Ijambo "ikinyabupfura" rimenyerewe kuri benshi, ariko bisa nkaho ari ikintu kure cyane kandi kiboze mubuzima bwacu bwa none. Twese kuva mu bwana twigisha "kwitwara neza", ariko uko ari - bake kandi, kuba abantu bakuru, twihitiramo. Ingaruka z'aya mahitamo zirashobora kubahirizwa buri munsi mubuzima bwacu. Kurugero, ubu bifatwa nkibisanzwe mugihe umugore ahamagaye umugabo, kandi ko kumunsi umuhamagarira kwiyishura. Cyangwa benshi, byanze bikunze, inshuro zirenze imwe zemeje uko abantu batatekereza ko ari ngombwa guhana na gato na nyina. Kandi hariho ingero nyinshi nkizo! Twibagiwe ibisanzwe n'imyitwarire, tugenda tugenda kure muri societe y'imiryango kandi tukagera ku kajagari no kutumvikana kwabaho no kubaka umubano nabandi. Kubura ibipimo bisobanutse neza, kugabanuka kurwego rwumuco wumwuka numuco wo mu mwuka nukuri bidukikije. Twahoraga duhura nibibazo byubuzima byemeza ko societe igezweho ikeneye ububyutse no guteza imbere umuco wimyitwarire.
Birumvikana ko ushobora gutongana igihe kirekire ngo "icyiza n'ikibi," ariko hariho amategeko amwe agenga imyitwarire y'abantu bashingiye ku myitwarire n'imyitwarire. Ibi ni ikinyabupfura. Kandi ibi ntabwo ari imigani, ariko igitekerezo cyukuri cyukuri benshi ntibatekereza.
Noneho kugirango ugire icyo ugeraho kandi uzwi cyane mukarere kose, waba isosiyete yinshuti, ibidukikije byubucuruzi cyangwa umubano wihariye, gusa birasa neza kandi bize. Vuga neza ko "uhure imyenda - baherekeza ubwenge." Ariko ubujiji bwiburyo bwiza burashobora kwangiza igitekerezo cyose cyumuntu, nubwo cyaba gifite impamyabumenyi ishimishije kandi ifite impamyabumenyi itukura.
Ikinyabupfura nicyo gipimo cyangiza, kigomba kwitabwaho bidasanzwe, kuko bifasha gukora igitekerezo cya mbere kandi cyakurikiyeho cyumuntu. Byongeye kandi, ntabwo ari ngombwa gusa mubikorwa gusa, ahubwo no mubuzima bwite kandi, byumvikane mumuryango. Kandi gutunga ubuhanga bworoshye nuburinganire, buri wese muri twe arashobora kubaka ubuzima bwiza kandi bwiza muri societe. Ubwo buzima arota.