Mu gihe kitarenze ukwezi gusiga kugeza ku ya 1 Nzeri, umunsi, mugihe abana bababaye rimwe bazana umwarimu, kandi umuntu yagomba kwibiza mugihe cyicyumweru cyishuri.
Ariko, ntabwo ari abana gusa bihangana kandi bamwe bahinda umushyitsi babara iminsi mbere yuko umwaka mushya w'amashuri utangira - ababyeyi b'akaboko ba mbere ntibari bahangayikishijwe, kuko ntabwo azwi uburyo umwana azakira mu cyumba gishya. Twahisemo gutuza abantu bakuru bahagaritse umutima, kandi kubwibyo tuzatanga inama nziza.
Kubana benshi mwishuri - guhangayika
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Ubwoba - umwanzi wawe nyamukuru
Wibuke ko kuri uyumunsi imihangayiko ikomeye irimo kubona umwana, kandi uruseringo rwawe rwamagorofa, mugihe udashobora kubona igihano, wibagiwe guhuza nimiterere, gusa bizana uburambe gusa kumuntu muto ninde ntabwo yumva imperuka, ahohereza hose nigihe gitegereje. Tuza, nubwo wasinzira gato, ntabwo uzaba imperuka yisi, ntabwo ari ingenzi kuri wewe kugirango utazakora hysteria no kutagaragaza uyu muhungu wawe cyangwa umukobwa wawe.
Ushishikajwe nigitekerezo cyumwana
Iyo icyumweru cya mbere kirangiye, urashobora gutangira akazi keza: Urashobora kubaza utabishaka, ni ubuhe buryo bushimishije yasize umwana yaretse gushaka inshuti, ibintu byakunze cyane. Umwaka wambere kwishuri uragoye rwose, nuko rero umwana arashobora kugorana gukingura amaboko yawe, ni ko biba ngombwa, utange ubufasha.
Ntuzigere ugereranya umwana nabandi bana
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Nta kunegura
Ntabwo abana bose bashobora gufata kimwe nicyiciro cyishuri: Umuntu aragoye gusoma, abandi ntibashobora kubara mubitekerezo. Kora kugabanyirizwa ahantu hashya hanyuma utange umwana umwanya wo kumenyera. Ikintu kibi gishobora kuza kumutwe wawe nukugabanya umwana niba hari ikintu kidakorana nawe.
Umwana wawe ntagomba kumera nkabandi
Ikosa rya kabiri ryamamaye ryumubyeyi ukiri muto ni ugutangira kugereranya umwana wawe hamwe nabanyeshuri mwigana, abana b'inshuti nabandi bana. Sobanukirwa ko buri mwana atera imbere ibiranga, kandi inkuru zawe zerekeye intsinzi ya Vasi-Kai Petit Gusa utangira urujya n'uruza rwo kwirinda no gutanga umusanzu wo kwihesha agaciro no gutanga umusanzu.
Kuruhuka igihe kirekire
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Amategeko shingiro - Uburyo
Niba umwana wawe atagiye mu ishuri ry'incuke, arashobora kuba atamenyereye igitekerezo nkiki "uburyo bwindi". Ariko, ku ishuri, bitabaye ibyo, ntabwo ari ngombwa kubikora, bityo ugomba kuyashyiraho imbaraga zose. Gerageza gutangira imyitozo kumunsi wicyumweru mumezi make kugirango umwana azamuke hakiri kare ntabwo ari ibintu bitesha umutwe, ahubwo ni ibintu bisanzwe.