Muri Amerika, hakurikijwe ibyavuye mu bushakashatsi bw'ikigo cya Williams, hafi 4,5% by'abaturage mu gihe cy'ubushakashatsi bwa Leta babwiwe ko umuryango wa LGBT uri mu muryango wa LGBT. Mu mahanga hashize kuva kera gukunda igitsina kimwe kandi byemerera abashakanye kurongora, barera abana no kubaho kimwe nabandi bantu. Turasobanura impamvu ari ngombwa kwakira umuntu nabandi kure yawe nuburyo bwo kubikora.
Muri Amerika no mubindi bihugu ni ngombwa
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Icyerekezo kidasanzwe - ntabwo ari vice
Ntugomba kumenya ko yifuza ko umwana yifuza kubantu bo mu mibonano mpuzabitsina nk'indwara cyangwa ingaruka zo kwiga nabi. Nibintu bye gusa, kimwe na freckles kumazuru cyangwa ibara runaka ryamaso. Gusa kuba byashyizweho muri twe, kandi ntabwo byemewe mumuryango, urwego rwuburezi, ibidukikije, nibindi. Ariko kutitiranya umuryango wa LGBT ni imico rusange, atari yo mu kintu nyamukuru: Ntamuntu numwe ufite uburenganzira bwo gucira ababakikije kubyo bakunda.
Fasha umwana gufungura
Amaze kurera societe y'abakurambere hamwe nigitekerezo gikomoka ku gutanga umuryango, umuntu ufite icyerekezo kidasanzwe ahora bigoye kuvugisha ukuri. Cyane hafi yimyanda agaciro kandi dukunda tubikuye ku mutima. Niba wari hafi yumwana mbere, ntabwo bigoye kumva imitekerereze ye no kubiganiraho byimazeyo, usobanura ko umukunda umuntu uwo ari we wese kandi ntacyo yari afite. Ntugomba gutekereza ko utazashimishije ku kuri kandi urashaka "gukira". Sobanukirwa gusa ko umwana wawe ari ugukomeza, ariko ntabwo ari wowe. Umuhe amahirwe yo kubaho ubuzima bwimbitse.
Urukundo ni rwiza mubigaragara
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Ntukajye gucika intege
Nibyo, birashoboka ko uzagora gufata iki kintu, cyane cyane niba utahuye nkibintu nkibi. Ariko, menya neza kwirinda mumaboko yawe kandi ntukemere ko ubushake n'amarangamutima, bikurikirwa no kwicuza ivuka ry'umwana cyangwa iterabwoba kumujyana kwa muganga. Sobanura ko utari byoroshye ubu, ariko uzagerageza guhangana nimitsi no gukora wenyine. Reka ambwire uko yaje kumenya ibiranga kandi niba yarabyaye umubano n'abantu bo mu mibonano mpuzabitsina.
Witondere abandi
Nubwo byakoroheye nyuma yo kuvuga, ntukihute kubiganiraho hirya no hino. Mu gihugu cyacu, ikibabaje, ntabwo ari inyigisho zihagije muri kano karere. Abantu benshi bahuza nabi umuryango wa LGBT kandi ntushake kubona abamuhagarariye iruhande rwabo, badafite impamvu zifatika zibigenewe. "Kugabanuka Ubutaka" mbere yo kuvuga ibyabaye kuri bene wabo n'inshuti zawe. Nyuma yigihe, abandi bakikije umwana wawe ni bo bonyine bazakomeza kuba hafi n'indangagaciro hamwe no kuvugana nawe - bigomba.