"Mwaramutse Maria!
Nitwa Tatyana. Mfite ibibazo bikomeye numugabo wanjye. Tumaze imyaka ine dushyingiranywe. Nashyingiwe mfite imyaka 20. Hanyuma nize mu kigo. Umugabo wanjye arengeje imyaka 10. Ubu narangije muri kaminuza, mbona akazi. Yakoraga umwaka. Narezwe ku biro. Ndabikunze ubusa, kandi ndota umwuga watsinze. Ariko umugabo we afite izindi gahunda. Ashaka umwana, kandi nta n'umwe. Ndumva ko tutarashyingiranywe ko afite imyaka, igihe kirageze. Kandi nanjye ubwanjye ntakintu nakira abana. Ariko ubu ntabwo ari kuri bose ku mubare wa bose, niba ... gutongana kubera ibi buri gihe. Avuga ibintu byose ashaka abana ko umwuga atari ubucuruzi bwumugore. Kandi sitemeranya na we. Kandi sinshaka kureka na gato. Birakomeje kwiyongera kuba ababyeyi banjye kumuryango. Ndumva ko ntamuntu uzahitamo iki kibazo, ariko ndashaka rwose kumva igitekerezo cyawe nka psychologue. Murakoze mbere! "
Mwaramutse, Tatiana!
Nzagerageza kwerekana ibitekerezo byawe kuri ibi. Ahari bazakugirira akamaro.
Mubihe byawe, birumvikana ko bifite ingaruka zikomeye zuburyo bworoshye. Mbere ya byose, ko uruhare rwumugore mugukomeza kwibanda kumwogo no kurera abana, nuruhare rwumugabo, muburyo bwo gushaka amafaranga. Abahagarariye "uburinganire budakomeye" muri ibi bihe, birumvikana ko bigoye cyane. Kugira ngo utange inyungu zawe kubwumuryango, kubana kubandi ni umugabane ukabije. Byongeye kandi, kimwe mubibazo nyamukuru byabagore benshi bifatanije hano - abantu bose bakunda kuzuza ibyifuzo byabandi bifuzwa. Bajya kuri benshi kubwibyo, mubujyakuzimu bwubugingo, bizeye ko iminsi yabo izagororerwa. Kandi abagabo akenshi ntibashyiraho indangagaciro zabo kubikorwa byabo. Nka, birakenewe. Biragaragara rero ko abagore benshi birukanwa mu mfuruka. Icyifuzo cyo gukunda no kwifuzwa kimurikira amahirwe menshi - kwiyemeza, ubwigenge, umwuga n'imbaraga. Rero, kuguma mu bunyage imiyoboro rusange, umugore areka kwishakira, ava mu kamere ye kure cyane. Ariko amategeko abaho kugirango tubavunike! Urashobora gushaka kubaho neza, gerageza gushaka uburinganire hagati yibyifuzo byawe nibyifuzo byabandi. Ibyago, gutsindwa no gutsinda. Emera ubushobozi bwawe kandi ntukagereranywa nuko abandi bazatekereza. Nyuma ya byose, utagerageje, ntuzamenya, birakwiriye, kandi mubyukuri cyangwa ntabwo;)
Kandi, munzira, usibye, ntabwo abantu bose bakunda umutambyi n'abakobwa bato ...
Kuri iyi ngingo hari igitabo cyiza cya U. Erhard "abakobwa beza bajya mwijuru, nibibi - aho bashaka, cyangwa impamvu kumvira bitazana umunezero."