Kimwe mubibazo bidashimishije mubuzima bwumugore - "mugihe usanzwe ugana umwana wawe?" Kandi ntabwo buri gihe iki kibazo cyabajijwe mumajwi yinshuti, niba umuntu atabonye igisubizo cyumvikana kuri wewe, hari inama ziva mucyiciro "ujyeyo, kandi byose mu mwuka nk'uwo byarafashijwe." Tuzasesengura icyo gukora mubihe bidashimishije, ariko mubuzima buke.
Ntibishoboka guhatira umuntu guceceka kandi ntuzongere kukubaza ibibazo bisa, cyane cyane niba uyu ari mwene wacu, ariko ubundi uzakomeza gutera ubwoba ibibazo nkibi, uracyacecetse.
Komeza mu maboko yawe
Ikintu kibi cyane cyo gukorwa nyuma yikibazo gisa - gusenya cyangwa gutangira hanze, kwimuka kugirango bitutsi. Mu magambo, utiteguye kuganira kuri iki kibazo, kuko bidashimishije, bitera urugero rukabije, ariko niba umuntu ahenze societe yawe, agomba kuyungurura insanganyamatsiko ashaka kuganira nawe. Ibyo ari byo byose, witegure kubisubizo byose bivuye kubanya kandi ntukareme.
Witegure gusubiramo
Kubwamahirwe, gusenga k'umuryango urambye kandi binini biraturuka muri societe yacu, ko ibibazo byo kuzuza mu muryango bidashobora kwirindwa. Hariho ibintu bike wamaze gusaba kwirinda iyi ngingo - ntabwo abantu bose biteguye kwemera ko umuntu ashobora kubaho ukundi, atari aywe. Witegure rimwe na rimwe gusubiza ikibazo na none. Urashobora no gutegura icyitegererezo.
Witegure gusubiramo
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Kwifata
Ibibazo bidakwiye byadukoreye gusa iyo twe ubwacu tudashobora gufata amahirwe yabo. Kwiyubaha kwacu akenshi biterwa nigitekerezo cyibidukikije, hamwe nibi ukeneye gukora cyane no kubuza ababo guhindura ubwitange bwawe. Niba bidashoboka kubyemera nkuko bimeze, fata umwanya wo gusura inzobere, ntibishoboka kuva icyo kibazo, bidashoboka kuva icyo kibazo, kuva mugihe runaka ushobora kuba usa nkaho hari ukuri kuri wewe, ariko muri leta Biroroshye cyane kwinjira mubucuti bushingiye.
Ariko abantu benshi baracyashobora kumva ko ingingo zimwe zikuyobora muburyo bubi, bivuze ko hafi ya hafi itazakugaragariza ibibazo bitari ngombwa, bikaba byiza kugeza kubidukikije kandi ntutegereze ubwabo.