Birumvikana ko benshi muritwe dushakisha tubishimiye ko ibyifuzo byambere byifuzo byabafatanyabikorwa bigomba gushyirwaho kuri bo hamwe, bikaba bitekereza kuri kimwe cya kabiri cyabafatanyabikorwa batanga, bashingiye kuri Umubare wabantu hamwe nubujurire bwabagore, ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina ntibishobokaga kwitirirwa. Nigute ushobora gutanga kugirango wumve mugenzi wawe ko amateraniro yawe magara azakuzanira kunyurwa, iki? Muri ibi twagerageje kubimenya.
Mbwira neza
Abandi bantu ntibazi gusoma ibitekerezo byacu, nizere rero ko "bazakeka", "nyuma yaho, atari umuswa," birashoboka cyane, uzishora mubyifuzo bya egoig kandi . Abagabo benshi bizeye ko niba umugore atagaragaje igitekerezo cye, bivuze ko ibintu bimukwiriye, bityo ntibisobanutse neza kubwo gutenguha nyuma yo kuba hafi, kuko mubwenge bwe ufite byose mu mibanire. Byaba byiza, wubake imipaka yawemerewe "ku nkombe", ndetse na mbere yigihe "ariko, ntabwo bivuze ko ugomba gucika intege mugihe icyo aricyo cyose cyimibanire - kuvuga kandi Ongera uvugane.
Ba inyangamugayo
Umuntu wese ufite amakenga utigeze yibara, yigane orgasm no kuvuga ishimwe mugihe ukomeje kuba umuntu wenyine mubyumba, bitakiriye neza inzira na gato. Birumvikana ko bidakwiye kuvugisha ukuri "mu gahanga", cyane cyane byuzuye "ibyabaye", niba wumva ko umugabo ari hafi y'impinga, kandi ntiwigeze ukwirakwiza ", gerageza gukurura Indunduro, gushimira abagabo wenyine. Umugore burigihe akeneye umwanya munini wo guhuza imibonano mpuzabitsina, gerageza gutanga iki gitekerezo kumugabo kandi ntukine ikinyabupfura.
Ntuceceke niba utameze neza
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Ukurikije urugero rwawe
Niba watangiye guhura, inshuro zambere ntushobora guhura nintima hamwe numufatanyabikorwa mushya, nibisanzwe, ni uko utarakwiga. Ariko niba nyuma y'amezi make ibintu bidahinduka - ntuzumva unyuzwe, bidashobora kuvugwa kuri mugenzi wawe - ubiyobore neza: kwerekana neza, ni ubuhe buryo ukeneye gukora umubiri wawe.