Bigaragara ko, amaherezo, haraboneka - "umuntu umwe". Arerekana ibimenyetso byo kwitabwaho, akunze guhamagara kandi muri rusange yitwara nkumugabo nyawe. Kandi yego, akenshi bibaho, ariko, urebye, umuntu mwiza arashobora gukeka, kandi arabikora nyuma yawe " Kandi umugore ntashobora kumva ibyo yakoze nabi. Nta na kimwe. Gusa umukunzi wawe mushya yagushimishije cyane mumitsi miremire. Nigute ushobora kumva ko umubano wawe utazakurikira? Twagerageje kubimenya.
Yahise yihutira "gusohoka"
Umugabo udatekereza nkumufatanyabikorwa kuva kera, uzagerageza kukuzana vuba, kandi kubwibyo azagomba kuvuga ibikorwa byinshi: bimaze kumara ku mipaka yawe , uzahobera, wenda, gukora ibitekerezo bidashidikanywa gato. Ikintu nuko adatinya kubanga kwawe, kuva icyo aricyo cyose agomba gushaka umugore mushya.
IKINYOMA. Ibinyoma byinshi
Ntabwo tuvuga abapfumu babigize umwuga, ariko inama zabo nizo zijyanye no gukoresha abagabo benshi bashaka imyidagaduro yibyumweru bibiri. Umwe rero muri gahunda yagaragaye muri "Akazi" ya Picper ninkuru ivunika, akangura inkamba nyayo yo guhiga amarangamutima, bifasha kubona ingingo nyinshi zo kwigirira icyizere vuba. Umugabo nkuyu azahora amenya ko atengushye umubano kandi ko atagishaka kwizera urukundo, umugore na we arashobora gutekereza ati: "Byagenda bite iyo nzabishimisha?" Kandi yihuta mubucuti, utumva ko byagaragaye ko ari "ku nkoni".
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Ntabwo yitaye kumarangamutima
Amayeri akurikira ni yihariye kurenza kimwe cya kabiri cyumugore, ariko abagabo bamenyereye ubuhanga, birakwiye gusa kubona uburambe bwinshi hamwe nigice cyiza. Umugabo, wiringira imibonano mpuzabitsina mugihe gito gishoboka, kizagerageza guhindura inzozi kuri wewe mumugabo, ariko hanyuma ... kubura mugihe gito. Mubisanzwe, mubwoba hanyuma utangire kubishakisha. Kandi akoresha iki gihe "gufata". Kenshi na kenshi, nyuma yo mugihe inama gitunguranye, umugore arimo gushaka uburyo bwo gutinda uyu mugabo kugirango atazimira amaso igihe kirekire, akamuha imibonano mpuzabitsina. Mubyukuri, yashakaga ibi.