Umuryango ni gahunda, kandi, nka sisitemu iyo ari yo yose, yubahiriza amategeko runaka. Aya mategeko ntabwo agaragara kandi ntabwo yumvikana, ariko kurenga kwabo biragaragara cyane. Ibi birasaba ihohoterwa rishingiye kumyitwarire, kandi urwego rwo hejuru rwa voltage / gutabaza mumuryango, no gukoresha gukoresha imikoranire, kandi, nkurwego rukabije, purmatiya, ni ukuvuga kwigaragaza kwa psychosomatic (indwara yumuryango, harimo nabagize umuryango, harimo nabagize umuryango, harimo nabagize umuryango, harimo nabagize umuryango, harimo nabagize umuryango, harimo n'abana ).
Imwe mu mategeko yo kubaho n'imikorere ya sisitemu ni itegeko rya Hierarchy, umuryango ufite abakuru bagize umuryango, hari nyamukuru, kandi hari bato.
Imiryango igabanijwemo:
-Kirimbuzi (a) Abashakanye batagira abana; B) Mama, papa, umwana / abana)
— Yaguwe (Umuryango wa kirimbuzi + ababyeyi b'abashakanye ndetse rimwe na rimwe harimo n'ababyeyi b'ababyeyi).
Nk'itegeko, abana bakunze gukoreshwa mu muryango mugari, nubwo bibaye muri kirimbuzi.
Kubera iki? Kuberako mumuryango mugari, urwego rwimikoreshereze rukomeye. Reka tugerageze kubimenya.
Nko mu mategeko ayo ari yo yose, hari ibyo hari ingingo nyinshi / ingingo ziri mu mategeko y'imikoreshereze.
1.1. Umuryango wa kirimbuzi uguye cyane, usibye, niba umuryango ukiri muto urimo ababyeyi.
1.2. Ababyeyi beza kuruta abana (!)
1.3. Kumwana, imbaga nkuru ni mama na papa.
Iyo umwana akoresha nyina na nyirakuru (kenshi), ibi ni ukubera ko abantu bakuru ubwabo batahisemo uwo ari we waba mukuru, abana badashidikanywaho basoma aya makuru kandi bakayikoresha kubitekerezo byabo.
Kumwana, nyamukuru - Mama na Papa, badahari, ababyeyi bahamagaye ubwo bubasha kubandi bantu (sogokuru, umuforomo, ni byiza kubivuga hamwe numwana. Urugero: "Mama abwira umuhungu we ati:" Mugihe nzacika gukora, uzagira nyirakuru. Kuko ibibazo byose bimuhamagara. Kubera ko ntahari ko ari murugo. " Ibikurikira, kuri paruwasi, byaba byiza urangize inzira, kandi numwana. Mama Inkuru: "Mama, urakoze kunyombuza ko nicaranye n'umuhungu wanjye."
Rero, umwana ntazaturwa mumutwe, kandi hazaba amahirwe make yo gukoresha.
Subiza ubutware bwumwana ntibigeze bitinze! Ntutinye kumubwira ko abantu bakuru ari ngombwa kandi ukuze. Abana bakeneye uburyo bugaragara bwo gusinzira no kwidagadura, inzira zisanzwe no kurya.
Mu iterambere ryayo, igihe cyose "bazagerageza" kwagura ingaruka zabo n'umwanya wabo, mu bitabaye byanze bikunze, kubera ko abana banze icyitegererezo mu muryango kugira ngo bakemure ibyabo imirimo no muri sosiyete. Amaze gukoresha mu muryango, umwana azabikora atabishaka abikore mu busitani, no ku ishuri, no mubuzima bukuze.