"Mwaramutse Maria!
Nkeneye rwose inama zawe! Ubufasha! Kubyerekeye ibintu bimwe na bimwe biranga imyitwarire yumusore wanjye. Tumaze kubona umwaka urenga, kandi amezi abiri ashize atangira kubana. Twahoraga dufite umubano utuje. Ndetse navuga ko ituze cyane. Ntabwo ari umuntu usabana. Afite inshuti nkeya yabonetse kenshi. Ndumiwe cyane, nkunda abashyitsi. Mugihe tutabanaga, ntabwo byari ikibazo. Twamaraga hamwe kandi ukundi, hamwe ninshuti. Namenyereye ko bashobora kundeba hafi igihe icyo aricyo cyose kurundi. Noneho byaragoye. Bitewe nuko mbaho ubu numusore wanjye. Birumvikana ko atarahiye, ntagerageza kubuza ikintu, ariko ababaye gusa ajya mucyumba gikurikira. Mubyukuri ntabwo yicarana natwe, ibyiza, iminota 5. Abakunzi b'inshuti zanjye baratandukanye - ifunguro ryabo ni byishimo, burigihe uza gushyigikira ikiganiro, rimwe na rimwe ntibakirukanwa no kuganira kubyerekeye abagore. Na my - nk'indogobe ia, birababaje kandi bivanwaho. Ntabwo mvuga ko bidakururwa nintoki ze ahantu hamwe na sosiyete. Sinzi kuba: Nkeneye kumutegereza ngo amenyere inshuti zanjye cyangwa agerageze kumumwigisha buhoro? Cyangwa ntukoreho? Ariko ikintu cyingenzi - Sinumva impamvu yirinda kuvugana nabandi? Birashoboka ko adakunda inshuti zanjye? OKGA.
Mwaramutse Olga!
Urakoze kubwibaruwa yawe. Nzagerageza gutanga igisubizo cyingirakamaro.
Kuri njye mbona urubanza ruri muburyo bwimiterere. Kuba ubisobanura, birasa nubwoko bwa schizoid (nta mpamvu yo gutinya iri jambo, ntituba tuvuga kwisuzumisha, ariko kubyerekeye imiterere). Abantu b'imitsi nk'iyi barafunze rwose kandi bagahagarikwa, ntibashaka ibigo bishimishije kandi bisesa. Ntibyorohewe muri societe yumubare munini wabantu. Nkibisanzwe, bakunda irungu, neza, cyangwa utuje, utuje hamwe. Ikintu nuko bafite ibyiyumvo byinshi kandi nkigisubizo, bagerageza kwirinda kugarura - umuziki uranguruye, itumanaho rikomeye na fuss yose muri rusange. Ibi byose bitera impagarara zikomeye. Bagerageza gushiraho intera itekanye nabandi. Bakeneye gusa umwanya wabo. Naboroheye kandi ku bijyanye nabandi bantu, gerageza kutarangiza imipaka. Hamwe numuntu nkuyu, ntabwo abantu bose bashobora gufatwa, kuko azahora akeneye umwanya wihariye. Kandi ntacyo ushobora gukora kuri yo. Ariko ibyo byose, arashobora kwitwara mubucuti bwite. Guhitamo rero ni ibyawe ...
Urashaka gusangira nabasomyi bawe hamwe numunywamvugo? Noneho ohereza kuri aderesi [email protected] yari yanditseho "kumurwi wa psychologue."