Uyu munsi naje gusobanura ibitotsi kumugore umenyereye. Yohereje kandi ibitekerezo bye kubyerekeye gusinzira, ariko reka natwe tuzahuze kuri decodings yo kurota.
Noneho, ndyame kumyanzuro yayo ntazi ubwenge kubyerekeye kwizerana no kutizera abandi:
Ati: "Turagenda na nyirasenge ku muryango, ndamubaza nti:" Urashaka gusubira inyuma y'uruziga? " Arasubiza mu buryo bw'abana be: "Ndabishaka." Yicaye, ndaguma kureba kuruhande. Yagiye imbere, arahagarara hanyuma avuye kuri dius yose, ariko ntabwo ari mu murongo we, n'amababi yihuta iyo asigaranye gato iyo agaruwe gato, hanyuma arongera arahagarara - Impuruza 1. Noneho indi modoka irayitwara, kandi kubwimpamvu nayo itwara iyi modoka. Hano ndamaze gusohoka. Imodoka ya mbere irashaje, kandi yabonye bike, umushoferi avuga ko ntacyo akeneye; Umushoferi wa kabiri avuga ko yiga ikiguzi cyo gusana.
Bukeye arahamagara, avuga ko nta byangiritse ku bihumbi 250. Ndatangaye, ndabivuze, birashoboka ko bishyura kuri CTP. Mfite komiseri uzwi cyane. Noneho ndumva ko nta nyirasenge muri Osago yanjye. Niba kandi icyemezo kimaze kubikora, ntigisubiramo. Ntekereza ko ntashobora guhindura uyu mutwaro wose kuri nyirasenge. Umushoferi avuga ati: 'Umushoferi avuga ku buryo atakira amafaranga, kugira ngo ugomba kunyishyura ubwanjye.
Umwanzuro wanjye ko nagize ubwoba bwo kuvugana numuntu, kuko bintera ubwoba nibibazo, kandi muri rusange. Erega igisubizo cyose kizakomeza kuri njye kimwe. Ni iki kindi gikwiye, sinshobora kubyumva. Kuberako uyu mwanzuro woroshye, kandi ndabizi. Ntekereza ko hariho isano nukuri ko ntafite abakozi, simbyizera. Gutegereza ibisobanuro byawe. "
Muri rusange, nkuko navuze inshuro nyinshi, ni ngombwa gusobanura inzozi, imvugo ngereranyo yihariye nibimenyetso. Ikibazo gishimishije, yibajije ibyerekeye kutizera abantu no kwangirika, hamwe no kubura abakozi mu bucuruzi bwe.
Ntekereza ko igisubizo kigaragara mubitekerezo bye. Yemera ko imodoka ye muri uru rubanza izagenzurwa na nyirasenge, itazi gutwara, nk'ibyishimo by'abana. Ninkaho kwizera igihe ijana byo kwizera ijambo inzoga, ko atazanywa ikirahure, cyangwa umukinnyi uteye ubwoba ko atazafata ibya kera. Ikinamico yose, ikinirwa nyuma, ni gihamya gusa ko bizana umubano nabantu, uzi kumenya ko bazi ko badashobora kwihanganira.
Ntabwo bishoboka ko uzakubita umwana winjiza amafaranga, abasaza bagabanije ababyeyi - kwimuka no kwimura piyano. Mu mitekerereze no kwibuka cyane, utanga iyo mirimo kubantu bashobora guhangana, cyangwa kwigira. Ariko, ibitotsi byerekana intwari, nkubuhumyi yizera aho bitagomba gukorwa. Icyizere cy'umuntu mukuru kiratandukanye n'ibitekerezo by'abana kandi bidafite imipaka mu kuba afite agaciro n'uburambe n'uburambe n'ubushobozi bwo kumenya, kumva ko ari we wahawe.
Byongeye kandi, ibiberi byose byakurikiyeho biragenda bibyingiraho ubwabo ko "abandi bose bishyura byose."
Uyu mwanzuro uyitera mumibanire nabantu badashoboye cyangwa utizewe, bashinze imizi muburyo bwabo bwimbitse mubitekerezo byabo. Uruziga rufunze. Niba ibi bibaye kumwe na we gusa, twamurikira byoroshye nawe. Ariko iyi ni imiterere yumuntu. Ukuri gutunga, nubwo byagenda kose, bisaba ubuhanuzi bwonyine. Kurugero, igitekerezo rusange kivuga ko "abagabo badashobora kwizerwa" batanga abagore batandukanye kugirango babyemeze neza: inama nabagabo bubatse, Alphonse cyangwa ubwoko bwimpamvu zigerageza guhangana nihungabana hamwe nubufasha bwo kongeramo cyangwa inzoga.
Niba tuvuga ibyerekeye intwari yacu, ntagomba kumenyekana kudashaka uburyo nicyo agomba kwishyura, ahubwo ni uko atesha agaciro ababo "kumureka". Nkuko ibyiringiro bihumyi aho biri kwanga cyangwa kubuza.
Twifurije amahirwe kuri we muburyo bushimishije bwo guhindura imyizerere yacu.
Muburyo, iyo myizerere, cyangwa kumenya nabi kuri bo cyangwa ku isi, ntabwo byoroshye kurandura. Inama zoroshye kubakobwa bakobwa cyangwa ba nyirakuru baturuka murukurikirane "Ntutekereze ku bibi", "hejuru yibyiza" hano ntazafasha. Imyizerere mibi yicaye ku bunararibonye. Nkibisubizo byibintu bitoroshye byamarangamutima byari muburambe bwa buri wese kandi buriwese, tugera kumyanzuro mibi kuri twe hamwe nabandi kugirango dusobanure ibibera ububabare buvuye ku mutima. Mubihe byibanze, imyanzuro nkiyi ifasha guhangana nibibaho, ariko kubikorwa byakurikiyeho mubuzima bigira ingaruka muburyo bwuburozi. Ati: "Ntibishoboka kwizera" abagabo "ntibigeze bigera ku muvuko runaka, ahubwo ni ubushishozi abagore bareba abantu bose. "Nanjye ubwanjye, nta muntu n'umwe kuri uyu isi" igihe cyose akura mu nyenga hagati y'abantu. Imyizerere yacu ntazi ubwenge ubwacu ntishobora kutugirira nabi, ariko uko barushaho ubwenge, niko turushaho kubahiriza ibyo birabi. Inzira yo gutsinda mubuzima ni izi kumenya iyo myanzuro, igenzura ryabo kubikorwa bidashoboka hamwe nibikorwa byubuhanuzi bwangiza bishobora gukosorwa.
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Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin