Kumenyana na miriyoni mubuzima bwisi? Mu myaka ya interineti, birashoboka kandi ntabwo aribyo! Ariko, uwitanze kubwa banki yatsinze, mubyukuri mubyukuri ashobora kuba umupadiri, akaba ababana na mama. Ni ubuhe "buryo butangaje" buryamye kuri wewe ku mbuga zo gukundana, nuburyo bwo kubyirinda?
1. Gukundana nabashakanye
Arashimishije, afite ubwenge, ubwenge, bwarashize ... mu ijambo, umugabo winzozi! Waramukunze mu kanza hanyuma amaherezo wabuze umutwe mu nama bwite. Birasa nkaho waremewe buriwese niba atari umwe "ariko" - kashe muri pasiporo, yari ahangayikishijwe nacyo. Dukurikije ibya kera by'ubwoko, arashobora kuguhagarika kugirango atamuhuza numugore we kuva kera, ariko uriteguye kwimennye neza muri nyirabuja mugihe kitazwi?
Tekinike yumutekano
Ntugakundane numuntu ufite imiterere yumubano wawe akomeje kuba amayobera. Niba imiterere yacyo idasobanuwe mubibazo; Kugaragaza, Ni uwuhe mugambi yanditswe ku rubuga, ni ubuhe bucuti bushakisha. Niba ari kubwimpamvu zimwe zahishe imiterere ye cyangwa yagushutse gusa, witondere igihe ajya kuri videwo kandi igihe yizeye amatariki. Abagabo bakunze gutwarwa muri wikendi na nimugoroba, kandi ntabwo bishoboka ko bashoboye kumarana nawe cyangwa ngo batumire iwe - ahubwo, bazaguha icyumba cya hoteri.
2. Injira murusobe rwa Casanov
Oya, ntabwo arubatse. Kandi ntugende! Muri rusange, nkawe, afite interineti yuzuye. Nubwo, birumvikana ko azakwizeza ibinyuranye. Birashoboka ko azakubwira ko uri ikintu cyonyine, cyane cyane, kandi ni ukurose ko yarose ubuzima bwe bwose. Ahari mubyukuri nibyo, ibyo ni urukundo gusa, nko mu ntambara, inzira zose ni nziza. Kandi ikintu cyingenzi hano ntabwo ari ijambo, ariko urubanza. Wigeze umara ijoro rishimishije, hanyuma arabura mugihe kitazwi kugirango agaragare mu buryo butunguranye hamwe nindabyo nindambi? Icyitonderwa: Hariho ibyago bizashira, kugusiga ufite umutima umenetse cyangwa ndakura!
Umutekano:
Umugabo agamije umubano adakozwe, ntabwo yihatira kukurushaho kukurusha. Ahitamo kutamarana umwanya muto wandikirana, ahubwo ashaka kukubona vuba bishoboka. Muri icyo gihe, ashyiraho inama ahantu hashoboka gushyiraho ikibazo cyumubiri byihuse kandi cyumubiri: kurugero, muri club nijoro cyangwa kumurongo. Umuntu watsinze kandi cyane cyane, muburyo, ntabwo azahagarika ibirori. Azaharanira kumenyera neza, azagira ibibazo byinshi - kuko adashaka igitsina ijoro rimwe, ahubwo ashaka umugore mubuzima.
3. Guma udafite igikapu
Ku ifoto - umuntu ukomeye kandi mwiza mu kirego cyijimye cyijimye, kunywa mortini kuri Veranda ya Villa. Yakwandikiye, umutima wawe urahinda umushyitsi: "Ese koko ni igikomangoma cyane nategereje igihe kirekire?" Ariko guhuzagurika mu mafaranga ntabwo ari inyungu nyamukuru. Ashobora gusa nkaho umuntu utunganye ukwumva kuva muri Clow. Mumaze guhangayikishwa no kwita nubwuzu, kugirango uhanure ibyifuzo byawe. Birashoboka ko ari muto, byongeye, ntabwo ari ngombwa, ariko ntibigutera urujijo, kuko yamaze kukwemeza ko atigeze ashishikajwe no kugenda, birarambiranye nabo. Ntabwo ari kumwe nawe, umugore, hamwe nisi ikomeye yimbere. Kandi ntabwo ari imbere gusa! Ukundana n'amatwi yawe igihe wahisemo uhamagaye kandi, bituma avuga ko yagize ibibazo, akeneye byihutirwa, kandi gusa ushobora kuzigama. Birumvikana ko wowe, utatekereje, kora ubusobanuro kumurongo uzengurutse kuri konti yagenwe, kandi ntukibone aho wunvise iyo wumvise umuhamagaro wawe: "Abiyandikisha ntibaboneka." Ntugahangayike: Birashoboka cyane, ni muburyo bwuzuye. Menya neza wowe ubwawe, nyuma yigihe njya kurubuga rumwe aho wahuye.
Umutekano:
Witondere niba umugabo ahangayikishijwe cyane numwanya wawe wimari. Arashobora gusaba ibisobanuro birambuye aho utuye, uburyo bwo gutembera, aho ububiko wambara, aho nukora ndetse ninjiza angahe. Umuntu wiyubashye kandi utsinze ntabwo ashishikajwe ninjiza, uko byagenda kose, mugihe umubano wawe utazajya mubyiciro byahise. Muri icyo gihe, arashobora kandi guhisha amafaranga yabo, kuko bikatinya ko abagore bazakurura amafaranga ye, atari we ubwe. Umwirondoro w'abatunzi akenshi urababajwe cyane, ntibirata imodoka n'amazu. Byongeye kandi, ugomba kuba maso niba gitunguranye umugabo aguhamagarira muri resitora kandi "yibagiwe" umufuka. Witonde! Kandi ntuzigere ukingura igikapu kandi ntukishyure umugabo kubwibi, ntukore neza ahantu hose mumakarita yawe.
4. Suka kuri maniac igitsina cyangwa mukerarugendo.
Biracyatazwi ko ari bibi - kuguma udafite igikapu cyangwa kuvumbura ko imbohe nyayo ihishe inyuma ya avatar nziza-natal nziza. Kubwamahirwe, ibi nabyo birashoboka. Nimba muri ubu buzima nyakuri, abagore akenshi kumenyana n'abantu binyuze inshuti cyangwa bene rero mu isi Kitaboneka dushobora guhangana amafarasi mwijima ko bashaka kugerageza uburemere.
Tekinike yumutekano
Ubwa mbere, biragaragara - bigenda munsi yumuntu utazi, sangira umurongo wumwirondoro we na terefone numuntu wizeye: Mushikiwabo, mugenzi wawe. Ntukemere guterana ahantu habi, ntukicare mumodoka kumuntu ubona bwa mbere, koresha tagisi.
Ukwayo, birakwiye kuvuga ibijyanye nibibazo mugihe ubonye ko uhita amenya ko umugabo uwo mumaze igihe kinini avugana kumurongo kandi yahuye inshuro nyinshi, akohereza ... amafoto yimbitse. "Maniac!", - kuvuga umugore wishimye. Kandi ukore amakosa. Niba usanzwe umenyereye umunsi wambere, uraguterana, kandi wamaze kumva neza ko nuyu mugabo ari byiza, noneho birashoboka cyane ko agutera muri ubu buryo. Ubwa mbere, ni ibintu bidashidikanywaho rwose byerekana ko adahangayikishije hafi. Icya kabiri, umugabo arimo yibaza uko usubiza - urashobora gusuzumwa, iki nikintu cyikizamini. Nta kibazo gishobora kubabaza, gutuka "icyubahiro", ariko nanone kwerekana ko wishimiye. Ikintu cyiza cyo gukorwa muriki gihe ni ugushiraho imipaka no kwerekana urwenya. Kohereza ifoto yimbitse, umugabo araguhamagarira "gukina". Niba ukora byose neza, uyu mukino urashobora gushimisha cyane kandi ugagufasha kumenyana neza.
5. Kutenguha bunyamaswa
Umaze igihe kinini wanditse, uraterana kandi amaherezo uhura. Wari uzi neza ko yari ameze, ariko igihe bamuhuraga imbonankubone, amarozi aratatanye. Urumva ko udakunda ibimenyetso bye, kugenda, impumuro, yitwara nabi cyangwa, muburyo butandukanye. Muri rusange, ibi rwose ntabwo ari amahitamo yawe. Urababajwe cyane, urababajwe nigihe cyamara, kandi muri rusange ntibishimishije cyane - igice gifite ibyiringiro no kwibeshya.
Tekinike yumutekano
Wige "gusoma" umuntu wumwirondoro hanyuma umenye icyo bikwiye. Niba, nk'urugero, utuye i Moscou, kandi wakunze umugabo wo mu mudugudu wa Swis, tekereza: rwose uzashaka kwimuka? N'ubundi kandi, iyi ni injyana itandukanye rwose yubuzima, undi muco nindangagaciro. Niba uri kumwirondoro ubona ifoto aho umugabo uri muri ski aramwenyura yishimye kuri alps inyuma, yemera mubyukuri: Uratinya uburebure, kandi ntushobora gusangira ishyaka rye. Witondere imyaka (Uzi neza ko uzoroherwa numugabo ukundwa ni ukukurusha imyaka 30?), Yashatse aramutse abyaye umuntu?), Ku rwego rwinjiza ( Byaba bihuye nibisabwa?). Soma hagati yumurongo: Uburyo asobanura iyo nteruro ikoreshwa, yatoranijwe cyangwa lacomic. Niba ari ngombwa kuri wewe ko satellite yawe ishimishije, abanyabwenge bashishikaye, ushobora kuganira kubitabo byabatiriwe Nobel, ntukishuke. Ntabwo bishoboka ko uzishimira ucecetse, uhindura cyane, umukinnyi wa Arsenal udafite amashuri makuru.
Kurambagiza kumurongo nibintu byoroshye, bisaba ubuhanga nubuhanga. Biroroshye kugwa kubitekerezo, wishushanye ishusho yumuntu wicyiza uvumbure nyuma ko ari we, ishyano, kure yukuri. Ariko niba utiyeguriye, erekana ubwitonzi, uzumva umuntu ushaka, bidatinze, bidatinze cyangwa nyuma yo guhura nigikomangoma cyawe. By the way, ntabwo byanze bikunze ifite igihome cye numutwe: Ikintu nyamukuru nuko bizagufata nkumwamikazi nyawo!