Biragoye kwiyumvisha umwana yuzuye umwana utinze wize imyitwarire myiza. Reka dufate umwanzuro ku bitekerezo: imyitwarire myiza - Niki?
Mbere na mbere:
- Inyangamugayo (Isuku yumuntu, imyitwarire yimbonerahamwe, imyifatire yitondeye kubintu, gukuramo imyanda).
- Ijambo riteye ikinyabupfura (kuramutsa, gusezera, murakoze, saba imbabazi).
- Impuhwe (guceceka kubato, inyamaswa).
- Kwihanganirana (imyifatire ituje kandi yubashye kubatameze: abantu bo mu bundi bwenegihugu, urwego rw'uburezi, ubutunzi, n'ibindi).
- Umuco wo gutumanaho (wubaha abakuru, ku mugore, ubushobozi bwo gutanga ubufasha).
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bavuga ko kumenyekanisha ari ngombwa mu bikorwa by'ababyeyi. Gushyikirana n'umwana, birahagije kugirango ukomeze ibisubizo kubibazo bibiri mumutwe wanjye: "Ndimo gukora iki?" Na "Kuki nkora ibi?" None se kuki ukeneye imyitwarire myiza, kuki ari ngombwa cyane gukingikanya kuva bakiri bato? Buri mwaka muri societe yacu kurusha abandi. Niba umuntu wo mu kigero akiri muto yiga kuba mwiza, kubahiriza amahame yimyitwarire, byoroshye kwerekana neza binyuze mubitekerezo byiza, noneho mugihe kizaza cyamenyereye byoroshye mubidukikije, bizashobora kubaka a Umubano mu itsinda, uzizeye.
Kandi ni gute? Indorerezi ya Kaleodoscope
Abanyamahanga benshi ni ikinyabupfura bidasanzwe, baharanira kwimurira abana babo. Kurugero, kimwe na kimwe cya kabiri-kimwe cya kabiri kuva Berlin azi neza ijambo rimwe - Danke (murakoze). Data uzwi cyane na Scotsish na we yigisha umukobwa we Sofie murakoze, afite amezi icyenda gusa. Ariko ntacyo bitwaye, kuko ashobora kurimbura umutwe no kumwenyura. Leonardo w'imyaka ibiri ukomoka muri Venise, urebye ababyeyi, asanzwe yiga gucungwa n'ikigo n'icyuma. Alexander w'imyaka ibiri ukomoka muri Sri Lanka ntazita nta bikoresho gusa, ahubwo no n'amaboko yabo. Barabyemera cyane. Muri Sri Lanka, abana bafite impapuro zigisha witonze gufata ibintu byose, gerageza kutababaza umuntu. Hariho kandi kubaha abakuru. Abakuru bose, dore ko uri izina rya Accchi, ntacyo bitwaye, umwana we ni umwana cyangwa utabana. Mu Budage, abantu bakunze guhindukirira abana babo bakoresheje igishushanyo mpuzagihe gito (Konjunktiv II). Bidahura ubujurire bukabije, buzumvikana: "Urashobora gukuraho ibikinisho byawe?". Abadage bamenyereye kuvuga kandi ntibakunze kubazanya kubintu bitaziguye.
Imyitwarire myiza itangirana nibice "ntishobora". Dore byibuze mpuzamahanga kumutwe wa "nyakubahwa cyangwa umudamu". Ntibishoboka:
1. Tora mu zuru.
2. Izuru.
3. Indwara ikintu kiva mumisumari.
4. Amaguru arekuye kumeza.
5. Vuga umunwa wuzuye.
6. Skat ku ntebe.
7. Kurwana nta mpamvu.
8. Hitamo ibikinisho.
9. Gufata ibintu byabandi.
10. guhagarika kuvuga.
11. Vuga cyane mu gutwara, kuganira abagenzi.
Uburusiya: Mama avuga
Mamas yose, nashoboye gutora, guhuza nikintu cyingenzi: ni ngombwa gutangirana nawe wenyine. Ntibishoboka kwigisha umwana kwizihiza ibikinisho bye niba ibibindi bya nyina bifite amababi byatatanye hafi yinzu. Ababyeyi benshi bavuga uburyo bwo kwigisha imyitwarire myiza bigoye kwitandukanya kuva kurere muri rusange. Ku manywa, niba umubyeyi abaho asana n'umwana, azahora yemera ko yitaye ku kuntu yahanaguye amaguru y'umuryango itapi, aho ugomba gukora igitekerezo n'icyo gukora iyo unyeganyeje. Birakwiriye rwose kwigisha umwana amategeko atemewe adafite agahato, yibasira yimyitwarire ye.
Abana bahora bishimira niba bavuga imigani muri bo. Kubwibyo, Mama anyura mururimi rwinkuru zishingiye ku nzego ninkuru. Cyangwa bahindukirira abanyamwuga, kuberako ingingo yinzira nziza yashyizeho imigani myinshi yigisha, ibisigo, amakarito n'ibiti. Ibitoranya bikwiranye rwose na Reoxoites, kuva kumyaka itatu kugeza kuri irindwi. Hariho kandi abo babyeyi bafite icyizere: Ntabwo ari ngombwa kwihutisha imiterere yumwana - nkubwonko bwera bwerize, bizagera kuri byose. Ni ngombwa kuri bo gukora umwuka wurukundo rutagira icyo rushingiraho no kurera. Bakora urwego ruremewe bitagaragara, ntukabure gutanga imvugo iyo ari yo yose. Mu ijambo, mubihe byose ntabwo bivuza umwana kandi ntugatware ukurikije amahame. Ababyeyi nk'abo, bashiraho ibisabwa byose mu iterambere, bakica kuruhande. Bareba neza uburyo umwana wabo ahinduka umuntu wize, nkabo ubwabo.
Amahugurwa. Inama z'ababyeyi b'inararibonye
Tangira nawe wenyine. Witondere imyitwarire yawe no kugaragara, murugo, kumubano wawe numugabo wawe n'inzu yawe. Ibisabwa kubana bitangira nibisabwa ubwabo.
Shigikira intangiriro zose z'umwana. Inshuti yanjye Timoteyo afite imyaka 3,5 gusa, ariko yishimira afasha nyina guteka: gukubita igi, indabyo hamwe na cream ya cake. Urungano rwe rwa Sveniyatov - ubwe afata mope. Aba bana ntibari bahinduye bane, ariko mbega ukuntu bashobora gukora ibintu bikuze! Tegeka umwana wawe, umufate inshingano mu bugingo bwanjye. Kandi amaherezo, gushimwa, utitaye kubisubizo.
Imigani, amakarito, ibitaramo. Ntabwo ari ngombwa gusoma gusa, kwerekana, gufata, ahubwo no kuganira. Ninde intwari nziza ari mbi? Nigute umwana yagera kurubuga rwimiterere nyamukuru? Noneho ibintu byose byagaragaye byize neza. Kurugero:
Ikinamico "Euseik na bitanu byamarozi" bizashimangira amagambo yubupfura mumitekerereze yumwana muto.
Umukino-Umukino-Umukino "Inyuguti z'ikinyabupfura" Lydmila Vasilyeva-Gangnus izafasha gucengeza ubuhanga bwo guhangana n'abana muri sosiyete. Umwanditsi yiyambaje umwana no kubabyeyi.
Ikarito kuri Cota Leopold - urugero rwiza rwineza nubucuti.
Filime (cyangwa igitabo) V. Suteeva "umufuka wa pome" uzigisha umwana kugira ubuntu, ntabwo ari umururumba.
Igisigo cya S. Marshak "Isomo ni ikinyabupfura" gishobora kwigira kumutima no gutora mugihe gikwiye.
Tegura ibiruhuko. Ku ngingo iyo ari yo yose, vuga "umunsi w'ibabi rya mbere icyatsi". Mugihe hari imyiteguro yo kwizihiza, urashobora kwiga: Gusukura no guteka inzu, guteka ibiryo, serivisi yimbonerahamwe, imikino yabana, imikino yabana. Ibyanditswe nk'ibyo bizigisha umwana kwitwara n'abantu, komeza kumeza, wakire abashyitsi. Nasebye iminsi mikuru, nagize icyo ntegura igihe kinini, nagira inama na mama, naje rirakabije kandiga amarushanwa.
Ibibazo bihuriweho bizazana urukundo ku bana. Ibyiza iyo umukobwa afasha Mama, kandi umuhungu ni Papa. Kurugero, umukobwa wanjye ahora amfasha kwikuramo no gupakururwa imyenda y'imbere mu mashini imesa, atangira babiri n'umurizo w'umwaka. Abahungu bari kumwe barashobora gutuma agaburira inyoni, gusana akazu kwose. Gutangira, birahagije kuzana no kubika ibikoresho.
Guha umwana gukura. Maxim kuva mumyaka ibiri izana intebe ya nyirakuru mugihe aje gusura. Mama Maxim ntanigeze amubaza ati: kumureba, umuhungu ahindura inzira kuri we wenyine.
Ibihe by'icyitegererezo. Wowe n'umwana uzagira ubukangurambaga kuri theatre cyangwa kwambuka ndende, aho ibintu bidasanzwe kandi hari amategeko agenga imyitwarire. Cyangwa irababaza buri gihe abana kurubuga. Noneho uku mu nzira. Gusohora inyandiko y'ibintu biri imbere, hanyuma uyikine ku nshingano.
Wibuke ko abana bakunze kwitwara bidahagije iyo bamwitayeho. Nubwo bigoye, komeza utuze, uhure kugirango umwana azitware neza. Humura. Kuberako umwana ashobora kwibagirwa gukaraba intoki niba yuzuye ibitekerezo byurugendo, ntibigomba kweza amenyo yanjye numunaniro. Tanga gukuraho ibikinisho hamwe, mubisanzwe umwana ufite umunezero akora hamwe nababyeyi be. Ibyo wahisemo byose, ntutegereze ibisubizo byihuse. Kunda umwana wawe kandi ntuzibagirwe: Nurugero nyamukuru kuri we.
Tatyana Tikhonova