Biragoye gutanga umuntu udafite urwikekwe: ubwenge bwera, urujya n'uruza rw'ibitekerezo bishya - ibi byose bisa nkinzozi zidashoboka. Mubyukuri, ni ugushyira "kwangiza" Amerika, biduhatira kugoreka igitekerezo cyabandi bantu nibintu byabereye. Shakisha wowe ubwawe hamwe nabakobwa muriyi ngingo - Sangira ibitekerezo nibindi wabonye.
"Mvuze ishyari Masha, ariko byera ..."
Ishema rya "Umweru" n "" Umukara "ishyari muri psychologiya ritabaho. Kumva ishyari nibyifuzo bisanzwe byamarangamutima, akomoka mubihe bya kera mugihe cyintambara yo kubaho. Mubisanzwe bifuza wenyine ibyiza - ni ngombwa kutibagirwa guharanira. Kubona amarangamutima nkuko biri no kubamenya - Bizoroha guhindura ishyari kumunezero utaryarya kumuntu ukunda.
Shakisha inzira nshya
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"Ngomba kwifuza gusa - n'isi yose ku maguru yanjye"
Kwishyiriraho igice bivuga ikintu cyabanjirije. Nibyo, ntabwo abantu bose badakomoka kumagambo babikora - akenshi kugirango bagerageze kandi kuzamura imibereho irangirana no gufata amajwi muri Diary. Ntutekereze ko umubumbe uzenguruka wenyine, kandi ibizabategereje gusa amahirwe yo gusohoza inzozi ukunda - byose biragoye cyane. Iharanira gukora byinshi no kuvuga bike, noneho intego zawe zose zizatangira kugabanuka kurutonde rumwe. Gushyigikira akazi ninyota byubumenyi bushya nurufunguzo rwiterambere ryumuntu no gukura kwacyo muri gahunda yumwuka na gahunda.
"Birashoboka ko bikwiye kumuha amahirwe ..."
Mu mukunzi wa gordius, yibukije iyi nteruro, gutekereza biteye ubwoba. Ninde wagukubise ko uri "igitsina cyiza" gusa kubera ko umugore yavutse? Ba umuntu mwiza cyane - ntukine ibyiyumvo byabandi kandi ntushake inyungu mubushobozi bushobora kuba umufatanyabikorwa. Ntukarambure itumanaho gusa kubera ko utinya kuguma wenyine. Niba udakunda umugabo, umubwire ibyerekeye muburyo butaziguye kandi utuje - ntacyo bimaze gukurura mugihe cyo guhura numugabo mugihe, mubyukuri, ntumwitayeho. Umuhe amahirwe yo kwishima no kwishima wenyine.
Umuntu ntagomba gukeka imigambi yawe
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Ati: "Nzagura ijanisha ry'ubunini buke - gusa guta ibiro by'ikiruhuko"
Hagarika kwihatira kugabanya ibiro: Ntabwo usabwa kubahiriza amahame yubwiza. Imyambaro yoroshye yicaye ku gishushanyo ni ikimenyetso cyerekana imyifatire myiza y'abantu mu mubiri we. Mumukunda kandi utezimbere ibyawe, kandi ntibiterwa nibitekerezo byagutse mubantu biyegurira Imana kwiyegurira Imana cyangwa kutumvikana kubakobwa bakobwa. Kandi ntugomba kwitondera itariki: ibiruhuko cyangwa ntibikiruhuko ntabwo ari ngombwa. Niba intego yawe ari ukubaho ubuzima burebure kandi bushimishije, noneho imirire ikwiye, siporo nisuku yibitekerezo ntibizaba ikizamini munzira igana. Kuza mbere yibi mubitekerezo, gusobanukirwa: Yego, nanjye ubwanjye ndashaka kugabanya ibiro nta cyifuzo.
"Imana yatanze bunny, itange kandi nyakatsi"
Iyi nteruro yiruka akenshi ihinduka kimwe nimyitwarire yimpaka yo kubyara. Ntutekereze ko uhuye numuntu ukunda hanyuma urongore bihagije kugirango ubane kandi wishimye. Mwembi mugomba kugerageza kwera igishoro cyo kugaragara k'umwana: inzu yagutse, yoroshye ku imashini yumuryango, ubushobozi bwo gutwara umwana ku ruziga n'ibice, kandi buri munsi cyangwa buri munsi kugirango ufate nanny. Uko utanga cyane kuri "intangiriro", biroroshye ko bizagera kuri "Kurangiza" wenyine.