Nanjye ndakwakiriye, Nshuti basobanuzi b'inzozi.
Ikibazo gishimishije kubyerekeye gusubiramo inzozi naje vuba kumutwe umwe.
"Nyamuneka mbwira icyasobanura inzozi zisubiramo rimwe mu mezi make. Mubyukuri, inshuro nyinshi biragoye kubikurikirana, ariko mugihe arose, ndibuka ko namaze kumubona. Bene de mie vu mu nzozi ... nyuma yo kubyuka, ndibuka ko ndimo ndashaka ikintu kumuhanda munini wumusenyi umaze igihe, ntabona inzira. Hafi y'abantu, ariko bameze nk'igihu, ntabwo bavugana nabo. Ndebye ibirenge byanjye igihe cyose, ngerageza gushaka ikintu. "
Ubwa mbere, inzozi zirashimishije cyane. Nta gushidikanya, ibikubiyemo ubwabyo birenze mu mucyo. Ihinduka ryacu ryacu ritagira ubwenge imbere yacu gushushanya gushakisha igisubizo runaka. Niba twarose inzozi nuyu mukobwa, natekerezaga ibibazo nkibi: "Abantu bakora iki? Bari bande? Pofanyaziruy, kuki uhangayikishijwe gusa no gushakisha? Ni ibihe bihe mubuzima bwawe bisa? ".
Ariko, ubu ntidushobora kwakira ibisubizo bitaziguye kuri ibi bibazo. Kubwibyo, dusuzumye ibintu nkibi nkinzozi zisubiramo.
Abasomyi bitoroshye bibuka ko inzozi ari ikiganiro cyimirimo yacu idahwitse namakimbirane agaragara mu buryo butazi ubwenge. Kubwibyo, turashobora kuvuga neza ko inzozi zisubiramo ari urwibutso rwibutsa umurimo udakemutse.
Inzozi nkizo zigomba gutoneshwa gusa nubufasha bwigice gifite intego, nkuko twabikoze mubika byambere byingingo, ariko kandi reba uko ibintu bimeze biterekeza izo nzozi.
Witondere ibibera mubuzima bwawe, mu mibanire yawe nabakunzi cyangwa abo mukorana, mugihe uhita utangira kubona inzozi zigana.
Ahari biragaragara ko gukomazana atari inzozi gusa, ahubwo ni no mubihe bazabaherekeza.
Kurugero, umwe mu tuziranye igihe kinini arota ibikoresho bitandukanye bya gisirikare: parade y'ibigega, amato, indege nini ya gisirikare. Mu nzozi, yitegereza aya masezerano ava kuruhande, ntabwo yitabira ikintu cyose, gusa yishimiye kwitegereza. Nyuma yo gusuzuma ibyabaye hanze birambuye, byaje kumeza ko Inzozi zifite gahunda za gisirikare zahujwe mubuzima bwe mugihe yazamuye imbaraga nintwaro yo gushyikirana nabakunzi. Kuba abantu benshi biboneye, gukomera, imbaraga, yaremye igitekerezo cyumuntu udatsindwa kandi udashobora kugerwaho.
Iroba inzozi zamufashije kumuhishurira ko yirinda gushyikirana n'abantu kavukire, yihisha intwaro ze, kandi agomba kuba ishyushye kandi aroheda.
Urota inzozi zimwe?
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Maria Zebekova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yiterambere ryumuntu wubucuruzi Marka Hazin.