"Uraho!
Mubuzima bwanjye hari inkuru ibabaje cyane. Ndashaka rwose kubimenya no gushaka inkunga. Mperutse kugira ubukwe, ariko ntibyabaye. Hamwe na fiancé yanjye, nahuye mbere yubukwe. Twahise dukundana kandi mubyukuri nyuma y'amezi abiri yangize igihano. Nemeye ntatekereje. Ibintu byose byari byiza. Twatekereje ku biruhuko, urugendo rw'ubukwe. Ariko icyumweru kibanziriza ubukwe, namenye ko yampinduye ... kandi byari ibicucu, gusa nasinze mu kabari hamwe nabakobwa baryamayo. Ubukwe bwacitse, mubisanzwe, umunezero wacu warasenyutse. Ndazimiye rwose, sinzi uburyo bwo kurushaho. Gusa sinkwiriye mumutwe wanjye, ibishoboka. Yarayeshye mu rukundo, kandi byaragaragaye ko ibyo byiyumvo bivuye ku mutima! Ubu yicuza cyane igikorwa cye. Irasaba imbabazi. Ndamukunda, sinshaka kubura, ariko sinzi ukona kubana neza. Kubabarira cyangwa ntabwo. Nagiye mu rujijo, ndashaka rwose kumva byibuze ibisobanuro bimwe bisobanuro byibibaho, byibuze ndumva bike. Inna
Mwaramutse, inna!
Ndagushimiye cyane ubutwari bwawe no gufungura. Ntekereza ko abasomyi benshi bifatanya nanjye.
Mubyukuri, kuba twarahuye nuwo mwashakanye, turumvikana rwose. Twumva ko uyu ari umuntu wifuza kunyura mubuzima hamwe, yiteho, asangire akababaro n'ibyishimo. Ariko hagati yabamenyereye nubukwe, abantu benshi bahitamo gutegereza igihe gito yo kumenyana, bamenyere, bagura umukandida kandi bagura kandi ...
Psychology igabanya ibyiciro bimwe byiterambere ryumuryango. Umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze y'Abanyamerika Jay Haley asobanura ibihe bikurikira:
1. Igihe cyo gukuraho - iyo urubyiruko ruhuye, ariko ntiturabana.
2. Gushyingirwa udafite abana - kuva mu ntangiriro yo kubana cyangwa gushyingirwa mbere yo kuvuka k'umwana wa mbere.
3. Kwaguka - Umuryango ufite abana bato: Kuva kubyara umwana wambere mbere yo kuvuka.
4. Guhatira - Icyiciro cyo gushyingirwa ukuze. Iki nikibazo cyuburezi bwabana, burakomeza kugeza umwana wa mbere avuye munzu.
5. Icyiciro abana bava munzu buhoro buhoro.
6. "Icyari cyubusa" - Abashakanye bongeye guma jyenyine nyuma yo kugenda kw'abana bose.
7. Monostadium - icyiciro aho umuntu wo mubafatanyabikorwa akomeza kuba umwe nyuma y'urupfu rw'undi.
Inzibacyuho kuva kumurongo umwe ujya mubindi ntabwo buri gihe yoroshye, ibibazo birashoboka. Kandi byumvikana rwose, kuko ubuzima buhinduka cyane, hagaragara ibisobanuro bishya bigaragara mubucuti, amaherezo, abantu bafite urwego rushya. Kandi birakenewe muburyo runaka kubimenyera.
Birasa nkaho inzibacyuho yihuse yo kurambariza gushyingirwa yateje induru ikomeye cyane kubyo wahisemo. N'ubundi kandi, ishyingiranwa bisobanura cyane cyane gutakaza intera iri hagati yabantu babiri, kongera inshingano zumubano. Nkuko bidatangaje bidasanzwe, ariko ubuhemu kuruhande rwibinjira mubukwe ntibukunze kubaho, kandi rimwe na rimwe ndetse no mubihe abantu baboneka igihe kirekire. Mubisanzwe ni ikimenyetso cyuko umwe mubafatanyabikorwa atiteguye ndetse no gufata umwanzuro mwinshi.
Nibyo, ubuhemu bwangije umubano wawe. Ariko uko byagenda kose, birumvikana kugerageza kubimenya, cyangwa kwitabaza ubufasha bwinzobere. N'ubundi kandi, umubano watangiye gusa, kandi byose birashobora guhinduka cyane.