Nibyo, kwiteza imbere buri gihe bifasha kugera kubisubizo uharanira, kandi uko wateraga icyo ukura cyane. Ariko, isiganwa ryo gutsinda rimwe na rimwe rishobora kugira ingaruka mbi cyane kuri psyche yacu - kubantu bamwe kumara isaha yose, bareba mumashusho gusa kuberako akunda umwuga kandi ntabwo agira ingaruka kuriwe Iterambere ryumuntu - gusa ntibyemewe kandi ntacyo bivuze gutwika igihe. Umugabo yabujije rwose gushaka ikintu. Twahisemo kumenya impamvu rimwe na rimwe twihatira gutera imbere, ariko nibyiza kutaba.
Abantu bose barabivuze
Tuba mw'isi y'amarushanwa ahoraho, cyane cyane ubu buryo iramenyera abantu batuye mumijyi minini. Duhora tutwibutsa ko n'isaha y'inyongera tumara mu buriri twinshi, tukatwika hafi ya Karrunovnik, "mu gihe uryamye hafi ya Karrunovnik," mu gihe uryamye hafi ya Karrunovnik, "mu gihe uryamye. Hagarara utekereze, icyifuzo cyo gutsinda ni icyifuzo cyawe cyangwa ntushaka gusa kutemera inshuti na bagenzi bawe?
Intsinzi ni ngombwa kuri wewe cyangwa ibidukikije?
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Turashaka kuba beza muri bose
Kandi hari akaga ko gutakaza iyo mot, zitandukanya ubutungane butunganye kubwicyifuzo kibabaza kuba cyiza. Nk'uko byatangajwe na psychologue, hafi kimwe cya kabiri cyabakiriya babo bakora mumasosiyete manini, bahuye nikibazo gikaze - uko bahura nibibazo bidashoboka, ariko rimwe na rimwe bidashoboka, ariko rimwe na rimwe abatoza ubucuruzi no kwamamaza no kwamamaza no kwamamaza no kwamamaza no kwamamaza kuri Bitandukanye, biganisha ku gutwika amarangamutima umuntu ukora urutonde, ariko nta gisubizo, usibye ingaruka mbi kuri psyche.
Tugomba kumenya icyo dukunda
Kuba muri sosiyete, biragoye kwirengagiza ibyifuzo bye. Buri wese muri twe arabizi cyangwa atabizi, ku rwego rwibitabo arashaka kwemerwa n'abantu bafite uburenganzira kuri we mu turere runaka. Kandi nkuko tubizi, gusa ifaranga rishobora gusa kuri buri wese. Niba udahagaritse guharanira kubona ibyemezo bihoraho, nyuma yimyaka ibiri yikibazo, uzagwa mu ntebe yumurwayi mubiro bya psychologue.
Duharanira gusa nkaho twatsinze kandi ntidushaka gutegereza
Kenshi cyane, ibitekerezo byacu kuri bo ntibihurira ukuri, kandi ibi birashobora kuganisha ku buhanga bukomeye. Mugihe tutakiriye reaction dutegereje gukora ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, icyifuzo cyo gukora ikintu gikurikira gishobora guhita kibamo igihe kinini, nikihe kibazo gikunze kuba kinini, mugihe umuntu ashaka kugera ku ntsinzi muri gahunda ye, Ariko ibisubizo mubuzima bwatengushye. Umuntu ahagarara kandi areka gukora, nkaho atari hafi gutsinda. Ntugomba gutegereza ko abantu bahita bashima imbaraga zawe - erekana kwihanganira kandi uzabona ibisubizo.