Buri mukobwa byibuze wigeze kumva: "Nibyo, iyo usanzwe utekereza ku bana?" Kandi ntakintu gitangaje muri ibi, kuko igitekerezo cyuko abavandimwe ari umunezero mwinshi mubuzima bwumugore uwo ari we wese, uzwi cyane.
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Ntawe uzi ibyo umuryango uzahura nabyo
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Bigenda bite?
Ubuvandimwe nyabwo ugomba guhura nabyo, kure yibitekerezo. Twahisemo gusuzuma ukuri ko bidasanzwe tuvuga.
Bning
Hariho verisiyo yo gutwita itanga imbaraga kandi ikagura ubuzima. Ariko, "ababyiboneye" biteguye gutongana: gutwita - umutwaro munini ku mubiri, aho indwara nyinshi ziyongera.
Umugore amaze kubyara, nta gihe kuri we, nkuko umuntu muto asaba kwitabwaho. Muri iyi sano, gukira byuzuye biratinda cyane. Ongeraho ubwoba buhoraho nibyishimo byumwana, kimwe nintangiriro bihinduka ikibazo nyacyo.
Ubuzima bwawe buzaba kuyoborwa numwana
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Umutwaro kuri psyche
Mu gutwita, Mama uzaza yemera ko igitekerezo kiti: "Byagenda bite se niba hari ibitagenda neza?" n'ibigo byayo. Mubyukuri, ntibishoboka guhanura, ni izihe ngorane zizahura n'umuryango n'umunyamuryango wacyo mushya.
Ntugahagarare kandi wibagirwe kubyerekeye kwiheba kw'ibinyabuzima bizwi cyane, birenga ababyeyi benshi kubwimpamvu yo kuvugurura hormonal.
Ibibujijwe byinshi
Nyuma yumwana ugaragara, ugomba guhindura ubuzima bwawe, utegereze gahunda yumwana byibuze imyaka itatu. Umwana asaba kugaburira kenshi, kugenda birebire no kwiyuhagira, kandi ibyo byose kuri gahunda.
Urugendo urwo arirwo rwose rugomba gutekereza kubyo umwana akeneye, ntuzongera gusohoka mumyaka hanyuma ukajya ku nkombe yisi. Witeguye guhindura ubuzima bwawe cyane?
Gutakaza igice
Tuzaba inyangamugayo, duhangane n'umwana wenyine - umurimo ntabwo uri mu bihaha. Ubwa mbere, mugihe ibitekerezo byawe byose bikwegereye umugabo muto, ugomba gushyigikira amafaranga nabakunzi, mubisanzwe kumugabo we.
Niba ugiye kwimuka byibuze igice cyisaha imwe, kandi rero uzakenera ubufasha bwabasameteri, nawe uzakenera guhamagara niba ufite umubano mwiza mbere Ibyo.
Gushakisha akazi birashobora gufata igihe kinini
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Ntabwo akazi byoroshye
Umukoresha uwo ari we wese yumva ko mama aterwa na Leta y'umwana: Ibitaro bikunze, bitabwa mbere mu nama n'ibindi bihe. Ntabwo buri sosiyete yiteguye gutanga ibitekerezo, nuko gusa gushakisha akazi wari gutegura mubipimo byinshi, biragoye.
Ariko, hamwe no guta kuri interineti, byarushijeho kubona akazi - urashobora gukora ibikorwa byumwuga utavuye murugo. Ariko ugomba kumva ko niba ufite umwana, ntuzashobora kwiyegurira byimazeyo.