Iyo gutwita igihe kirekire bitabaho, umugore afite ibibazo byinshi: Birakwiye guhangayikishwa cyangwa urashobora gutegereza uwo twavugana n'aho ugomba gutangira ubushakashatsi? N'ubundi kandi, mbere y'ibibazo by'imyororokere, byamenyerewe ko bishinja umugore. Ariko, ibintu byinshi bigaragazwa uyumunsi, ntabwo aribwo buryo bwo gutwita, bijyanye n'imbaraga z'abagabo.
Impamvu ziganisha ku bugumba, gahunda nyinshi na bushakashatsi zubatswe muburyo buhoro buhoro, kuva byoroshye kugeza bigoye, kugenzura ibintu byose bishoboka. Umuyobozi mukuru wa "Centre ya Repubulika yo kubyara Umuryango n'umushinga w'igenamigambi", ashinzwe ibibazo bijyanye no kwitiranya abagabo.
- Andrei Stepanovich, ni uruhe ruziga rw'ibibazo bashobora kuboneka mubyakiriwe bwa mbere? Kurugero, umugabo cyangwa umuryango, wasaga nkubukwe?
- Umuntu w'umusoviyeti ku itegeko nshinga afite uburenganzira bwo kubona indwara nyinshi ako kanya. Umubare munini wibibazo nibishoboka byubushakashatsi ni ubugari. Kandi mubyukuri, abahanga batoranijwe mumyaka yakazi bafite ubutware, uburambe n'amahirwe birimo. Turagerageza kuva mubyo umuntu akeneye, kandi ntabwo duhereye kubikorwa byinzego no korohereza abakozi. Birababaje cyane, ariko utanga ibisubizo bikuru. Igikorwa cya muganga nukwemeza abantu ko niba hari umuryango, abashakanye bakomeye, noneho ibindi bibazo byose bijyanye no gusama no kubyara umwana amaherezo bizakemurwa. Ubuvuzi bwa Ubuvuzi nimyitozo bimaze kwegeranya uburambe buhagije, imbaraga zo kwivuza ziyongereye mumyaka yashize, ibisubizo byagaragaye. Kubisuzuma byibanze, umugabo afite ubugenzuzi buhagije, SperMograms, Ultrasound na Hormonal. Hamwe niyi makuru, kwisuzumisha bikozwe murwego rwo hejuru rwo kwizerwa.
- Niba abashakanye batavutse umwana, birashoboka ko hari ubwoko bumwe bwo hejuru?
- Impaka zisa ntabwo ari siyansi. Uburumbuke bwabantu barashobora gutandukana, guhuza imyorokereko byabantu biri hejuru cyane no kurwego rwimiryango. Genotoype ni kaleidoscope ya 4 yose amino aside ihuza muburyo butandukanye. Niba abashakanye bafite imyaka myinshi, bivuze ko atigeze ahangana na iki kibazo, cyangwa ngo abone uburyo bwo kurangiza, cyangwa uburyo bwo kuvura bwakoreshejwe, ibintu bidahagije. Byongeye kandi, ubugumba no kutabyara ntibigomba kwitiranywa.
Ikintu cyingenzi cyuburumbuke ni imyaka yumugore. Nyuma yimyaka 28, kugabanuka byoroshye mubishoboka byimyororokere biratangira, nyuma ya mirongo ine - ibyago byo guhinduka kwa generi birakura. Mu buzima, 95% by'ibitekerezo bibaho mu mwaka wa mbere wo guhuza imibonano mpuzabitsina y'abashakanye nta bunzi, bityo nyuma y'umwaka w'ubuzima, buremewe kuvuga ku "gushyingirwa kutagira imbuto." Mbere, uru rubanza rwanganaga nimyaka 2, kandi muri Amerika hakiriho - imyaka 4.
Inzira nyamukuru ni ibyagezweho byo gutwita byihuse vuba bishoboka kuva kuzenguruka. Nubwo ingaruka nziza zo kwivuza zigerwaho no mumyaka 45-50. Ku mugabo, ikintu cyimyaka ntabwo ari ngombwa, nubwo abasaza bakunze kuvuka abana bafite ubumuga bwimitekerereze, byumwihariko, hamwe na Autism. Igitekerezo cyiza kivuga ko hamwe nimyaka "ireme" yabana ari hejuru, bikubiyemo abantu ku giti cyabo kandi byiteguye kubabyeyi, ubushobozi bwabo bwo kwimurira umwana uburambe bwabo nubumenyi bwabo. Ubushakashatsi bwimyaka yashize bwerekana ko ubushobozi bwikibazo cyateye imbere cyane kandi byumwihariko kuruta uko byafatwaga mbere. Ubwonko bwumwana wavutse ni matrix idasanzwe yamakuru yandika ubushakashatsi kuva bwa mbere kuri "isuku". Mu miryango ifite ababyeyi bakuze, imyifatire ku bana irubaha, bangana. Abana bumva neza ibyo kwigaragaza.
- Mu Burusiya, umubare w'abagore b'ingeri z'imyororokere kubera impamvu zitandukanye, harimo demokarasi, badafite abasambanyi, ari menshi. Abaganga bagira inama iki muri uru rubanza?
- Umwana umwe umugore ashaka kubyara uko byagenda kose, atitaye ku kuba umufatanyabikorwa, umutekano, ahantu hamwe nigihe cyo gutura. Nibyo, kandi itandukaniro rikomeye mubagore ba cohort yubuhinzi bwaka kandi abagabo bafite imyaka ishaje gusa. Mu Burusiya, amategeko agenga ikoranabuhanga ry'imyororokere, bumwe mu buntu bw'imyororokere, uyu munsi, azi uburenganzira bwumugore wigunze kugirango akoreshe tekinoroji yimyororokere adafite ubuhanga bwimyororokere nta mbogamizi. Njye mbona, bigomba kororwa no kugaragara k'umwana wese wifuzwa kandi ufite ubuzima bwiza. Ibindi byose - ku nshuro ya kabiri, gutinyuka. Umuntu azavuka.
- Reka dusubire ku bantu. Niba umuganga yasuzumwe - impotence ...
- Ubushobozi bwo guhuza imibonano mpuzabitsina burimo kumugaragaro mubipimo bya "ubuzima bwiza" tutitaye kumyaka yumuntu. Naho ijambo "impotence", kumpamvu zimyitwarire ziva muriyi mazina yo kwisuzumisha, imiti yamaze kwanga kuva kera. Gukora ubudakora ku buryo bwateganijwe ku byiciro 5 - aho 0 ni ukubura kurenga ku manani, naho 5 ni ko imibonano yuzuye. Vuga umugabo: "Ntabwo ufite imbaraga" zirashobora kutamenya gusoma no kutamenya no kudakunda umugore. Ubundi se, ku mugabo mugihe ibintu byose bimeze neza bifite imbaraga? Iyo ashaka kubaho mugihe afite amafaranga, arabishaka, yikunda. Kandi iyo afite ikibazo cyo kurimbuka, arakurikizwa, hari ubwoba bwo guhana icyaha - bikora byangiza. 95% by'ubuvuzi, biherekejwe n'indwara z'imibonano mpuzabitsina, ni ingaruka zo kwiheba. No kugarura bizatwara igihe.
Ibintu byose bizaterwa nibyo afite aho atunze, ni uwuhe muryango, mbega imitekerereze, niyihe mico azagira icyo umuco muri iki kibazo.
Uyu munsi, cyane cyane hamwe no kuza mu itsinda rishya ryibiyobyabwenge kugirango mvure imikorere mibi idahwitse, ibishoboka byo kuvura ibihakanyi byaguwe cyane. Kurugero, umubare wibikorwa kugirango wubone imboro hafi inshuro 10 zagabanutse, umubare wubujurire ufunganye wagabanutse, ubujurire bwibanze bunyura mu baganga, abakora imyitozo rusange. Iyi ni inzira yisi.
Siyanse yikinyejana XXI ihinduka kwiheba ijyanye nibihe byubuzima bwabantu muri societe. Hafi ya byose, muri 95% byimanza, kwiheba mu bagabo biherekejwe no kudakora neza mu buryo butangaje: Kwitegura cyane, ubwoba bwo gutegereza bugenda bwiyongera. Kubwibyo, umubare wibitsina bigabanuka. Hano akenshi birakomeye kubantu babiri na muganga kwandika ibintu byose kuri "Prostatite", "ubudahangarwa", "ikibazo kigira uruhare runini" hamwe na kashe kidafite umubano muto, ariko emerera igihe gito gutinda Icyemezo cyikibazo - cyaba ikibazo cyiza cyubuvuzi cyangwa ikibazo cyubufatanye bwimibonano mpuzabitsina. Nibwo bwa nyuma bwemeza imbaraga z'imiryango, ingo. Ikintu gikomeye cyubuzima bwabagabo ni umugore ubwe.
- Abagabo bangahe baguhindukirira?
- Abashakanye babayeho mu mwaka urenze umwe, bashaka umwana, ariko ntibashobora kubitangira, nta gusama. Nibyiza, abarwayi benshi bafite ibibi mu iterambere, guca intege imikorere yimibonano mpuzabitsina, anomaly.
Noneho andraology, ubugumba, benshi bitwa "inzobere" zishora mubuhengabya. Ariko, reka tuvuge ko ikidendezi cyabarwayi ba andrologique ntirusebanya kandi bamenya ko Carlatan yoroshye, kuburyo akenshi bafata imyaka ibiri cyangwa itatu mu buvuzi "butagira umumaro" mbere yuko umugabo agera kubanyamwuga ". Muri rusange, kimwe na kimwe mu buryo bwimbitse, 40% by'ibyumba gusa, bisuzumwa no kutabyara cyangwa kutagira uburwayi, kugera kuri muganga. 15-20% bitangwa no kuvurwa.
- Ariko nigute, mumbabarire, kwitwara imibonano mpuzabitsina, niba barwaye?
- Nuburyo bwo kumenyera. Ibi byitwa Dysile Disikisi, kandi imitekerereze yo mumitekerereze itangira gukurikizwa. Umugore ufite uruhare runini: Numugore runaka umugabo arashobora, ariko hamwe na - oya. Mfite ingingo kuri iyi ngingo, yitwa "Ikintu cyumugore mugukora nabi." Byose biterwa numugore, muburyo bwimyitwarire ye, gusobanukirwa nikibazo. Itegeko nshinga ry'ibitsina ni ikimenyetso kireremba.
Nibyiza, muraho, umugabo aje kubyakira, ntushobora, nkumupadiri, abwira ubuzima bwanjye bwose?
- birashoboka. Mubisanzwe bibaho gutya: umwaka wumugabo cyangwa ubuzima bubiri mubashakanye. Nta gutwita, nubwo azi ko abandi bagore batwite imbere ye. Nk'uko itegeko, umugore yagiye mu nzobere, yarebye, yari ameze neza. Yabwiwe ati: "Umugabo wawe agomba kuba kubera intanga ngabo." Kandi hano hari ibibazo byinshi byo mumitekerereze kumugabo. Kubera iki? Byagenda bite se niba babonye ikintu? Kuri benshi, iyi ni ibyago. Kubwibyo, hari inzitizi. Ariko niba abashakanye bafite icyifuzo cyo gufatwa, ibibazo byose birakemuka. Umwana azaba, kandi umuryango uzabikora. Ariko hariho abadahangana ibyo bigeragezo, kuko bombi baracecetse, kandi ikibazo ntikicyakemutse. Basinziriye hamwe, bakanguke, kandi ikibazo kiracyahari. Kandi uhereye kuriyi ntuzajya aho ariho, kandi imyaka irashira. N'ibidukikije, n'ababyeyi - abantu bose barabyumva kandi baceceke neza, ariko ntabwo ari byiza ku bugingo. Kandi kwiyubaha kwa mugabo biragwa.
Niba abashakanye baje kuvurwa kubera ubugumba, ubanza ndabatumiye hamwe kugirango bahure, hanyuma mboherereje umugore kwicara muri lobby. Ikiganiro numugabo numugore bamarana ukundi.
- Kubera iki? Hariho ikintu umugore adakeneye kumenya kumugabo we? Amabanga ni ayahe?
- Kuba ko ari umuryango ugishaka ntibisobanura ko ari umwe na integer. Ntibakeneye kumenya ibihe byinshi kuri buriwese. Kurugero, Nizera ko umugabo adakeneye kuba mubitaro byababyeyi mugihe cyo kuvuka. Ubu ni ubupfu bwose bwashyizweho numuco wiburengerazuba. Waba umuganga wo guherekeza kubyara? Ntabwo ari kure yumuco wa orotodogisi, dufite igitekerezo cyicyaha, vice, ubucuti. Kandi mubagabo benshi babonye kubyara, amaraso, ibibazo byo mumitekerereze ubwabyo bitangira.
Iyo umugabo amaze kwakira asigaye wenyine, hashyizweho ibibazo byihuse.
- Ni bangahe bigira ingaruka ku mico idahwitse kandi mu bugumba bwo gukoresha inzoga na nikotine?
- Nta gitekerezo "cyane cyane". Imiti muri dosiye nini irashobora kandi kuba uburozi. Niki, inzoga zidakeneye? Bikenewe, mugihe ukeneye gushyuha, gukuraho imihangayiko, kugirango uruhuke. Igitambaro kimwe ni ugugabanuka muri cholesterol, guhangayika. Mugihe ukeneye guhitamo kuva kuri bibiri birakaye, ugomba guhitamo umuto.
Kubwibyo, ntibishoboka kuvuga bidashidikanywaho ku kaga k'inzoga n'itabi. Niba ibi bibitswe na Millennia mumuco, noneho hariho ibisobanuro bimwe.
- Niba abashakanye batavutse umwana, birashoboka ko hari ubwoko bumwe bwo hejuru? Ntibagomba kubana, cyangwa umwana ntagomba kuri iyi si?
- Iki ningengabitekerezo yo gutsindwa. Impamvu zose zishobora gushyirwaho no kuvaho. Guhuza impungenge zabantu ni hejuru cyane. Niba abashakanye badafite umwana imyaka myinshi - iyi ni imyifatire yo gusoma no kwandika kubuzima bwawe. Birumvikana ko bidashoboka kutazirikana kimwe mu bintu byingenzi - imyaka yumugore. Hano hari impinga zubushobozi bwimyororokere. Mubisanzwe, mumyaka 25, bari hejuru yimyaka 36-40.
- Kandi na nyuma ya byose, Andrei Stepanovich, subiza ikibazo cyingenzi: Birashoboka gutuma umuntu abarantuho kandi umuntu yakagombye gukora iki?
- Ntabwo ari ngombwa ko ari umugabo gusa. Birakenewe ko umugore. (Aseka.) Icya mbere - Birakenewe kurya bike. Ngiyo ibintu nyamukuru, bibi kuruta inzoga, mbi itabi - Hypodynamia n'umubyibuho ukabije. Testosterone, yakozwe kandi ikenewe mubikorwa byimibonano mpuzabitsina no gukurura, ujya kugaburira ibinure. Niba inzoga yumugabo ifite testosterone, ntushake testosterone. Kandi atamufite. Ni ngombwa cyane kutatakaza ibiro gusa, ariko ntibikire. Abagore ni imikino iteje akaga ifite uburemere. Iya kabiri nicyo kintu cyingenzi - iyi ni leta ya psyche. Ibintu byo guhangayika biragoye. Iriba ryinshi ryibintu kukazi ryakazi, ikirushijeho kuba ikigereranyo cya hormones gitanga inzira yo kugenzura sphogene. Guhangayika bikubita mubinyabuzima byose byabagabo. Kandi umugore, nawe munzira, arashobora kwishima no munsi yimashini. Hano, inyigisho zose z'iterambere riratangira: Umutware w'indwara atangira: yavugije umutwe ku kazi, umugabo arahaguruka, Tachycardarya yateye imbere, Metabolite yajugunywe mu mubiri. Niba ifunguye, umubiri uzabyihanganira, kandi niba bibaye uduce, utangira urwego mumubiri wabagabo. Ibintu byose byahujwe na stock: umuntu yihuta kuruta gusenyuka, umuntu atinda. Ariko uyobowe no guhangayika uko byagenda kose biza.
- Kandi niba nta guhangayika, umugabo arimo kureba ubuzima bwe, afite imyaka ingahe n'abagore? Nukuri muri mirongo irindwi nukuri?
- Igihe cyose umugabo akubita umutima, we n'imyaka ijana na mirongo irindwi nzaba kuramba. Ashoboye kubyara urubyaro kandi, niba umuntu afite ubuzima bwiza kandi atababara, ubwiza bwa "inzira" ntabwo bihinduka n'imyaka. Hariho kugabanuka muri tessesterone, ariko ntabwo kuri zeru. Ariko, ikibabaje, societe yabasaza yanditse yimurirwa i Sogokuru. No mu Burayi, abasaza b'imyaka mirongo irindwi baba mu buzima bw'imibonano mpuzabitsina kandi bose bari aho. Niba nta buhanga budakira, umugabo ntarwaye, we kandi mu myaka mirongo cyenda arashobora gusama umwana. Ibi kandi bireba ibikorwa byubwonko: Niba warakoze umutwe wanjye ubuzima bwanjye bwose, hanyuma imyaka ijana rwose azaba ameze neza. Nibyiza guhugura kenshi kandi byose bizakora ...