Akenshi, abagore bizeye ko bimaze gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, umugabo asanzwe "mu mufuka," ariko hafi yemeza ko umuntu azagumana nawe. Abagore benshi bahora bakora ikosa rimwe - bizera ko imibonano mpuzabitsina igufasha "kugoreka" umugabo nkuko ubishaka. Ntabwo. Tuzakubwira ibihe bigize mu itumanaho bigomba kwitondera ko umugabo ufite ubwoba atigeze atungana nyuma yicyumweru cyambere itumanaho (niyo waba ukora imibonano mpuzabitsina inshuro nyinshi).
Ntugashyire
Ku mugabo nta joro rikomeye kuruta umukobwa wumukobwa utitayeho. Nibyo, wahuye hafi, ariko ntibisobanura ko aricyo gihe kigeze cyo kumenyana numugabo mushya hamwe nabagenzi be n'abavandimwe - kuguha umwanya ugomba kwigirira icyizere mu gushyira mu gaciro muburyo bumwe. Wibagirwe umubare wa terefone ye kandi ntugacomo mu mashusho "meza" na emoji - birababaje cyane kandi rwose ntabwo bigira uruhare runini kandi rwose ntabwo bigira uruhare mugutezimbere ibyiyumvo byoroheje kuri wewe.
Agomba kumenya ibyo ukunda
Benshi mu bagabo batekereza ku mibonano mpuzabitsina nk'icyemezo cy'ubugabo bwabo, bityo ibisubizo by'umurimo ntabwo ari ngombwa kuruta icyo gikorwa. Umugabo ni ngombwa kumenya ko ibintu byose bitabaye impfabusa, kandi uranyuzwe rwose niba utabivuze. Birumvikana ko twese atari twese turi mumarangamutima, ariko uko byagenda kose, mugenzi wawe agomba kumenya neza ko ushishikaye kuva aho agukorera. Ntukabe ibicucu kumarangamutima, azabishima.
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Ntutegereze byinshi
Nubwo mugihe cyizuba cya mbere, umugabo arakutwara mumaboko, yimbitse yimpano kandi ni ukubera ko ibintu byingenzi byabayeho hagati yawe, ntugashyireho gukomeza - mugihe gito cyo gutumanaho, Ntibishoboka kwizera ko umugabo arukurira urukundo, ntibishoboka. Gerageza kumarana umwanya munini, wige umuntu niba intambara ye itarangiza mumezi abiri mu itumanaho, muri iki gihe ushobora gutekereza ku kuba umubano wawe uzabona iterambere nyaryo.
Ntureke kurambirwa
Abagabo bakunda ubwoko butandukanye muri byose, kandi mugitangira umubano utunguranye kubakozi batangaje kuruta byoroshye. Gerageza gushyiraho itariki ahantu hatandukanye, tanga ibikorwa bitandukanye, kandi birumvikana ko ushakisha uburiri butandukanye - imikino yo gukina, ibisigazwa kandi ahantu hadasanzwe n'ahantu hashobora kumwereka ko witeguye ubushakashatsi.