Rupture yimibanire burigihe ni ikintu kibabaza, ingaruka zabyo benshi bahitamo kurohama hamwe nubumwe bwurukundo bushya, ariko biragaragara cyane. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze basaba gufata igihe cyo gukunda, kandi twasanze impamvu.
"Oya"
Ni ngombwa kumva ko imibonano mpuzabitsina nuwahozeho nyuma yamarangamutima yawe, ntabwo azazana ihumure, kandi ntushobora kuvugana nka mbere, gusa ubyanga amarangamutima. Niba uje gukemura iyi mibanire, ureke umubonano uko ariho, nubwo waba ufite igitsina cya "gicuti". Shakisha imbaraga zo guhanagura iyi page mubuzima bwawe no kugarura imbaraga mu gitabo gikurikira.
Menya ibyo utegereje kuva kumatariki
Nubwo igihe gihagije gihita kandi wumva witeguye umubano mushya, gusesengura icyo ikosa ryawe ryarageze (cyangwa ibihe) mugihe wibeshye kumuntu. Birashoboka ko utabishaka guhitamo abo bafatanyabikorwa bifuza, cyangwa bagakurikiza igitekerezo cyinshuti n'abavandimwe, gusuzuma ubushobozi bushobora kuba umufatanyabikorwa mu gihe kirekire n'amaso yabo. Mugihe ufite umudendezo, ndumva ibyo ukeneye rwose.
Fata umwanya wenyine
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Wige gutega amatwi wenyine
Mugihe dukura kandi tukabona uburambe, akenshi dutangira gufata ibitekerezo nimyitwarire yabandi bantu, bishobora kuba bidahuye n'ibyifuzo byacu. Ntabwo byimazeyo bidashimishije mugihe igitekerezo rusange kigira ingaruka kumahitamo yubuzima bwa satelite. Wibuke ko ugomba kubana nuyu muntu uzagira, kandi ntabwo ari umukunzi wawe, mugihe rusange kigusunikira munsi yameza, kigaragaza ko unyurwa numukunzi wawe. Umva wenyine.
Fungura Gishya
Iyo ingingo zimwe zihora zitwarwa nibitekerezo byacu, ishyirwa mubikorwa ryayo biratinda kuva kera. Paradoxique, ariko ukuri. Gerageza guhinduranya ikintu gishya, kurugero, wiyandikishe, amaherezo, amasomo udafite umwanya muto, cyangwa ushakishe ibyo ukunda. Intego yacu nuguhindura kwibanda kubitekerezo. Ariko, burigihe witegure mumateraniro mashya, ntukange gukundana uzabona ko "umuntu wawe" azagusanga wenyine.