Kuki umugabo utarigeze ahumeka mbere, atangira kwemerera kuvuga kumabara meza? Ibi birashobora kuba impamvu nyinshi.
Yulia Lansk, umuhanga muguhitamo abashakanye beza kubashakanye
Impamvu 5 zituma umugabo arangurura ijwi:
Impamvu 1 - Gukonjesha
Uwatoranijwe watwitse ibyiyumvo bikomeye yatangiye kumva ko bagenda. Ntagukunda nka mbere. Ntukigifite agaciro kuri we, kugirango ubashe guteza imbere umubano uzagabanuka.
2 Impamvu - Guhagarara
Icyiciro cya candy-igihe cya candy-yaguze impera kandi ituje ryumubano itangira, icyiciro cyiza mugihe umubano ujya kurwego rushya. Mumaze kwigarurira, ushubije umugabo wawe hamwe n'umuntu usubirana, araruhuka.
3 Impamvu - Ubushotoranyi
Arashobora kwitwara nkana kugirango arebe uko witwara mubihe bitesha umutwe. Kugira ngo ufate umwanzuro kurongora, umugabo akeneye kukubona kugirango wigaragaze mu bihe bitandukanye.
4 impamvu - kwanga
Gutongana birashobora kubaho ahantu hanyerera mu mibanire iri mubihe bitandukanye byo guhuza umugabo wawe numugabo. Aha hantu hakenewe kumenya kubatabarira icyiciro cya kwangaga, ntitukemere amakosa. Nzakomeza kuvuga byinshi kuri ibi.
5 Impamvu - Ingeso
Mbere, ntabwo wari ubizi kandi utinya ijambo siko kuvuga, ntabwo byari byiza, biyerekanye gusa kuruhande rwiza. Noneho usanzwe "ufite ibyawe", ubamenyereye kuburyo udashyira isoni rwose kudahisha umeze nabi.
Amakimbirane biroroshye kurimbura bumwe bwumwenegihugu ukomeye, ariko urashobora kuzinga kandi wungukire
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Amategeko 10 asohoka mubitonyanga n'amakimbirane
1 Ingingo: Reba
Reba uwo mugabo hanyuma usesengure uko byari bimeze. Niba afite umwuka mubi, ugomba kumva icyo biherereye. Ashaka kujya mu buvumo bwe akatekereza? Cyangwa niteguye kuganira nawe no gusangira ikibazo? Ntuzigere ushimangira ikiganiro niba atabishaka.
Ubutegetsi 2: Ntukabe ibikorwa
Ntukabifate nabi kuri konti yawe bwite. Impamvu zituma umuntu ashobora kurakara, gushyirwaho. Niba yagiye kukazi ameze neza, asubira mu bicu, birashoboka cyane, ibyo ni ibibazo bimwe byubucuruzi cyangwa umunaniro. Birashobora kubabazwa na bagenzi bawe, abo tuziranye, kumena imodoka, kubiba umutwe.
Ubutegetsi 3: ntabwo ari indorerwamo
Abagore bamwe bahita batangira kwitwara kimwe nkuko umuntu wabo yitwara. Bambara mask ye kandi bameze kimwe, aho kuba izuba rye no gushyushya umukunzi we. Ni sullen - baranyeganyega. Aceceka cyane - barabikora. Ibi biganisha kuri imwe gusa: urubura rurangwa nabi.
4 Ingingo: Ntukajye impaka
Urashobora gutanga igitekerezo cyawe udafite guhangana. Ubwa mbere, wemeranya numugabo, hanyuma wongere interuro hamwe nigitekerezo cyawe. "Yego, uvuze ukuri, ariko nanone ..." - hanyuma urashobora kumuzana utuje. Nyuma yo kubyemereye, azafata amagambo yawe atuje, kandi arwanya kurwanya itandukaniro.
Ntabwo indorerwamo mbi
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Ingingo 5: Witondere
Akenshi, abantu bazana ibibi byabo hanze, batabyanze byoroshye kubitanga. Uyu mugabo agira ubwoba mubi, biramugora kwirinda amaboko ye, birasenyuka, ibihe, ntibishobora kuruhuka. Arashobora guhuza ibi byose kuri wewe, ariko ugomba kumva ko mubyukuri utari uwahawe.
6 Ingingo: Ntukeme
Niba ufite uburebure bwamatonganya, ntugomba kwerekana ingingo yawe iburyo. Ubu ni umwuga udafite icyo ushoboye, uzagera gusa kumakimbirane manini. Ntuzumva, ntuzemera uko ubitekereza. Ntutekereze ko niba utanze igitekerezo cyawe uhoraho, uhita unyemera kandi uzabifata.
7 Amategeko: Sobanukirwa
Niba ushaka ko wumva - umva interineti yawe wenyine. Gerageza kumva icyo umugabo wawe akubwira impamvu ari impaka kurundi ruhande rwa bariyeri. Murebe ko uzi neza intego ze, byasuzumye igitekerezo cye no kwiyumvisha intego zayo. Ibi bizerekana ko wubaha ibitekerezo bye.
8 Amategeko: Guhindura
Amasezerano mabi yose ashobora kuvuka gusa mumakimbirane, gerageza guhindura undi muyoboro kandi uhindure inkingi yabo, yimura ibyiza. Urashobora gushimangira amakimbirane, kunezeza, gusuka amavuta mumuriro. Ariko urashobora kandi kuzimya, gutuza, kugabanya impamyabumenyi yimikorere yitumanaho ryawe.
9 Amategeko: Ntukarakare
Ntibikenewe ko ubabazwa mugihe umugabo asa nawe, ntushobora kumva cyangwa guceceka gusa. Ubwa mbere, niba utongana kandi ntukemere igitekerezo cye, kuruhande rwe ntimukabyumva. Niba kandi yaracecetse - cyangwa "yagiye mu buvumo", cyangwa akemeza ko amakimbirane atari ayandi yubatswe kandi agomba guhagarara.
10 Ingingo: Ntukarakaze
Ntakintu kibi kirenze manipulation mugihe cyamakimbirane. Nta mpamvu yo gutera ubwoba ko niba utemeranya nawe, uzamenyekanisha ibihano byihariye. Umuvuduko nkuyu ubwawe kandi uganisha ku gusenyuka burundu umubano. Nibisobanuro nyabyo, kandi ntamuntu nubaha uzababara nkiki.
Ariko umuyaga wagabanutse, wahagaritse amakimbirane. Birashoboka ko barasohotse, bahisemo guhagarara bitewe nuko bataje kubwumvikane bakahagarara. Ni iki gikurikira?
Bimaze gusohoka, muburyo busanzwe, subira mu cyemezo gituje cy'uko ikibazo
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Inama 3 Uburyo bwo kwitwara nyuma yo gutongana
№1. Kwihangana
Ntugomba kongera kugerageza gukomeza ibiganiro, kuvugana numugabo, umuhamagare ikiganiro gishya. Ihangane. Ugomba gutanga umwanya wo gutekereza, gukonjesha, kandi igihe azaba yiteguye gukomeza ikiganiro, azamutangira ubwe. Kandi ahari kubintu byiza kuri wewe. Hagati aho, ntabwo yiteguye - kumukoraho ntacyo bivuze.
№2. Imipaka
Ariko waje, irari iratuza, ibyemezo no gusohoka mu makimbirane. Gisesengura, kuko umutongali wawe yaranyuze, kandi niba umugabo yirukanye akarere kawe, yamennye imipaka, birakenewe kugirango ugaragaze, byerekana buhoro buhoro ko udakunda kandi aho yitwaye neza.
Umubare 3. Reaction
Usanzwe hanze yatongana, muburyo busanzwe, subira muburyo butuje bwibihe. Muganireho numugabo wawe, uhitamo umwanya woroshye mugihe ari byiza kuri wewe. Mubaze igisubizo kuri wewe yari yiteze ko tubona? Nigute yabona ibisobanuro byiza byubusabane, amakimbirane?
Nkuko mubibona, urashobora kurahira kandi ukambara umubano wawe, gutandukana, kandi urashobora gukurikiza amategeko yibanze yamakimbirane hanyuma ukagira ubishaka, ndetse nuwatsinze.
Gutongana, amakimbirane n'amakimbirane - siyanse yose! Kandi ubushobozi bukwiye gusohoka - ibizamini byubuzima hamwe nawe!
Jyewe, Yulia Lansk, umuhanga muguhitamo abashakanye beza kubashakanye, nkwifurije kugira ibihe bidashimishije mubuzima bwawe, reka byuzure gutuza, ubwumvikane nurukundo