Ni kangahe wunvise abasirikari bamenyerewe: "Yego, ari mwiza muri sekuru!" Cyangwa amahitamo nka: "Arimo kubera amafaranga ari kumwe na we"? Abantu baramagana abandi, nubwo basobanukiwe neza: ntamuntu, usibye abashakanye, batazi ikirere mu mibanire yabo. Twigira ku mpaka zumvikana kugirango twegere abandi.
Gusobanukirwa byuzuye
Akenshi bihinduka ingingo nyamukuru yabantu batongana kumacora meza hagati yabafatanyabikorwa. Ariko abanenga bibagirwa ikintu cyingenzi: imyaka yo gusobanukirwa indangagaciro zubuzima, uburyo bwo kurera abana ndetse nuburyohe bwumuziki ntibigira ingaruka. Umugabo ufite imyaka 50 arashobora kuba umukinnyi wabigize umwuga ameze neza kandi yumva urubyiruko, mugihe umusore wimyaka 20 atavugana numuntu - kandi ntashobora gukuramo byibuze muri mudasobwa - kandi ntashobora gukurura byibuze rimwe . Ni ngombwa kureba umuntu ubwe akavugana cyane no kumva niba uhuye nibibazo bigoramye cyangwa bidahuye.
Ni ngombwa kuba kumuhengeri umwe
Ubuzima bwo kuryamana
Ni ngombwa kandi kubona "ururimi rusanzwe" muburiri. Hano, imyaka ntabwo ari inzitizi: uburambe, urwego rwo gufungura no kwitegura ubushakashatsi bufite imbaraga nyinshi. Niba mumyaka 35-40 yashoboye gukiza iyo mico, ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina hamwe numufatanyabikorwa muto ntibizaba bibi kuruta umufatanyabikorwa numufatanyabikorwa. Ikintu cyingenzi mugihe cyo gukora ubushakashatsi kuri Urologue, umuganga wabagenzi na endocrinologue - aba baganga bazagufasha gushyigikira ubuzima bwimyororokere kubusaza.
Kwinjira muri sosiyete
Isoni y'abakobwa benshi itera uburyo bazamenya umugabo ufite inshuti n'abavandimwe. Biragoye gufata reaction ya mugenzi wawe ukikije - ntabwo abantu bose bashobora kubuzwa no kudacirwaho iteka abandi kubatandukanya nibisanzwe. Reka gukina "umukobwa mwiza" - uri umuntu ukuze wigenga udafite uburenganzira bwo kwamagana guhitamo impuhwe. Ntutinye kutagira ishingiro ryibisekuru byabakera - bazakunda mugenzi wawe mugihe ubonye imyumvire yawe yubaha kuri yo.
Ntucikwe nurukundo murukurikirane rwibidukikije
Gutinya gucirwaho iteka
Ikintu cya psychologiya, ibyo twabonye haruguru, akenshi bihinduka umwanzuro. Gusa gereranya gusa akato no kubura umuntu ukunda ku munzani winzani. Turatekereza ko guhitamo neza kugaragara. Dukora iyi ngingo hamwe ninzobere - umuhanga mu bya psychologue, bishoboka cyane, uzavuga ibya syndrome b'akababaro. Mubyukuri, umuntu wenyine uri imbere ugomba kwihanganira raporo - wowe ubwawe. Wige mubitekerezo byabandi - kubwibi ugomba kurera ubwigenge no gukunda ubuzima.