Vuba aha, ikibazo cyo gushakisha akazi kirakomeye cyane, ariko biraba kinini cyane mugihe umuntu aba ari ahangayikishijwe numwanya we kandi bigorana imiterere nkiyi "yahagaritswe". Ntabwo byimazeyo bidashimishije niba umuntu nkuyu yagaragaye ko ari umuntu watekereje "urutugu rwizewe" numuntu ushobora kwangwa. Rimwe na rimwe, nta kujijuka no gusiganwa bashoboye guhindura ibintu. Twabonye uburyo bwo gukora niba umugabo ahindura inshingano zose mumibanire yawe, harimo nubukungu, ku bitugu by'abagore.
Shimira mubyukuri uko ibintu bimeze
Ntabwo buri gihe gushakisha akazi ni lena. Byongeye kandi, niba ubona ko umugabo akoresha imbaraga zose zishoboka kugirango ukemure ikibazo, ntampamvu gusa yo gusiganwa. Ntukibagirwe ibyabaye, kuko kugirango ubone ahantu hakwiye ugomba gukora no kwerekana kwihangana. Ibintu bitandukanye rwose biratera imbere mugihe umugabo ahora yirinda kuvuga akazi kandi ntacyo akora kugirango yegere intego. Muri uru rubanza, ntabwo ari ngombwa kuzunguruka scandal - icara kuri "ameza yo kuganira". Umuntu uhagije uha agaciro umubano wawe rwose azatega amatwi rwose ibyifuzo byawe kandi akaba yitabira ko izakemura ikibazo kitaguha amahoro.
Ntukore imirimo yose kuri yo
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Tubwire ibyiyumvo byawe
Nibyo, niba umufatanyabikorwa yitiranya ibyakubayeho, uburakari ndetse n'urwango nyarwo kumuntu uherutse "gutwarwa mumaboko birashobora kuvuka mubugingo. Ibitekerezo n'ibitekerezo bya Caustic mubihe nkibi ntibishobora kwirindwa, ariko, urashobora gusuka gusa umufatanyabikorwa gusa. Ntuzamure ibirego, ahubwo, mbwira uko mutorohera nuburyo ubona inzira yo kuva mubihe byubu, kurugero, gushakisha akazi k'umufatanyabikorwa.
Ntugahindukire muri "Mammy"
Ikintu kidashimishije cyane ushobora gukora gitangiye kumushaka akazi kuri we. Ariko utanga gusa "serivisi yubuhamya" hamwe nuwo wahisemo, kuko umuntu azatekereza ko gushakisha akazi ari ngombwa kuri wewe, niko mpamvu agomba guhangayikishwa. Nkuko ubyumva, ibikorwa byawe ntibizamuha. Byongeye kandi, nubwo ubona ahantu heza, umufatanyabikorwa azaba, niba ushobora kukwibutsa ko ari wowe wamubonye akazi, aho "kidashishikarizwa / mutajyanye no kurwego rwarwo" n'ibindi
Inkunga yo gutwara
Birumvikana ko tuvuga izo manza mugihe umugabo agerageza rwose, ariko akaba atarageraho intsinzi muribi. Kubantu uwo ari we wese, inkunga ni ngombwa, cyane cyane kubagabo bihebye, none kuki utamushyigikira aho kubisobanura mu majana igihe azaza ku kazi. Kuba amayeri.