- Mbere yo gusubiza ishingiro ryikibazo, reka tumenye ibyo tuvuga.
"Ibintu bibi bihebye" nibihe bidashimishije byagaragaye bitewe no guhangayika no "" bidashoboka ".
Mubabaza bahinduka abimuwe, kuko imyumvire yumuntu idahuye. Imitekerereze ntishobora gutunganya, gusya izo nyababa no kurambura muburyo butazi ubwenge, umuntu yibagiwe.
Nubwo ubwenge butiteguye kubona ibi cyangwa ayo makuru, yimuriwe "ibihe byiza", bityo, psyche irarinzwe kandi yonyine.
Biragoye kurandura ikibazo aricyo, ariko ntubyinyibuke, ntubizi kandi ntukekwa. Paradox.
Umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze irina
Kanda ibikoresho bya serivisi
–Ni ibihe bibazo bituruka ku bwana butandukanye n'abandi, nk'urugero, ibibazo by'abakuze?
Ubwa mbere, mubana, mubyukuri tuzi kandi tuzi uburyo, dutangira kumenya uko iyi si itunganijwe. Nta bikoresho dufite cyangwa ibikoresho kugirango tujye muburyo bugenda mubihe bigoye.
Icya kabiri, ibintu byose bibaho mubana nuburyo bwa mbere.
Ubu ni ubwoko, "gufunga", kuba bikomeje gushishoza, bifata indabyiciro kandi ni "ishingiro", "scenario" kubunararibonye butaha.
Ntidushobora guhindura ibyahise. Niba ubu uri Mercedes, ariko mubana nta magare, ntufite igare mu bwana kandi nta mercedes azayihindura.
Kubwibyo, ntibishoboka kurandura burundu ibibazo kuva mu bwana, ariko urashobora kubimenya. Kubwibyo, ubuzima butera ingorane zubu.
Izi ngorane duhura nazo mu bihe by'ukuri bishobora kubahirizwa n'ibibazo kuva mu bwana, kugeza igihe imbere no gusohoka "gukomeretsa abana", akenshi bishobora gukorwa, akenshi nyuma y'ikibazo cyaranzwe.
–Nigute wamenya uburambe bwahagaritswe?
1. Genda ugana ingorane kandi witegereze. Ukimara gukora intambwe, uhite uhurira ibikoresho byo kubimenya no gukora.
2. Menya ibitekerezo byumubiri, kwigaragaza no gutangaza. Umubiri ni inzu yo kumva n'amarangamutima. Ikigaragara ni uko yibasiwe ntabwo ari ibintu bidashimishije gusa, ahubwo ni hejuru yibyiyumvo byose n'amarangamutima afitanye isano nayo. Inshingano zacu nugufata ibyiyumvo byihishe inyuma yumurizo hanyuma umenye ubwoko bwinyamaswa.
3. Reba ibyo wirinda ibyo kubona birambiranye, iki na'abisuzugura. Mu murima wa TV, ko wirengagije ushobora kubona byinshi bishimishije "kuva mu bwana."
4. Reba ibyo ukeneye. Urashaka iki. Aho ikurura. Urimo uharanira iki. Hatariho ibigoye kuri wewe.
5. Shyira hamwe nubuhanga bwubuhanzi: Reba firime, Soma ibitabo, wige amashusho, umva umuziki urebe ibyiyumvo byawe. Nkuko ibikorwa byubuhanzi bigira ingaruka ku isi yawe yunvikana, ni ubuhe burambe bwazamutse.
6. Andika ibitekerezo byawe, uyobore ikarita cyangwa igitondo. Urashobora rero gukurikirana impinduka zawe cyangwa guhoraho.
7. Niba udahanganye wenyine - wige kwizera no gushaka ubufasha kubanzozi.