Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bahura na bo bahuye n'ubujurire bw'abantu bahohotewe na Blackmail, kandi iyi Blackmail ntabwo buri gihe ishingiye ku ngaruka za BlackMail nkuko byaba byiza. Twahisemo gutondekanya ubwoko bwa manipune ya psychologiya muburyo burambuye.
"Nzababazwa niba udakoze uko ngusabye"
Urebye, ikibazo kitagira ingaruka rwose. Ariko kubwa mbere. Kenshi na kenshi, abagore bitabwe kuri manipilations y'ibitutsi - abantu biragoye kumva ko "bafashe ifuni", bityo iyi gahunda ihita iba mu cyerekezo gitandukanye. Birumvikana ko muburyo bwose harigihe harasobanuwe neza, ariko kugeza igihe biba uburyo bwo kubona umuntu wifuza. Nk'ubutegetsi, nyuma yo gutandukana bumva uburyo muri make bikoreshwa, bahita bicika intege, bityo ntibikenewe gutekereza ko uzashobora gutabara mubibazo ubifashijwemo nicyaha gihamye.
"Ndi, ni iki, njyana"
Nibyo, ntibishoboka guhindura umuntu mukuru, twemera abafatanyabikorwa, twemera abafatanyabikorwa baryo kandi tubibi, ni ngombwa kumva iyo umufatanyabikorwa wa kabiri atangiye guhura nubucuti. Kenshi cyane urashobora kumva mu gice cya kabiri: "Reka dufatene ko dufite" kandi birasa - ubwenge - ariko oya: Ukimara kwerekana umufatanyabikorwa kubyo utanyuzwe, azahita akwibuka iki kiganiro : "Twarabyemeye, uranyanga gufata?" Kandi byose muri roho. Mu bihe nk'ibi, biragoye kwanga ikintu unigulator agerwaho.
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"Nzabana nawe, ariko ugomba /" ... "
Amategeko nyamukuru yimibanire myiza - umufatanyabikorwa ntashobora gutanga ibintu inyungu nuburenganzira bwikigereranyo cya kabiri bizababara. Bitabaye ibyo, ManicUlator yakiriye imbaraga zidashira kuri mugenzi wawe - kuva mu bitekerezo bishimishije umufatanyabikorwa atariteguye gukora murugo, apfa ubuzima bwabashakanye.
Nkingingo, bityo umufatanyabikorwa wa manipulative agerageza kwemeza kubera umufatanyabikorwa ufite intege nke mumarangamutima, kandi kubwibyo yerekana igice ntarengwa gishobora gutangwa kubwukuri. Witondere.
Niba ubonye ko kwinjiza nkibi nibintu bisanzwe kuri couple yawe, ntugomba kubyirengagiza, kuko bitinde bitebuke, bizagenda bimara kumpera, byoroshye gusohoka. Ntibishoboka guhamagara umubano nkuyu, bityo ugerageze kugisha inama mumitekerereze yumuryango, hamwe ushobora kugerageza kubona igisubizo cyikibazo kandi ukamenya uburyo bwo kwerekana ibitero byumukara, niba kubwimpamvu Witegure guca ubwo busabane.