Ntabwo buri gihe uwo twashakanye ahuye nibyifuzo byawe, cyane cyane nyuma yimyaka icumi, ifatanyiriza hamwe. Ntabwo bitangaje kuba abagore bareba muri bagenzi bato bato kandi badahwitse cyangwa batazi, kandi niba umugabo atangiye kwerekana inyungu, ibyago byo kuba umuhemyi bizamuka rimwe na rimwe. Kuki ukeneye umukunzi kumugore ugezweho?
Abagore babura urukundo
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Ku mibonano mpuzabitsina
Nkuko twabivuze, nyuma yumwaka muremure wo gushyingirwa, umubano numugabo we uhinduka urugwiro, gukomeza gushishoza kandi ukurikiranye biragenda, uhereye aho hantu hose hatometero "ibumoso". Ariko, niba umugabo ahuye nibindi bipimo byose, umugore ntabona ibisobanuro kubice (nyuma ya byose, mugushakisha igitsina, ibibazo, nkibibazo, ntibibaho.
Ibyiza:
Mubisanzwe, abagabo ntibakunze kwanga kugira itumanaho rishingiye ku butaka, kandi ikirere kigomba kugerageza mu buriri.
Ibidukikije:
Ni gake cyane umuntu atekereza ku byishimo byawe, kubera ko atagira ibyiyumvo kuri wewe, intego ye ni ukunyurwa n'umugore ushimishije, ariko, intego imwe ikurikizwa numukobwa wahisemo kumutwe nkiyi.
NK'UKOMEYE, GUSHAKA ABANTU BAKUNDO
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Itumanaho
No mubucuti bukomeye kandi bwigihe kirekire, nta mwanya wo gusobanukirwa. Akenshi, abashakanye ntibahura ninyungu, kandi rimwe na rimwe ni ubu ni bwo ingingo zisanzwe zifunze bigoye.
Mu bihe nk'ibi, abagore bakunze gusurwa n'inyungu z'inyungu, aho bishoboka ko ari byiza guhura n'ubugingo bugereranije.
Ibyiza:
Muri ubu bwoko, imibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo aribyifuzo byingenzi - byingenzi cyane ni uguhura kumarangamutima ni yo mibonano y'amarangamutima umugore yambuwe umubano numugabo we.
Ibidukikije:
Urashobora gukundana, nyuma gutandukana nabi bizakurikira. Reka ubwenge bwawe bushobore gushyigikira ikiganiro, ariko tuvuge iki niba adahanganye n'uruhare rw'umugabo we?
Umuroma
Urebye neza, igitabo cyo kumurongo ntigishobora kugirira nabi, kandi abagore benshi ntibabona ko ari ubuhemu. Ku ruhande rumwe, SMS, ubutumwa mu mbuga nkoranyambaga n'amafoto mu ntumwa ntibugabanijwe n'umuryango, nk'uko bigaragara ku buryo budahari, biragoye gufata uwo mwashakanye mu rwego rwo ubuhemu.
Umukunzi ntabwo buri gihe aba umugabo mwiza
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Ibyiza:
Ntabwo uhura kugiti cyawe, gusa ukunda kumurongo, igihe icyo aricyo cyose ushobora guhagarika iyi sano. Niba ubishaka, urashobora gusiba konte yawe hamwe na Cavalier warambiranye ntizigera ikubona.
Ibidukikije:
Iragirwa inama ku nyungu - ntuhuye na live. Kandi ibyiza muri byose, niba aribyo bizakomeza. Gusa mubibazo bidasanzwe, umugabo afite ishingiro ryuzuye ishusho watekereje muriki gihe cyose. Mu buryo nk'ubwo, ntushobora guhura n'inzira nziza yavukiye mu mutwe.