Ubushakashatsi bwa 2017 bugira ati: "Nk'uko ubushakashatsi bwimbitse bwo kunyurwa n'imibonano mpuzabitsina kurusha abagore bafite imyaka 40+. Emera, aya makuru ntabwo yishimye? Kenshi na kenshi, ibibazo bivuka na gato kubera ibibazo byubuzima - abaturage babo baharanira gukira byinshi. Kutumva hafi ijana ku ijana byimanza bivuga kudashobora kuvuga mumagambo unyuze mumunwa. Ibitekerezo, kugerageza kureshya, gusura amasomo yimibonano mpuzabitsina - ibi byose ntacyo bimaze niba udakeneye umukunzi icyarimwe. Muri ibi bikoresho, igabanijwemo inama - Nigute Kutababaza Ishema rya mugenzi wawe, tuvugana nawe ku mibonano mpuzabitsina.
Ndi inyuguti yambere yinyuguti
Kuva mu bwana, twiga gutekereza kubandi no kwigomwa. Ibyo birahuye numufatanyabikorwa udafite ishingiro "" sinshobora kubikora. Tangira ibisobanuro byibyiyumvo byawe n'ibyifuzo byawe, kandi ntabwo birega abo mukundana. Ibirego biherekejwe n'amarangamutima y'ibitero, agasuzuguro cyangwa kwirengagiza - kimwe muri byo kizababazwa n'umuntu wakundaga, kizamutera inkunga yo kugerageza kugerageza. Icyifuzo icyo aricyo cyose gishobora kugaragazwa nurukundo no kwifuza kwishima rusange: Ukurikije urujijo rwawe rwiza ruzasomwa kurwego rutagira ubwenge. Aho kuba "uri umumbaro kandi ntukansome hafi yanjye mu gihe cyo kwibasirwa," mbwira "ndagukunda, ndashaka rero kubona ubwuzu - reka dusome kenshi?".
Wibande ku byiyumvo byawe
Vuga umwihariko
Ndetse n'ibibazo byinshi mubibazo bijyanye no kuba hafi yumuntu ntibyaye biteye ubwoba mugihe avuze imibonano mpuzabitsina atari umufatanyabikorwa wigihe gito, ahubwo akunda. Kugirango ikiganiro kigire ibisubizo, guteranya n'imbaraga no gusobanura icyo utinyuzwe. Kurugero, "Nyuma yo kuvuka k'umwana, imitsi yanjye yimbitse ntiyaje kuri tone - ndashaka kwinjira mu mpera zimbitse kuruta uko bisanzwe ... Reka dusuzume ibikinisho?" Nibyiza kuruta kuvuga ko ntacyo wumva mu mibonano mpuzabitsina - hano impamvu ishobora gukomeretsa ibintu bitandukanye. Kugira ikibazo cyihariye, wowe numufatanyabikorwa biba byoroshye kubikemura hamwe nimbaraga zifatika.
Ntugereranye na kimwe
Tekereza ko umuntu ukunda ari uwambere mubuzima bwawe. Uku kwakirwa ni ingirakamaro kubakunda kwibuka abahoze bakorana na buri rubanza. Gereranya uyu mukunzi hamwe na we kera no muri iki gihe. Reba nyuma yigikorwa cyarangiye: Vuga n'ijwi rirenga, kugirango uwo ukunda asobanure ngo "chips" yongeye gusaba, kandi uko bikwiye kwanga. Umukunzi nkuyu arashobora guhindura ikiganiro cyawe ku nsanganyamatsiko zikomeye.
Kureka ibiganiro byimbitse kubitumanaho kugiti cyawe
Komeza amenyo yawe
Kandi abakobwa nabasore icyaha bavuga kubyerekeye igitsina n'inshuti magara. Ni ikintu kimwe, niba uhora uhindura abafatanyabikorwa - mubiganiro bahinduka "badafite isura" kandi ni inkuru nziza kubiganiro byisosiyete. Ikibazo gitandukanye rwose ni mugihe ufite umubano uhoraho: ntibishoboka ko umugabo wawe yishimira kumenya ko abakunzi bawe bazi ibyo akunda nibyo Lingerie abikurura. Niba ufunguye ibiganiro ku ngingo yimbitse, nyamuneka, ariko, imyitozo ikunda kuva mu biganiro nkibi inyuma yinzugi zabo.