Mu bihe, iyo umugore yumva yigenga kuruta mbere hose, haracyari abakobwa bambara abashinzwe kuba bambaye cyane, kandi "bifasha" muribi byose: umuryango, inshuti, inshuti, abo mukorana. Twagerageje kumenya uko umukecuru w'imyaka 30 utuye ku isi abagore bishimye n'ababyeyi bategeka.
Sosiyete ubugome itegeka imiterere
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Gutinya burundu kwamaganwa
Gusa abanebwe ntibazagaragaza umukobwa ukiri muto mugihe adahari "umuryango usanzwe", bifite agaciro ko intambwe gusa yinjiye mumyaka 30. Ariko rero, wemere ubwabo - watangajwe kandi nabagore bamenyereye batabonye inguzanyo nabana bake mumyaka mike ishize. Noneho urashobora kumva ibi bintu kubyo wabonye.
Niba "ufite amahirwe" hamwe na bene wabo, mumaso yumuryango niyo ntego shingiro yumugore, ukomeze gutuza cyane. Muri 20, utarashyirwaho ko igihe kirageze cyo gutekereza ku bashakanye. Ntabwo. Uratangiye kwiga ubuzima bukuze, ariko hafi yibyishimo 25 byumuryango byiyongera: Njye na nyoko atangiye gutsinda bene wabo bigometseho ibibazo: "Nibyo, nta kuntu, yego?" Kandi mama asigaye kugirango akurekure imbere ya bene wabo. Ariko nyuma yigihe runaka, bizatangira guhangayikishwa nikibazo cyuburungu, hamwe nigitutu kiri mumurongo wa hafi kugirango uhangane cyane.
Ntukambuke
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Muri iki gihe, muriki gihe ntashaka gukoresha umwanya wawe kubandi bantu: waranduye, urashobora kwigurira kwisi, kugura ibyo ubona byose, kora ikintu ukunda. Kandi umuntu akureho ubuzima bwawe?
Mubihe isi yose idashaka kukwumva, ntibishoboka bigira ingaruka kumiterere yawe. Abavandimwe ba Collettril ninshuti ntibashobora kumenya byose: Birashoboka ko wakiriye amaboko nimitima myinshi, ni bangahe batarota, buri wese muri aba bagabo yagaragaye mugihe gikwiye. Kandi ni nde ushobora kwemeza umunezero mu bashakanye? Ntawe uzi uzaba umuntu uzaba umuntu utuje kandi wamahoro uzabwira ibiro byiyandikisha. " Kandi uzababara muri iyi sano uzaba, kandi ntukigere, ushishikaye kugerageza kurongora.
Irungu rirashoboka hamwe numugabo
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Mugihe igitekerezo cyo gushyingirwa kizagusura nta gutabara - gusa muriki kibazo urashobora gutangira gushakisha umuntu. Cyane cyane kuva ubu ntabwo arikibazo na gato, birakwiye kureba hirya no hino kandi birashoboka ko uzabona amazi, kubwimpamvu runaka utitaye kuri bose. Kora ubushake bwumutima kandi ntukemere ko abandi babaho ubuzima bwawe.