Umugore wese azi uko umuntu ashobora kubabaza no kwanga uburyo bworoshye bwo guhuza ibitsina, guhimba impamvu igihumbi badafitanye isano nukuri. Ikibazo nuko abagore benshi banga kwibeshya, guha umugabo mubugingo bwe gushidikanya kumugore wabo. Twahisemo gukusanya inama nziza cyane zizafasha gusobanurira witonze umugabo uwo nimugoroba utazacika intege.
Kugaragaza igihe
Ntugomba gusubiza igihano cy'umuntu: "Oya, sinshaka," ni umugome cyane. Umugabo azatekereza ko gutanga nyuma - gusa ntacyo bivuze, uracyakwanga. Cyangwa umufatanyabikorwa arashobora gusubiza bikabije. Tanga gutinda, nkwambwira ko uzabishimisha ejo cyangwa ikindi gihe icyo aricyo cyose. Uyu mugabo asanzwe muriki gihe azareka kwibeshya.
Ibitera umugore birashobora kuba bihagije
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Nta kinyabupfura
Turakomeza gukurikiza amayeri y'amahoro kandi twirinda amato yose no gutangira. Kugirango tutakaza amakimbirane, kwanga rugs kandi ijwi ryumvikana - abagabo bakunze kubyitwaramo mugusubiza cyane. Ikibi cyane - kugirango werekane amakosa yumugabo cyangwa gutangira kwishimisha, birashoboka, inzira nziza yo kwangiza umubano ntabwo ibaho. Igenzura amarangamutima yawe.
Ufite ubundi buryo?
Inzira nziza kandi ntutererane imibonano mpuzabitsina, ariko mugihe kimwe irinde imibonano mpuzabitsina muburyo bwa kera. Akenshi bibaho muri kiriya gihe kidashimishije mugihe inyungu zumusamyi zabafatanyabikorwa zikangura mpinga yimihango mugihe umugore ari kubyerekeye igitsina atekereza nyuma. Ubona gute ugerageje kwigarurira intoki no guhuzagura mu kanwa? Gake cyane ninde muntu uzarakara kubyerekeye.
Menyesha gahunda zawe mbere
Nk'ubutegetsi, kwemera ku mugoroba w'urukundo, natwe ubwacu twizeye umuntu. Ubona gute umuburiye mbere, uzana impaka zikomeye ku mugoroba mwiza gusa mu kigo cyiza, ariko kidatemba mu ijoro ryiza. Ni ngombwa gusubiramo hano, ariko kuba inyangamugayo, kuki uyu munsi ntakwiriye kwishima, bitabaye ibyo, umugabo arashobora kwanga umukino, kandi ko umuntu ashobora gutera imikino, kandi kurwanya ibintu bibi bishobora guteza umufatanyabikorwa.