutegura no kubona ubwumvikane. Umwana azi neza uruhare rwe kandi ubusanzwe arabifata. Yumva ko ababyeyi badashobora guhora basohoza igihe cyayo, akenshi abana ba 4/5 bamaze imyaka 4/5 bamaze gukorerwa imirimo yo guhuriza hamwe, bityo umwana yigeze gutekereza, uburyo bwo "kumena" Mama kugirango are gari ya moshi.
umwana wimyaka imwe akeneye kwitabwaho
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Ni ayahe mategeko azafasha gushyigikira umwana ufite ubuzima bwiza no kutagwa mugari mugihe ubwumvikane
- Umwana ntabwo ari ikigo cyisi, ntutegetswe gusohoza ibyifuzo bye byose, kuko ari umwe mu bagize umuryango, nkumugabo wawe cyangwa undi mwana. Ntugomba gusubika ibibazo byawe niba umwana agomba gukina nyuma yo kumara igice cyumunsi umwe hamwe na we mucyumba cy'abana mu mbuga.
- Abagize umuryango bose bitabira uburezi bwumwana, cyane cyane umugabo wawe. Ntugomba gutatanya, niba ubuza ikintu cyangwa ubundi. Birasobanutse, kandi cyane cyane - umwanya rusange ugomba kuba mubagize umuryango bose kuriyi ngingo cyangwa icyo kibazo.
- Niba ubuza ikintu, ntucike intege kandi ntukajye kumwana - ugwe.
- Himbaza umwana kubikorwa byiza, wishimire intsinzi: Muri iki gihe, azagira imbaraga zo kwimuka muri iki cyerekezo.