Vuba cyane, umwaka mushya, ariko, kuko bikunze kubaho, nta myumvire ya buri wese. Byasa nkaho gutegereza icyumweru cyibirori bigomba kuba byishimo kandi bitera icyizere, kuki bidakora? Twakoresheje ubushakashatsi buke kandi twiteguye gusangira ibisubizo ushobora kwimenye wenyine.
"Ntabwo wishimira ntabwo ari umuntu uwo ari we wese"
Umwaka mushya ni umunsi mukuru wumuryango, hafi ntamuntu witeguye kuguma muri iri joro ryubumaji umwe umwe kuri TV. Ariko, niba mugihe cyibiruhuko ntaho bishoboka guhura nabakunzi cyangwa inshuti, abantu akenshi bahitamo kutizihiza na gato. Rimwe na rimwe, kwigunga k'umwaka mushya urashobora guhamagara no kwangwa gusa, ahubwo ni urwango rw'ibi biruhuko, kuko kuzenguruka abantu bizihizaga no gutaka abantu mu muhanda muri sosiyete nini, ikirere gishobora guhamagarwa rwose. Kandi nubwo uyumwaka cluster nini yabantu mumihanda, ndetse nibindi byinshi byo muri resitora nikinyampeke, rwose ntibizagaragara, kumva ufite irungu mugihe cyijoro kinini ntibishobora kuboneka.
"Ntabwo nashoboye kubona isosiyete ibereye"
Bikunze kubaho kugirango bisa nkaho bishimane nawe, ahubwo kubwimpamvu ntashaka. Byongeye kandi, birashobora kuba bene wanyu ukunda, ariko uzi neza ko icyegeranyo kiri kumeza, ikiganiro cyamakuru yumwaka, ibibazo bitameze neza kubavandimwe - ntabwo aribyo byose wari witeze mu biruhuko. Cyangwa inshuti ziteganya gukusanya isosiyete nini, ndetse nabagutumiye, urumva ko imyidagaduro iteganijwe nayo itari iyanyu. Nkigisubizo, gahunda yo muri wikendi yumwaka mushya yaracitse kandi ntabwo yashizweho. Aho mubihe nkibi byihuta.
Ntabwo abantu bose bafite isosiyete nziza
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"Umuntu wese yiruka ahantu, sinshaka kuba"
Bibaho ko hysteria rusange (muburyo bwiza) itanga ubushake bwo kwifatanya no kwicara ku isahani, uhitamo impano, ushaka kwihisha kuva mumwaka mushya kandi "ntabwo gukomera "kugeza mu mpera z'ibiruhuko. Niba umwuka nibindi kuri zeru, kandi ibintu byose bivuga gusa aho imitako numwuka bishobora gufatwa nkimpano mugihe cyo kugabanyirizwa, ibibi gusa. Mu buryo bumwe, iyi miterere irashobora kwitwa kwigunga muri rubanda.
"Nta kintu cyiza cyabaye, ni iki kugira ngo wishimire?"
Umwaka urangiye, biramenyerewe muri make, ariko abantu bose barashobora kuvuga ko ibintu byinshi byumwaka byari byishimo? Biragoye, cyane cyane niba tuvuga ibyabaye mumwaka ushize. Ariko tumaze kuvuga ko dushobora guhindura imyumvire yacu, bityo tukagira icyo tubona umwaka ushize utazana umunezero, gerageza kwibuka abantu bose beza - basimbuye kwibuka ibintu byiza - byibanda kuri bo batekereza uburyo bwiza kandi bushimishije kugutegereza umwaka utaha. Nta kwiheba!