Ni he aba bagore bababaye baturuka he, tubona hafi buri munsi? Bajyana natwe mumodoka rusange kandi duhita twumva ko umuntu afite ibibazo yo kwihesha agaciro.
Kwihesha agaciro bitangiye gushinga mu bwana, muri iki gihe cyane biterwa n'umubano w'ababyeyi ku mukobwa muto: Kunegura buri gihe kunegura abantu bakuru barashobora kurimbura indwara ya psyche ikomeye.
Kwihesha agaciro bitangiye kugaragara mumashuri abanza mugihe abana bagabanijwemo ibigo bito kandi bamenye umuyobozi wabo, nkuko ubyumva, umukobwa mubisobanuro byacu ntabwo ahinduka. Kandi gusa umuhanga mu bya preychologue ashoboye guhindura imyifatire ye, udafite ibi, umukobwa ukiri muto afite ibibazo byinshi mugihe kizaza.
Umugore bigoye gufata icyemezo kubikorwa byose
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Benshi kandi batangaje uburyo kubara kubara umutekano muke. Mubyukuri, ibintu byose biroroshye, tuzavuga kubimenyetso nyamukuru byumugore gushidikanya. Niba ubona byinshi mubijyanye nawe wenyine, tekereza birashoboka, ubungubu urashobora guhindura ubuzima bwawe.
Umugore ntabwo yihanganira ishimwe muri aderesi ye
Twashoboye kumenya ko ibibazo byose by Dsyche bava mu bwana, bivuze ko imyumvire yabo iyijyanayo. Niba umugore atangiye gushimwa, bavuga ku mbaraga ze, kandi aho kwakira ishimwe, itangira gutsindishiriza no kwemeza ibinyuranye - imbere yawe urugero rw'umugore udafite umutekano, ko ari kuri byiza nkabandi, niba atari bibi. Hamwe no kwishyiriraho biragoye kubyizera.
Biramugora kwanga
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Ahora yicuza
"Nigute namenyana n'uyu mugabo, ari mwiza kuri njye!", "Ntabwo nzagura iyi myambarire, mfite ibinure cyane!" Umenyereye? Benshi bafite abakunzi bboters batsindishiriza aho basanzwe batewe imbaraga ntabwo aribyo.
Umugore ntazi kuvuga "oya"
Kubera ko umugore utazwi biterwa nibitekerezo rusange, bizahora byemeranya nibitekerezo byose, nubwo batabikunda. Ahantu imbere irwanya, ariko mu gufungura kwanga umuntu udashobora - mu buryo butunguranye ntibazabyumva kandi ntibazongera gushyikirana.
Ahindura inshingano
Abantu nkabo biragoye cyane gufata icyemezo kandi ntibatandukira gusa. Birashoboka cyane, umugore utazwi azatekereza igihe kirekire, hanyuma ahindura umwanya ushinzwe undi muntu, kuko ubu aribwo buryo bwiza bwo kudasubiza ibikorwa byawe.
Abantu nkabo ni babi kugirango bahagarike
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